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New York
1 review
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Fakes and scammers
June 2, 2025

Many fake profiles and scammers. When these are reported, nothing is done. The site will randomly suspend your account. When you contact help, they admit it was a mistake. Then it happens again a few days later. Hundreds of profiles with pics of young women but profile states they are in 40s or 50s. There is no screening to stop scammers. Don't waste your time or money with this or any cupid sites.

Date of experience: June 2, 2025
New York
1 review
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I was a paid subscriber for many months. Along with 4 good photos of me I added one of my dog. They sent me a violation notice! I let that go. Several months later, after my subscription has ended but still a "standard" (free) member they suddenly changed the rules (for me at least) and would not allow me to send more than a couple of messages per 24 hour period to paying members. So I wrote a sentence in my profile stating that if a paying member doesn't hear from me it might mean my limit was reached, as I did not want them to feel I was ignoring them. Asiandating.com immediately permanently terminated my profile and said I broke the rules of a friendly dating atmosphere! Ridiculous. Actually I had subscribed on two different occasions at the cost of HUNDREDS OF DOLLARS! Probably 20% of their profiles are fake and bait ones, likely orchestrated by them to get you to subscribe again...(Always superhot women in their early 20s or 30s and usually just one photo and not much profile detail.) I discourage all Americans from utilizing this site. They will drop you in moment's notice for doing nothing wrong.

Date of experience: June 26, 2025
New Zealand
2 reviews
2 helpful votes
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Even if they allowed contact information exchange on AD, the women would still refuse to do it. The only thing they want is stay on the site and chat forever. It's their job and this explains it all. Communication is not incentivized on J7Match.com
Since there are no hired girls, boys and no bots. You get to chat with the real people. How did I figure out they were real? They don't balk at chatting off site and they agree to use free media. Not 100% of them, but the vast majority of the women. So I suggest not to waste your time and money on AsianDating con artists, don't let them act upon your wish to find a wife or start a relationship, otherwise they will easily separate you from your money without even meeting you.

Date of experience: March 19, 2025
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Jokers
October 1, 2024

Funny but not in a good way. Full of 50 year old Chinese women who all look gorgeous yet are divorced?! That to me is a bit funny to be honest. They are the ones that all pay for membership and are nearly all the ones who are up their own arses.With photos playing golf, in Venice or posing like a pompous little idiot.

Then there are the Pina women, tons of them. Who all live in bizarre locations that would be impossible or expensive to ever go to. The ones that live in Manila are either overweight or have an attitude problem.

It is good value for money to use it though for 1 month but the novelty soon wears off when you scroll through 200+ messages that are all just bull$#*! and lazy.

The best value for money is sending the message and blocking her once it has been read. That is VERY funny.

Date of experience: October 1, 2024
Arizona
1 review
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Stay away
November 14, 2024

It seems that not only most profiles are based on pics stolen from social media for the purpose of solicting people for money but when you report obvious abuse including death threats you get zero response.
The obvious conclusion is that the company based in Australia creates the fake profiles and that is how they make their money. How they launder it is from their fake profiles buying memberships after scamming innocents for money.
Stay away because the sucess profiles only occur on their sponsored sites and are not real
Jack

Date of experience: November 14, 2024
Florida
1 review
3 helpful votes
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99% Scam - Not There For Relationship
August 16, 2023

I am an older guy looking for a relationship. Nearly all of the "women" are between 33 and 38, Those are the scammers. They will ask you to move off the site immediately, try to get your Skype number then text that their microphone in their phone doesn't work. That's a very common tactic. "Buy me a new phone" "My father needs surgery" "My car was stolen"... Age mid-forties and older is much safer but there are few. The safe way to deal with this site is to assume all members are scammers. I got my money back by convincing them they would get a You Tube video.

