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Texas
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12 helpful votes
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Total scam
May 16, 2010

Total scam. Just men(and maybe women), behind the keyboard acting like women to get guys attracted to the site and paying money. I have been a member of many sites and I would say that this is the worst. I have gotten about 200 e-mails and never a meet or any even saying that they want to meet and no talking to a real person. Like the guy before said almost all around 20, good looking, and bull$#*!

Date of experience: May 16, 2010
Illinois
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Terrible scam
May 31, 2012

Terrible scam. Had someone emailing me over and over during the trial period, just to try to get me to register on other sites. No real connection, just a bunch of scammer. $30 for a monthly rate after the 3-day trial will not be refunded. Better to spend that on phone sex. Much more honest.

Date of experience: May 31, 2012
Michigan
2 reviews
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Some things are 2 good to be true... I am a good looking guy that just caught my fiance cheating, I was hoping I could turn to a site but ALL seem to be fake! Ladies any ideas or fantasies you need 2 fill? If it helps I live in MIchigan.

Date of experience: May 5, 2011
Australia
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I too got scammed by these wankers, hopefully we have all learned our lesson. How have people gone getting their money back?

What sort of women would join a dating website that is loaded with porn sites and big $#*! ads?!?!?!?

Date of experience: November 17, 2011
GB
2 reviews
3 helpful votes
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What can I say that hasn't already been said? This site is a scam.

While there are genuine profiles on there, they mostly seem unused. I guess people get sick and tired of the site and abandon their profiles.

The unconvincing phoney messasges are so lame. One liners for hot-looking girls when my profile makes it clear I only want to meet mature women, my age or older.

I don't even think they are from some sweaty fat guy behind a keyboard - I think it's some sort of bot - and not a very intelligent bot at that.

Save your money and your time.

Date of experience: November 30, 2010
Arizona
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Yes this is another of those BS scam sites. You get one line responses about wanting to meet and as soon as you show an interest the messages stop. When you first sign up you get about 6 to ten hits within 24 hours. None of which are worth pursuing. This site's only goal is to upsell you to add their limited inventory of porno movies and they will try to get you to their live web cams where the charge to see a girl masturbate is anywhere from $2.50 to about $4.00 a freaking minute. Why pay that when you can go to a number of porn sites and watch 3 minute trailers for free. I wish I seen these reviews before I subscribed for 30 days. Complete rip off. I really didn't know about 150 foxy girls who can't get laid anytime they live with 25 miles of me. I also recognized some of the girls from viewing escort sites. So this site is copying pic's from other sites. Don't waste your money, you won't actually meet anyone.

Date of experience: August 9, 2011
Australia
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All the other reviews have already said exactly what happened to me. Fu*%ing jerks. Stay away from them, it's a complete scam. There was 1 girl meetmearoundbk sent me a Meet In Person request, why send one of those if you don't want to meet for lunch in a public place? Such a rip. A$$holes.

Date of experience: March 18, 2012
Canada
1 review
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1 meetup in 3 months
February 14, 2016

It took me a while to find someone to shag. Really... I sent messages to hundreds of women, I was desperade and eventually I've just got curious if I can get ANYTHING out of the whole thing and... yes, I've had a very nice date. However it took too much time. I won't renew my membership here for now and try another site everybody is talking about: hookuphangout.com. Will let you know how it was later.

Date of experience: February 14, 2016
Maryland
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6 helpful votes
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Thanks to everyone
August 10, 2010

Thanks to everyone. I check these things before signing up. Any bad reviews at all
And I take my money elsewhere. Review sites keep the web safer. Try okcupiddotcom for real free dating. I have met a few not many girls there but I did
Meet real ones face to face and not just online actors.

Date of experience: August 10, 2010
South Carolina
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My story is no different than the others here. I signed up for a trial membership and once I did so the traffic really picked up but once I begin to ask specific questions the responses were either vague or deflecting or no response again. If I felt I could sue and win I would do so. It's definitely a scam site.

Date of experience: November 15, 2012
North Dakota
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100% scam
June 17, 2010

100% scam. Every time I got close to meeting a girl, all contact would stop. When you join and when your membership expires, you miraculously get all sorts of hot girls sending you friend requests and messages and requests to meet in person. If you fall for it, you get screwed out of your money. I'm pretty sure 99% of the profiles on this site are fake and all the messages are laughable. They are all one sentence and are completely open-ended. Complete waste of time, DON'T FALL FOR IT!

