marena w.

I am not a paying member and the reason I am not is bc everytime I get a smile I try to open their account only to learn it is disabled, This has not happened once or twice but about 40 times... so every 'guy' interested in me sends a smile only to be removed? I called and although the operator couldn't say why, she claimed the members are removed, so what does that tell you... FAKES! Also as a non-paying member I cannot open messages, once in awhile the odd msg can be opened and then voila, the member is disabled, the others I can't open unless I pay, So I asked the operator to do me a favour and open one or two of my unopened msgs to see if they are real members only, I didn't want any more info. I told her my joining as a paying member depended on if I can trust the 10+ msgs were real. She said she wasn't allowed to do that. So here I am, a non-paying member contacted by yet another fake today. I don't trust it is full of lonely millionaires, yes there are legit members but it is real hard to make a connection without paying and since there are so many scammers it deters people from joining.

So I made complaints and as mentioned got hung up on twice, I believe they abort calls after 10 mins so say what you have to say in that time period if you call. They sent me more matches since my complaint, a bit more local but still after almost 5 months I have not met a soul. The two times I actually had correspondence with someone suddenly the guy disappears from their site and I am given an email warning that he was removed for protection purposes. So eharmony is either full of fraudsters or they are using phoney profiles and having staff correspond with members just to keep them appeased. When the time comes to meet suddenly the member disappears. It is a phony waste. I think originally when it started it was a legit company, but greed and success got in the way and now it is a money grab with no interest in making clients matched or happy. Don't join.