Secret Benefits

Overview

Secret Benefits has a rating of 2.9 stars from 445 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Secret Benefits most frequently mention fake profiles, phone number and real girls. Secret Benefits ranks 656th among Dating sites.

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Missouri
1 review
2 helpful votes
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I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol

Date of experience: June 25, 2018
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over a year old

That's great to hear Karen, sorry we won't have you around any more but really glad to hear it's for the right reasons :)

Florida
4 reviews
0 helpful votes
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I tried out several sugar dating sites with not much luck. After a month of being on Secret Benefits the man of my dreams contacted me! We have been seeing each other for almost 4 months now. No offence, but I just hope I dont need to go back on that site again anytime soon. Lol

Date of experience: June 14, 2018
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Pretty good date site
December 3, 2018

Everything on SB is thoughtfully done. There are enough guys to choose from I guess. Could always use more. I'm just dating around right now, so I do appreciate the casual date atmosphere without the sleazy feeling.

Date of experience: November 30, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Glad to hear you are enjoying your experience on Secret Benefits.

Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Met my match here
October 8, 2019

Very happy with Secret Benefits. Didn't know what to expect, but I knew the type of woman I wanted. Signing up and searching is free so no commitment until I found the one that made my heart pound. Didn't mess around. Bought some credits, messaged her, next morning I got a nice message back from her. After our first date it has been pure magic. So happy words can't explain. Feeling reborn! Thank you Secret Benefits!

Date of experience: October 8, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear. It's nice to know that your date was magic and I hope future ones are just as good.

Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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I've tried it two different times about a year apart. And haven't ever received a response whether I initiated it or a woman did. Sure get lots of messages but there's nothing there. Don't waste ur money. On upside the customer support team was amazing. Refunded my purchase and gave me free credits.

Date of experience: May 30, 2022
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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Scam
December 8, 2023

Gave it a try. Only 1 out of 10 had a meaningful message exchange, other presumably bots just shoot a message, but if you respond with whatever witty or funny stuff, they never come back.
Don't waste your money and time.

Secret Benefits attempted to help this customer through the Sitejabber Resolution Center, but the customer did not respond
Date of experience: November 14, 2023
North Carolina
1 review
32 helpful votes
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Well, as a guy you do get messages from potential sugar babies. But that's where it gets strange. About 90% write a 5-10 word phrase (or less) that shows very little imagination and you as a male subscriber have to pay to open each message. Then you reply with a nicely worded reply--sometimes within an hour or so--and never hear back from the potential sugar baby. At first it seemed unusual and as time goes by I never became comfortable that the process is legitimate. I can't figure out why you as a sugar baby send a message and don't reply. Perhaps there's some reason that explains that behavior. But it makes the users seem very shallow. Some people may be but SB makes it look like it's 90% of the user base.

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Date of experience: November 20, 2019
California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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After over 3 years of almost daily use of this site, you begin to notice strange things happening that are not legitimate because there are advanced bots on this site, as well as very good photoshopping. I've received replies that will vaguely answer one question out of 5, or none at all. Also, if photos are sent to you and any of them are the same as what they already in their profile, it's a bot. You will also see photos that are reversed, with a negative image, like the person is in the exact same pose, but the background has moved from the right to the left, and her watch has magically moved from the right arm to the left, as well as the pink bracelet on her other wrist, which is totally an A.I. Deep Fake image. In 3 years, I video chatted with one woman, and she was at a desk with 2 monitors. The chat lasted 6 minutes and a week later I was ghosted when I only wanted letter writing. Also, some received letters will have paragraphs that are repeated, as well as repeated, identical sentences in various profiles. Note the screenshot of the woman in the red dress. The background is reversed, but the woman is in the absolute exact same pose. If you write a negative review on this site, or any other, you will get a reply from them within minutes, asking for your profile name and email, offering you a bonus. If the bait is taken, automatically, your I.P. Address gets permanently banned. It's extremely difficult to tell which profiles are deep fakes unless you know how to detect them, but there's many on this site.

A.I. Photoshopping / woman in red dress, background reversed as negative image.
Date of experience: September 9, 2024
Pennsylvania
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Amazing there's constantly new profiles of beautiful women popping up in your area, no matter where you live. They all message you and have secret pictures you can buy into. Amazing. Don't expect anything after the first message. You can go through the user agreement and see this site is for "entertainment purposes only".

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Date of experience: October 30, 2022
Nebraska
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Glad I gave SB a try.
October 2, 2020

I would like to share that I did meet a wonderful man on Secret Benefits!

Started slow but was obvious we had something right away.

You should always use caution when meeting people online, so use your good common sense, but if you are wondering about this website, I give them an enthusiastic approval!

Best of luck to everyone else out there looking for someone special!

