I am coping the same reviews I gave for xxmatch.com and sexsearch.com. This is a site where the database is connected to other sites like xxxmatch.com, and others like it. As a female on the site- I get a ton of responses from everywhere (these are worldwide sites). I email back and forth for a few days to LOCAL guys and then move to texting- it is pretty easy to weed out the creeps, married guys, etc. I always schedule a public meetup first for drinks or dinner. All the guys have been real and true to their pictures on the site. After seven different first time meetups- I have only "hooked up" with one guy and now we see each other on a regular friends-with-benefits basis. I am a memeber of xxxmatch.com and as a female all I had to do was upload a picture and complete a profile and it was completely free for me. I would guess there are way more males than females on these sites and that is why men have to pay a fee. With so many guys to choose from- you better have a good picture or profile- or I don't respond. I think it is fun and works for females- maybe not as great for all the guys... it is true that you cannot delete your profile, but you can delete/change all the info and remove pictures and change you email and screename. You can aslo block members and hide your profile and change your email setting so you don't receive any notifications at all. Nothing is perfect out there I guess. It works well for me.