I am a woman on this site- so it is completely free for me. I have met quite a few guys in person for dinner/drinks (it like my screening process). I only "hooked up" with one. There are some weirdos out there, but it is pretty easy to weed through them after a couple emails.
So for me- I have had no problems except that I get IM request from guys all over the world even though my profile says I am only looking to meetup with local guys.
I would not call it a scam. I also agree with some other reviewers that there you can most likely find better sites, like Vanessa69 ( I also like CasualDating4u, and some affair dating sites). So I am unsure if I will keep using xxxMatch in the future. For now it does not seem to be "my site"...
It took me a while to find someone to shag. Really... I sent messages to hundreds of women, I was desperade and eventually I've just got curious if I can get ANYTHING out of the whole thing and... yes, I've had a very nice date. However it took too much time. I won't renew my membership here for now and try another site everybody is talking about: hookuphangout.com. Will let you know how it was later.
I like XXXmatch.com but im fed but with chicks that seem to be looking for a bit of cheeky chat and not really too interested in screwing me. Its like they are using me for a fun confidence boost lol! I have had a few sexts and hot pics from girls but really thought Id have been laid by now. The other site I use (HookupHangout for those who havent tried it) has the best of both worlds hot chat and occasionally you do actually get lucky. I thought this would have been the same but so far its not. Still fun but come on girls, sh*t or get off the pot already!
I've hooked up here but 90% of the members are fake. That's why they call it "getting lucky" and I guess I did 'cause now all I hear from are the to good to be true FAKE girls. Word to the wise Only the ones with NUDE pics are real. Avoid this sight unless you want to waste a bunch of time or enjoy BS-ing the fakes to see what they will say which can be interesting.
The fake ones send you emails to meet mostly and you check your "who's viewed me" and they haven't. Also they have the exact same descriptions in their profile word for word alot or are really far away. Fakes usually answer a question with a question, are overly sexual, won't call, send pics or meet you and overall are just too good to be true...
Even though it seems to indicate otherwise on the "upgrade" screens that layout the differences between membership levels you can not even_receive_ emails as a basic member or see_any_ profile details. After joining for the 3 day trial, and actually just a couple hours after I made sure to cancel the auto re-billing (which by the way you have to do through a separate website, the billing agency). I found some profiles that looked pretty real but nearly all of the emails I had gotten and was curious to read were just one liners asking you to email them back. This site is just not worth it! They should at least let you read emails that silver and gold members send to you and it would be nice to at least see basic profile info about other members at the basic membership level.
After some good experiences on HookupHangout I felt it was time to branch out and see what else is out there. Signed up to Xxxmatch as it gets pretty good review here and on other review sites. The sign up process was quick and easy, as youd expect. I did some basic stuff on my profile then got on with the searching. I stay just outside a pretty big city so expected to see a decent number of girls in the locality, wasnt disappointed. Theres an advanced filter that lets you remove women of a certain age (im not into cougars thanks very much) and from there its down to putting in the effort to get some chats going. To do this you need to pay, which again was expected. The price was about the same as HH so went for the full month option. Since then ive been firing out as many intros as I can on evenings, weekends, helleven during some lunch breaks (dont tell my boss)! The hard work isnt quite paying off yet, although some of the chats ive had have been completely filthy and almost worth the money alone! Definitely think ill hookup with a girl before too long, fingers crossed. I know from experience it can take a bit of time to reap the full rewards and I dont have a problem with patience. One girl I was getting on great with is went on holiday for two weeks but said when she gets back well definitely do the netflix and chill thing, so im sure wont be long until the deal is sealed, with her or one of the others. The best thing about joining two sites is when one has gone a bit quiet, the other can cover things, so youve always got at least some options for those horny weekends. All in all, good times!
I'm sick of reading reviews of people who say x site is terrible or y site is a scam. You should only be able to write a review on hookup sites after youve been a member for a few months because none of them, not Xxxmatch or even Hookuphangout.com can get you laid immediately. There is only one way you can get immediate sex and that is by paying for it! Seriously, these people get me super mad! Overall this site is pretty good, you can find real girls on it and if you play your cards right then you can get talking to them. Some of them are closet freaks, some of them are just straight up hoes! But they are out there to be found if you are patient and dont mind putting in a bit of time & effort. Good luck!
Really wasnt sure about this site at first, definitely takes some time to start getting replies and all that stuff. Was ready to come on here and join the people who moan about it but at the last minute I found myself chatting to a girl, then meeting her on a webcam and well, the rest is a bit personal, but put it this wayI was converted! Since then ive tried a bit harder and have to say that its all going much better now. It was a slow start but im realising now that if your on the right sites then online hookup dating get better as time goes on, just like a fine wine! Would recommend to anyone who is looking for a new way to meet women for one night stands.