Date of experience: October 1, 2020
Australia
1 review
11 helpful votes
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True I earn good money but it does not mean you have to charge me "almost": $10 for each message, $10 to see her photos, $30 to be her top admirer, $10 to highlight my messages in her message list… this is a rip off in the broad daylight. After sending messages randomly 99 percent of the girls even do not bother to look at your profile let alone replying back… interestingly some message you but when I reply back then they either disappear or go into ghost mode. You have no privacy and they continually edit your profile information for their own benefits to make people ask and message each other as much as possible. For example I put " weekly allowance for the loyal girl" and they removed it because it's against their " guidelines" and people should exchange messages to know about each other's condition which means more benefits for the website…obviously not fair at all in my opinion. Looking for other options

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Date of experience: May 16, 2022
Alabama
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Customer support is good
January 31, 2022

I don't normally expects these kind of date sites to have such good support for its members, but the last 2 interactions via email was super fast and very courteous. Means a bunch to me where I've tried similar dating web sites and responses would often be unfriendly if at all.

Date of experience: January 31, 2022
Canada
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I am giving a shout to Secret Benefits for their service particularly support today getting back with resolution.
I haven't found serious log term but there are some real people looking for connections from my experience.

Date of experience: December 21, 2023
Virginia
1 review
47 helpful votes
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$cam Alert
August 22, 2018

Run! Three months on site didn't meet one woman. They deleted my profile when I wrote
"this site is fake" to a girl who was a bot or employee, so they read your messages.
This site is a scam filled with bots or probably even paid girls to get men to spend their credits. The girls will look real, probably stolen pics. This site uses the same tactics as able Madison. Real women are few and far between and some asked me for $800 week allowances but expected no intimate relationship.

Date of experience: August 19, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Sorry you didn't enjoy your experience. There are no bots on the site and nobody is paid to make men spend their credits. As with any dating site, we can't ensure that members will reply to messages. We have thousands of women and men signing up on a daily basis, unfortunately not all of them become active. It sounds like you were unable to come to agreeable terms with another member, sorry to hear that but it hardly warrants such an unfair review.

Maine
1 review
1 helpful vote
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This really works
June 13, 2018

I've never had one problem with this site, it's fun, safe, and a wonderful way to get into the sugar baby lifestyle. I really enjoy getting the emails from Stella, and hearing about the other girls stories as well!

Date of experience: June 12, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks Emilia, we are very happy to hear you enjoy Secret Benefits and that it has allowed you to realize your dream sugar baby lifestyle.

California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Nicely done
May 30, 2019

There are several sites like this one that promise the same thing but so far I've had most luck finding successful guys on Secret Benefits. I've found two semi-long term partners here and am back looking for a third. The site has changed quite a bit since my last romp through, more guys to sift through but still a great option.

Date of experience: May 28, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

That's great to hear. Thanks for taking the time to share your positive experience.

Virginia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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As a man, I have started to have luck conversing with promising future dates, when suddenly the login started asking for a "verification code sent to" my email. Despite repeated requests for codes and emailing them directly, I never received anything from them, not even in spam folder. However, upon contacting SB, they responded fairly quickly and solved the problem. This is a really good site with real women on it.

Date of experience: June 18, 2019
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Sorry for the glitch but I'm glad we were able to get the problem solved. I'm glad you are enjoying the site.

Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I've been using dating apps and online classifieds for many years now and have had some great experiences meeting amazing women and also some very horrible/nightmarish experiences.

After using this dating website for the past couple of months, my opinion soley based on how it's worked for me has been great. I'm seeing 2 very beautiful women and currently chatting a couple others. I'm not ready to settle on just one person at the moment and the ladies I'm seeing are ok with that as well.

The site itself works like a charm, no bugs, chat is fast, very responsive site all around. It does take effort on my end as anything does if you want real results. I would say the only issue I have is I would like to see a more comprehensive filter section. Otherwise, I'm very please and would recommend to anyone considering this site.

Date of experience: March 28, 2022
Florida
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Nice customer service
February 18, 2021

I reported a guy who wanted my bank info, supposedly to pay me before meeting - that's a big NO ladies, don't walk. RUN.

Customer service was very fast to respond and seemed genuinely interested in getting the guy off the site as soon as possible. There are scammers everywhere, good to know they try to remove them.

The site seems good, haven't met anybody yet but I haven't decided if this whole scene is for me or not.

Date of experience: August 2, 2018
Maryland
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Its a good dating site so far
September 12, 2018

I started a profile on Secret Benefits just out of curiosity mostly. I honestly had no expectations. I've used other more vanilla dating sites but never a sugar dating site before, so I don't have a similar site to compare from. However, all-in-all, I like that it's free, signing-up was super fast, I do get replies from guys every day I go on, chatting with several, and 4 successful dates this past month. Some guys are more generous than others, but they have all been sweet and acted like gentlemen. It seems I have more interest coming in from guys I've messaged before hand vs guys approaching me first.

Date of experience: September 11, 2018
Secret B. Secret Benefits Rep
over a year old

Thanks for sharing your experience Helen. I'm really glad to hear you've been enjoying your foray into sugar dating and that Secret Benefits has allowed you to meet some nice guys.