adam4adam

Used to be a tolerable waste of time finding people to meet. Now it's over run with advertisements. Impossible to use with constant pop up ads.

I'm very upset because someone else reported me on Adam4Adam for being mean to them and then I got suspended while they stalked me online.I am a gay man living with HIV and they have a ton of haters on this site.People who are racist in the LGBTQ community, people in the LGBTQ community hating people living with HIV and people in the black community hating other blacks because of their insecurities.I was suspended on Adam4Adam for being mean to someone after I was blocked by another person calling me a weirdo.I have done nothing bad to anyone and this is the things I get?

I will never forget this I'm glad they suspended me because I don't want to get back on this stupid website EVER again!

Waste of time.

Someone messaged me on Adam with "Alaye" I Googled and learned it's code word for Nigerian scammers. And I thought to pretend to be a scammer to get the scammer to say something to report his sorry! Boom... my account got suspended! ADAM STAFF, first have some decency to reply to a paid user of the past 10 to 12 years. It's just horrible customer service. Second, one strike, you are out!? What a bull policy. And which one of you gets to make that determination? I bet someone who was mocked & ridiculed a lot as a teen! THIRD, given much better choices like [s n i f f i e s] I am in fact happy I got suspended. You saved me $$$. Hope to see you guys reverse your draconian rules. Or don't and get wiped out from competition!

Why would anyone pay to subscribe when the site has so many on-going glitches (that have been occurring for decades). Customer Support are robots who do not even read emails, they just cut and past generic responses. Lastly, half the profiles on the site are scammers. Would urge anyone contemplating buying membership to think twice!

Started transitioning a year ago been on adam for 6 years started using as man tried creating a new profile with my main picture fully clothed. Been denied three times now no message from support. My pic was tasteful and i see people in constant violation of there the g rated main picture policy and nothing happens there $#*! and $#*! pics stay up forever zero repercussions if you post a picture fully clothed of progress as a trans woman your picture is not approved and adam4adam will not confirm or deny wether or not there anti transgender

Here is what's wrong... 20 times a day a get hit on 18 of them live in Cheney KS. I live in Boston MA 1637 miles from Cheney KS and according to the 2021 census there are approximately 2170 people who live there. For the amount of A4A email responses, the population would have to be at least *******, larger then the population of the city of Atlanta. A4A is not blocking folks from West Africa who have created at least 95% of these profiles

It used to be that if you used the app on an iPhone that you would only see pics deemed safe for work and any so-called "dirty" words would be blocked. This is due to Apple rules about apps not being pornographic sites so I didn't think that much about it. You could just use m.adam4adam.com in the browser instead and then everything was visible. Starting about a week ago now even that site is blocking valid content and it gets impossible to read the profile. It's a damn Sex site so why do you block these words and photos? What else do can you call it? And what the hell is a masseur on here but a paid prostitute! Why would you brag about your body and $#*! size if you're just going to massage me? Because you're not. You are a PAID PROSTITUTE! Then there are all the 30 yr olds (so they say) messaging me with no pics and no profile info. SCAMMERS all over the place. I changed my subscription to not renew and I will be done with it after it expires in a month. Too bad. It was decent until all these new rules.

The site is involved with Prostitution. The Hustle on the site tries to push all the men in their 50s, 60s and 70s on every person on the site. Only join if you are a drug dealer to hit them back in the wallet!

I have been a regular member of Adam4Adam.com since 1999. Two weeks ago, my IP address was blocked for an hour. The next week it as blocked for several hours. Today it has been blocked for several hours again. I am not a spammer and I have not violated their TOS. I have completed the unblock captcha and written several emails to support - all without response. This is beginning to seem discriminatory, and may require legal action to address the issue.

Well, I have been an active member of this site for over 10 years. This week it appears my account has been hijacked multiples times. From a fat old white guy, my user name and password now showed a slim 24 yr old black boy living across the country. My email had been changed, pics deleted and entire profile re written. Emails to their so called support department have yielded nothing, and like other users have found they do not provide assistance in person, or even vial live chat. I'm disgusted and will be deleting my account..

Adam4Adam is the worst maintained gay social website I have ever attempted to use. Unlike other sites such as Manhunt and DaddyHunt, you can't really hide and block another member. The only block that there is prevents them from contacting you via the message system. When you block them, you can no longer access their account or see their profile photo. HOWEVER, they can still see yours, they can still search and find your account and they can still surf any non-private photo. When you view the member grid to view other members, you can still see their presence. The photo on their profile? Oh yeah! A big 'X'. What is this? The site is consistently interrupting access to your messages with the excuse they are currently upgrading to make things more spectacular. A couple hours later... same ol' same ol' crap. Personally, as an IT engineer I don't think they want you to truly block members presence because that reduces the number of members in your view and thus affects their agreement and terms with the advertisers on the site.

Its a site too hook up on take it or leave it... Guys have duplicate profiles and lots of fake pics. If you think a photo is too good to be true drag it to your desk top and do a google search on the image... and there you will see the same image on porn sites, thus stolen. Tech support sucks big time and very slow to answer emails on issues from slow speed to suspension. I imagine some dude working from home and signing in every few hours and handling issues at random. The admins are nasty on twitter if you tweet a complaint. Had a few good encounters but thats about it.

People get so addicted to hooking -up and having very unsafe, lascivious sex.
It ruined my relationship with my partner. He's addicted to nightly hookups and couldn't stop. People lie about their profiles and even their HIV status. I knew a friend that uses this site a lot and just had a positive HIV test result. This is ridiculous, sites like this should not exist.It can destroy you mentally, morally and emotionally.
They need to be investigated. This should be Illegal in this country.