Date of experience: August 16, 2023
Netherlands
2 reviews
30 helpful votes
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I quit it. I noticed that AsianDating women spent days and nights online spouting all this bs from their keyboards. How is it possible? In fact one profile with sexy photos is used by several people who work in shifts. What an obnoxious, but perhaps, very profitable "business practice"! I dropped it like a bad habit when I realized how it worked. Women are paid for chatting, so you can easily spend a fortune if you chat as much as they want you to chat.

Date of experience: April 23, 2023
New York
2 reviews
10 helpful votes
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Scam operation
June 27, 2023

The people who run this website/app will use fake profiles to entice you to sign up. You will receive interest from a beautiful girl and once you become a paid member, she suddenly disappears or becomes inactive. BEWARE! I can't cancel my membership quick enough! Wished I had known about all the bad reviews this site had before signing up.

Date of experience: June 27, 2023
Utah
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Not worth it
April 20, 2023

AsianCupid.com is a complete disappointment – all fake accounts and lots of catfishing, I am particularly disgruntled to find that all the attractive women only seem to message me when I don't have a paid account – suspicious if you ask me! You'd be better off spending the cost of that hefty subscription fee elsewhere as this site is way past its expiration date.

Date of experience: April 20, 2023
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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The site is ok only if you are ready to pay for spicy chats and you aren't looking for a real thing. But even in this case, it's way too expensive. I'd recommend MyUkrLady
To those who want something real. You get to talk to genuine (not paid) girls there. You will soon have face-to-face meetings. The site is very helpful, unlike AsianDating which turned out to be a total time-waster and money-vacuum.
AsianDating is full of money-hungry scammers. Girls bombard you with romantic and sexy messages but don't get your hopes up. The site pays them and they correspond with you, send you sexy pictures (usually these pictures don't believe to them). They will tell you any kind of lie, anything you want to hear for your money. But they will never meet you or even talk to you for free.

Date of experience: January 21, 2024
Delaware
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Reading all of these reviews fascinated me, and I felt I needed to contribute. In terms of scammers on the sight, I can't say I ever found any. I never found ANYONE because my account was terminated upon creation. I signed up to join, put in the info, clicked the terms of service and clicked Join. It spun for two seconds, gave a notice that my account had been suspended and another could not be created. When I reached out to support, they asked for a ton of identifying information to "compare to my profile" which I explained to them I couldn't make because I was never able to get in. After back and forth, I decided it wasn't worth it.

In short: shady as hell, would avoid.

Date of experience: October 5, 2023
Canada
2 reviews
0 helpful votes
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After years of dealing with them, they believe their system cannot have a glitch when I've tried renew my subscription with the Royal Bank on the line with me, telling me that it's being declined because Asian days system is changing my information, but they say there is no way that can happen Heck I had that with my TV provider when I lost Netflix but they at least had the decency to say yes we did have a glitch and we found it. I had a person was ready to come to and wanted me to call her, but that isn't gonna happen because Asian dating can't make mistakes or Can they they truly screwed me over with their arrogance. If you have a set as similar experience, you can contact Douglas Vosper, Victoria, BC on Facebook don't be screwed by them. I would love to hear others that I've had problems with the site. Thank you.

Date of experience: January 30, 2024
Nevada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Asiandate.com
November 14, 2023

This site is a SCAM! These "woman" talk a big game and never show, I drove to the airport to pick up this woman who I have been chatting with for 3 years. I thought we were in love. I spent 9 hours waiting for the love of my life to show and she did not. I have since learned that the money I pay on this site turn into tokens and the woman receive money from the tokens, I have lost 1000s of dollars to a woman who I thought loved me all it was was a scam.