This site is a scam, the women won't even send a photo proving who they are when you ask for it. Nothing but a bunch of one-line messages to try an hook you. I don't believe any of them are real. Hot chicks don't need sites like this to get laid, and neither do I. Save your money, or be stupid and learn for yourself.
Yep Scam! They only got me for about US$2 for a 3-day trial, although I will be checking my credit card to make sure they don't hack some more funds.
What I can't figure out is where they get the pictures for the profiles? If anyone has some insight in to how they are doing this I would be really interested. I mean, using people's images without their knowledge is illegal. So how do they get around this obstacle?
Cheers
I hate to say it, but you guys who registered for this site are real suckers. The fact is is that it is VERY VERY rare for hot young women to ever put profiles on sites like this. Why would they waste their time when they can pretty much get laid whenever they want by whomever they want. They can just smile at a guy at a bar, grocery store, or even a gas station, and she'll pretty much be on her way.
The only adult sites that have real women on them are those where 95% of the women are fat and/or butt ugly.
After the 3 day trial the site automatically charges you a month fee, which they only tell you when you press pay button of the trial membership.
During the 3 days you get emails and invitations from mostly 20-28 year old girls.It did not take long to discover the way this scam site is organized:
1 - in Spain the girls responding are either from Zaragoza or Palma de Mallorca. But none of them can speak spanish? Right, because they don't live in Spain most likely.
2 - The girls send invitations or have a hot profile, but once you propose to meet or get in touch you get very short and cool answers, or they just ask some silly question to stall the process.
Good enough fraud to keep you interested long enough to get you paying 30$ month fee after the initial trial.
If there was a less than one out of four stars I'd picked that one... wish I'd checked here before I blew money I didn't have. I was at a low point in my life, really fell for their BS. Sure I contacted and talked with dozen women, I was totally misled... feel like a jackass for falling for the come on. Don't go here! This site is a JOKE!
Try this ask a math question in the last sentence of your response to anyone.
Something like what is two plus 2, what does this equal?
After a few sentences of whatever.
You'll get a response similar to "You have such interesting things to say, we should chat more?"
Or something similar. If you ask if they are real they will immediately get way overreacting angry like and freak out. Total BS site. They are bots.
This is a scam. All the flash pictures are for show. Lets be real, do you think
All the model girls in there want sex?
Also, every girl on the site is an online hooker for chat purposes only.
You are made to believe that there is sex at the other end. It not
This site is designed very cleverly to have you charge your credit card then keep charging you. The cancellation is hidden so well that its hard to find it.
This and other sites like adult finder etc. are a fake.
Id say most of the girls on this site are genuine, real chicks. Probably 60% of those ive spoken with. Maybe not as high a number as on hookuphangout (my personal favourite hookup site) but still better than most of these kinda sites. Not sure what else matters im not looking for a nice design, im looking for girls to bang. And there are a good amount here so im content at that.
I read the same thing that happened to me, over and over, girls come on hot, want to meet and then stop writing as soon as you try to setup a meeting in a public place like for a coffee or a bite to eat.
This site is a total scam, started to see it about a month ago, now I know it.
Stay away and save your $$ and time, Class action suit is in order
Well I joined XXXMatch after they had this cool 50 Shades of Grey prize giveaway on their Facebook page and thought I would give it a shot. Being a woman, made it very easy to find a guy to hook up with in my city. A lot of guys were surprised because they had told me that there were so many fake women which made it even easier for me to pick and choose who I wanted.
I didn't even have to use my credit card so I didn't have to worry about fraud, yet I'm sorry for everyone else who had to deal with that.
It may not be the best site for men, but it's a secret goldmine for women! I recommend it!
Total scam. Just men(and maybe women), behind the keyboard acting like women to get guys attracted to the site and paying money. I have been a member of many sites and I would say that this is the worst. I have gotten about 200 e-mails and never a meet or any even saying that they want to meet and no talking to a real person. Like the guy before said almost all around 20, good looking, and bull$#*!
Answer: Yes indeed this is a fake site and a scam operation. Hopefully enough people will report this and get them shut down somehow. They watch very closely and remove any kind of words they do not like. Beware!
XXXMatch has a rating of 1.6 stars from 183 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with XXXMatch most frequently mention credit card, fake profiles and total scam. XXXMatch ranks 656th among Dating sites.