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Texas
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1 helpful vote
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I've been a member of this website for several years and all of a sudden my account no longer works and then I made a new profile thinking the password or email address is no longer with me. And I get banned in the first 5 minutes

Date of experience: January 22, 2015
West Virginia
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My primary grip about Adam4Adam is you can't really "block" anyone. Technically, if you block someone you are either having an issue with or just don't want to see, you're blocking yourself from them. You can't see their pic or email them; HOWEVER, they can still see you and check out your profile (with exception to private pics)... they just can't contact you. WTF? My advise is to take a look at Facebook's 'block' feature. Get with common logic.

Date of experience: September 7, 2015
Alabama
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I set up my brand new account and profile. Five minuites after I was done they suspended my account. Have no idea why. They can keep the site jacked up because most gay men in Birmingham are crazy anyway.

Date of experience: July 26, 2015
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over a year old

Chris, what is your username? Our site is reliable since we have over 8 million members. There are policies to follow and if you don't follow them, it might be the reason why you got suspended. Contact support@adam4adam.com for more info on your account
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A4A Support

Pennsylvania
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16 helpful votes
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Not exactly sure why it banned not only the IP address on my computer but also the one on my phone. I have a 2nd laptop that i will check. I never held this site to any high regard but it was one of the few that made meeting up with people fairly easy. I can find what this site offered somewhere else... but... it sucks because of the folks i only really talked to on that site i will never hear from again probably. So... thanks for defeating your own purpose...

Date of experience: January 13, 2015
California
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3 helpful votes
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They have your IP address when you log in. I am what you would call an athletic twink., That and other websites take advantage of me by using my profile and looks to lure other people onto the site. They block me from meeting other guys like myself and try to pair me with ugly old hairy men which I find discusting. That is why I am not a paying member, I only pay for good results not bad ones.

Date of experience: December 21, 2013
Kentucky
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3 helpful votes
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I've been a part of this website for years now. It's a online dating and hook up site for gay people. It's free and there's no pressure to become a premium member.

Date of experience: August 31, 2011
California
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3 helpful votes
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I have been a member of this site for years, nearly 10 or more to be exact. Yesterday I got into an argument with a black escort who had a few names to call me, so I called back. He reported me and they chose to suspend my account. I have supported the site for years, but no more. I guess all they really care about is getting more and more of their paying supporting whores! It's no longer about hookups or making friends, it's about offering services even though there are hundreds of escort sites out there. This low life $#*! has just barked up the wrong tree! And yes, I used the word, when they can call each other that and they can call you names but you can't defend yourself, yes, I used the friggen word!

Date of experience: January 13, 2012
North Carolina
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Since the roll out of their new site, they are losing members. They kept suspending my account minutes after I created them, and if I tried again it said my email was already on file. I contacted them and they told me they didn't think my pic was of me... how that was decided I don't know. They said I had to send them SEVERAL pics of my face with me holding a paper with my member name and the date. First, they suspended me BEFORE I even posted a pic, so how was the pic the problem. Second, when did they start requiring a face pic. Finally, they were only worth using because of the number of guys there and ease of use, but now they are complicated and force you to jump through hoops just to get a profile... so I predict the number of members will drop dramaticly and they will die from a lack of ad dollars. Way to "improve" your site guys!

Date of experience: January 3, 2015
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Scammers galore just a waste of time app yea I am overweight but I am not dead yet and guys rather hit up chicks with $#*!s avoid Kansas Cheney Sedrick area they are all scammers guys asking me for gas money especially when they are only 30 miles away that's weird too many party and play on this app which usually means meth tired of being hit up with guys with no pictures come on it's 2023 have a face picture no I will not go on google chat or WhatsApp or I won't give out my cell number just a waste of time app flakes and fakes sadly adam4 adam once was a very good app about 4 years ago with good guys I don't trust the guys on this app as a lot of them are trying to get personal information out of you just a real disappointment and the administration doesn't do a damn thing to fix the problem!

Date of experience: July 14, 2023
California
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7 helpful votes
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I had used A4A for several years and had been a contributor. I deleted my account for sometime and yesterday I signed back up creating a brand new account cause my old one was gone and my account was suspended in the first 5 minutes with no reason or warning given. It was never even approved. I put in all required info.