Date of experience: November 14, 2023
Michigan
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Scam
December 28, 2023

Sign up, send a couple messages then your profile gets locked down permanently, Security dept wants a photo of your Drivers licenses to unlock your profile, they did this twice to me, I opened a 2nd profile with different email, sent 2 messages and again permanently locked

Date of experience: December 28, 2023
Illinois
1 review
12 helpful votes
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Well, I can't agree that girls on the site are fake. Of course, I ignore messages where they ask to send them money but I've received only 2 such ones. My story is one with happy end: I ended up in Kuala Lumpur visiting my girlfriend I found on asiandating. So just be smart about using dating services and take advantage of asiandating.com.

Date of experience: August 10, 2014
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over a year old

Congratulations! We are glad to hear that. We would love to hear your story. Please email team@asiandating.com with your story.

California
1 review
11 helpful votes
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Waste of money, scams everywhere. Every girl I contacted wanted me to go to yahoo messenger for some BS reason. Scams everywhere. Maybe one in ten girls are legit. This website is controlled and run improperly, stay away. Why should you give them money so they can scam you-

Date of experience: November 22, 2013
New York
2 reviews
8 helpful votes
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Can't complain
August 15, 2018

Long story short, i paid for a three month membership and met my Filipina fiance in about a week after joining. My biggest regret is paying for three months instead of just one. We're now working on getting her a K1 visa.

Reading some of these 1 star reviews... it's not really the fault of folks who run Asiandating that people create fake accounts, or that the foreign girls you meet might need financial assistance to come visit you. I live in the USA. My girl has never been to the USA and didn't have the money to travel, or feel comfortable traveling alone to meet someone she never met in person. I had to go see her in her country first. If you get involved with a foreign girl, you might have to do likewise.

Overall, the website makes it pretty easy to communicate and the paid membership fees are about on par with other dating websites I've seen. I don't know how likely you are to meet someone local, but there's plenty of foreign girls interested to meet a western man.

Date of experience: August 14, 2018
Cupid M. AsianDating Rep
over a year old

Congratulations to you and your fiancee! We would love to hear your story. Please emails us your story and photo to lovestories@cupidmedia.com.

Florida
1 review
4 helpful votes
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The billionaire that owns this site Dillard is a greedy Jew! To read 2 letters cost 16 dollars. Men and women are being robbed and the average person cannot afford this! Not only that you cannot set up a personal date with anyone because you can give your own personal information out and they block it. I'm the one taking the risk Not this site. I'm going to attempt to contact Attorneys to go after these Scams for a dating sites! Don't join! You won't be allowed to ever meet! I am Not the only person that believes this. Everyone does! They lie about the stats to rob you of your money!

Date of experience: July 21, 2021
Cupid M. AsianDating Rep
over a year old

Dear Lenny,
Only one member has to be a paid member to communicate, not both. As a standard member, you can still enjoy numerous benefits such as sending interest to other members and communicating with paid members. We wish you the very best with your search for love. Please contact www.asiandating.com/en/help/helpdesk if you have any further concerns.

Colorado
1 review
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Filled with fake spam and scammers
November 1, 2022

1 out of 100 people and messages might be legit if that the rest all wish to go to other apps then direct to another site or ask for money if you want to find a real date this site and ones like it are a waste of time and money, your investment is like money thrown into a fireplace

Date of experience: November 1, 2022
Australia
2 reviews
17 helpful votes
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Sadly Have been duped by a few girls on Asian date site and wish I had looked at this site before going there.
Everything described on the posts has happened to me with only one girl giving her email address and phone but she blocked the phone which is another story.
Once I had her email and was no longer chatting on the site"read spending money" she decided that she loved me but didn't like me any more.
I went to this site to get a real person and to stay away from scammers by subscribing but the whole system is a scam.
Beware any lonely heart.

Date of experience: November 24, 2015
Cupid M. AsianDating Rep
over a year old

Dear Conan,

Please note that AsianDating and AsianDate are two separate entities run by two different companies.

Overview

AsianDating has a rating of 1.4 stars from 147 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with AsianDating most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and email address. AsianDating ranks 56th among Asian Dating sites.

service
28
value
25
shipping
9
returns
10
quality
21
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