Date of experience: June 17, 2010
New York
0 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Everything about this site is a scam. They will send you daily emails claiming that someone wants to meet or chat with you. They are all fakes. Of course you can not read the person's email unless you sign up. But, click on them to read their profile. Then ask yourself why they would be contacting you when you are clearly not what they are looking for. They will be from all over and not in your area. This site sent me an email telling me that I was being given a free upgrade. When I clicked on the link it brought me to their regular sign up page. I hassled them for weeks about this and all they did was make excuses and never address the question of where was my free upgrtade.

Date of experience: June 15, 2010
Australia
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I requested to meet people 20 miles from my local area of sydney australia and always recieved mail from usa many other functions were the same on this web site and and a ton computer generated mail, a total scam don't go there

Date of experience: January 16, 2011
Luxembourg
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Stay clear!
January 29, 2016

Stay clear! This site offers free membership to women... but only if you are seeking to date a man. If you are looking for a same sex relationship then you will be charged heavily from the off. This is discrimination on the basis of sexuality.

The site also generates "automated responses" from fake profiles and accounts in order to encourage its customers to part with their hard earned money and sign up for full access. This is active and blatany fraud

Date of experience: January 29, 2016
Canada
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I agree
March 20, 2016

I agree with many reviewers: It ain't easy on this site. I have been using sites like Vanessa69 with better results during the same period of time but I guess it always depends on so many factors that it is not fair to compare one site to another...

Date of experience: March 20, 2016
GB
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AH LOVE THIS SITE AS IT WAS THE 1ST HOOKUP SITE I JOINED. HAD A FEW SHAGS FROM IT AND STILL KEEP IN TOUCH WI SOME OF THE GIRLS. ALSO, IF U LIKE THIS U SHUD ALSO TRY HOOKUPHANGOUT.COM, ITS A NEW SITE BUT IVE ALREADY MET TWO GIRLS OFF IT IN NOT VERY LONG AND SO THAT SPEAKS 4 IT SELF REALLY. GOOD LUCK!

Date of experience: June 29, 2016
New Jersey
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Almost 100% of the women profile are fake. People who are pushing this site as one of the best are fake too, maybe paid to o that.

I was on the site for six month and did not secure a single date (and I usually get a date within a week on other sites), even when I told a chic that I would hand out a grand just to have coffee with me.

That's a nice payday, no? I would go for it. And I was ready to hand out that money if she showed up. She did not. Oh well.

Save your time and money. Do not subscribe to this fraudulent website.

Date of experience: December 6, 2012
Colorado
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I have been such a sucker -- twice no less! I cannot believe I have been so stupid. I read some of these reviews once previously and promptly canceled. Then I was roped in a second time!. But I have read these reviews again and what I read fits my experience to the tee. One minute, or week, or month you're in touch with someone. And then... nothing. "New members" join and the ones you were chatting with have simply stopped. No communication of any kind; no nothing. Also, I would expect any legitimate woman would read a man's profile before going very far. But I often received emails from 'who really knows" wherein it was clear they read nothing. That should have been another big clue to me. It is too bad I cannot trust individuals nor organizations to say what they mean and mean what they say. If we cannot believe in each other, we have nothing. Should this sort of thing continue, I cannot even imagine the kinds of social and economic problems that will ensue. -Ken A.

Date of experience: February 2, 2011
Texas
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I actually caught a person with pics from a porn site as their profile pics. Told the site about it and when I mentioned it in my profile MY profile was banned. Maybe there are some legit people on this site, but for the money a year membership is a waste. Probably some Nigerian or east European hackers/scammers made this site...

Date of experience: May 24, 2010
Canada
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I wish I'd checked these reviews before I got hooked in. I really should have clued in when the one woman said in one message that her daughter was the apple of her eye, and in a later message claimed she didn't have any kids! LOL. And it sounded like the last one I was chatting with, a blond Caucasian according to her profile, had Engish as a second language. And why don't the women who contact you turn up in Search results? What a joke. I can't believe I paid for it, but it was less than $100 in total for a lesson well learned.

Date of experience: October 15, 2012

Overview

XXXMatch has a rating of 1.6 stars from 183 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with XXXMatch most frequently mention credit card, fake profiles and total scam. XXXMatch ranks 656th among Dating sites.

service
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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
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