Théo K.

The Ma-Dame.net site cannot be considered as a real dating site because whatever the women do and whatever their decisions they are always right. The men are always wrong but they are the ones who pay.

It is not possible to pay with a credit card the "services" and the minimum amount requested is EUR 30.

When you write to a lady there is no record of what you wrote to her.

I paid a contact in order to visit a lady who lives in Geneva. After a few days, this lady changed her mind and did not want to see me anymore. I asked the agency for a refund. They answered me that the fact that this lady does not want to see me anymore does not generate a refund of the amount received.

I had correspondence with another person who lived less than two hours by car from my home. After giving her an appointment in early July, I received a reply from her indicating that she would be traveling. I wrote a second letter giving her an appointment in mid-July and received a reply saying that for the August appointment we still had time. In the meantime a person from My-Lady contacted me to inform me that I could not give an appointment directly to a lady from the site. She also informed me that she had changed the translation of my letters sent to this lady.

Finally this agency deleted my account and kept the change.

Here are the business practices used by the owners of Ma-Dame.net, run away

At first glance you might think you are on a site where women want to meet you. In 5 days I received more than 1000 messages some giving you a lot of indications either the normal letters that a person interested in another sends but most between 1 and 10 lines. There were messages mentioning another season (the beginning of winter when it is April). Despite the fact that I put a fairly high age range, I got messages from women between 18 and 25 all the time. Some messages were daring in the sense that the women invited me to go on the chat and webcam to spend some time looking at them and asking them to do something. It is surprising that J4L which says to be a site which puts at the disposal its platform for the goods of the men and the women authorizes this kind of drift because it is not any more about meeting.

J4L's service sucks in the sense that all your requests are processed but you never get what you asked for. One example, it is impossible to manually enter the country of residence of these ladies because all the countries that J4L has entered do not seem to be scalable or too complicated to do. The service did not want to add countries answering that most of the girls are from Russia and Ukraine. This is in no way a customer service, they are only there to be always right and avoid working. Zero points.

While WhatsApp is installed on more than 2 billion mobiles, the J4L ladies seem to either not know it or find excuses not to use it. It makes you wonder if these Ukrainian women who reply are the real people behind the replies.

I have indeed made some chats & webcam but the girl's webcam never worked, so I have a lot of doubts about the people who answer but to the video cam. I was in communication with a 42 year old psychologist that I never saw. Each time her camera didn't work but on the other hand she was available about 18 hours out of 24. At EUR 1 per minute, it's more expensive than the webcams of the pros, which work perfectly.

There was one who was supposedly in Poland and was ready to meet me. Despite the fact that she had my address and phone number with WhatsApp she never replied and never came.

It is impossible to send a message by chat if the lady does not answer. However, she can see that there is a message and probably the message waiting and decide to open the chat or not.

Don't believe in the fairy tales that many women promise you, because after the first enticing letter, you will quickly come back down to earth and in the end you will have lost a lot of money.