Date of experience: September 26, 2015
D L. adam4adam Rep
over a year old

Hi, please email support@adam4adam.com and let us know your username so we can check. Thank you.

Missouri
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Waste of Time!
March 6, 2015

Created an account and was on the site for about 4-5 minutes suddenly had to log in again only to get the message "account suspended" What is the deal with this site?
Not a huge deal, had already heard it was lame for hook ups, fakes and flakes and a cesspool for "Pozed up" masquerading as "Neg"

Date of experience: March 6, 2015
Texas
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3 helpful votes
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I met this guy on A4A about three weeks ago. I had seen him online for a few months, but put off meeting him two or three times. He was 62 i am 58. At the onset it seemed to be a good connection. His profile said he was not opposed to a LTR. I thought wow nice guy my age etc. First few times we met was cool but after the 3rd date he backed off and quit texting and returning calls. Mind you I generally had to initiate calls and texts. I didn't have allot in common. He had three big dogs, and the house smelt like it. I was willing to deal with it. Oh he was also a bar fly and was at the bar every weekend. I kind of knew that things would turn out this way just some kind of a gay intuition. I would love to meet someone who would call me and return my texts. Oh btw he still had an old flip phone from the 90s. LOL

Date of experience: January 6, 2014
Illinois
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3 helpful votes
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Its a cool site and all, but when I tried to log on to my account one day, it logged me out and when I tried to log back in, it told me that it was suspeneded.
I tried to make another one and a few minutes later, it did it again.
Can u guys please fix it.

Date of experience: July 16, 2011
Virginia
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4 helpful votes
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This site is full of deceit: fake pics, std's and a site administration that thrives on the ratchetness. It has been sited by the CDC as a major contributor to the increase in hiv and aids. This site is the worst it has ever been.

Date of experience: October 12, 2012
Michigan
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This site is nothing more then a site for criminals to wait for thier prey to be brought so they can run their scams, prostitution and then we can get started on Nicaragua, Africa and other 3rd world countries, the only entertainment to be had on this site is playing with the scamers, while sitting on the PC to find out who they are and who's pictures are the they are using, no use in reporting anything they run multiple accounts, and will have three more before the one is deleted, peole that don't want to provide a profile picture should by Sent kicking rocks, profiles should have to be verified with 7 days or they are deleted, in short do some investigation on who is using your platform..

Date of experience: February 21, 2023
Texas
0 reviews
16 helpful votes
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Visit a4a mobile, page says ip address block. I'm like, " wtf, nooooooo" from morning to afternoon and evening still block. I'm in Houston TX. First I thought I harass 2men. For months. But even then I would get a warning. Im a free user since iPod 4th Gen, came out!

Date of experience: March 6, 2015
Georgia
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Just tried to sign in and found my IP had been blocked. Great customer service for a long-time user, yessir! I don't know what criteria they used to determine I should be blocked, but whatever it was, it's invalid, and they should contact the user BEFORE they block, since you have NO recourse at that point to appeal their decision. Guilty until proven innocent seems to be their mantra. If I could give a negative star rating, I would.

UPDATE: they may have been suffering a DDOS attack, since I can now log in. I'll give THEM the benefit of the doubt and upgrade to two stars. They STILL need to at least admit to the loss of service, for whatever reason.

Date of experience: January 13, 2015
California
0 reviews
4 helpful votes
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I have gone on this site for over 10 years and I have consistantly found very negative things going on. Lots of liers, old photos, lots of drug users and scammers. I have found many guys I know who are HIV positive who are lying about their HIV status. Lots of attitide! I would use this website which moderate caution.

Date of experience: May 4, 2013
New York
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Had this for well over 7 years. For the first time I have just been banned IP address blocked. I see I'm not the only one maybe I'm hoping it's a glitch in there new update system

Date of experience: January 13, 2015
Washington
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7 helpful votes
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Lots of porn an no hookups very few views and they say donate to keep us rocking
Nothing rocking me'
Henry*******

Date of experience: November 25, 2015

Overview

adam4adam has a rating of 1.3 stars from 52 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. adam4adam ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
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value
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shipping
2
returns
2
quality
5