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Texas
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Nothing is preordained but it's nearly impossible to find your true match on IC because you have to break through a lot of scammers, the site doesn't care about ferreting them out. They only want to keep the cash flowing and make money. There is no screening and no profile verification. Also there is no banning. So all scammers seem to go on Internationalcupid. Usually it's pretty easy to identify these scammers and you don't easily get to the stage where you send them money, but you just waste so much time on them: one after one. I have better things to do with my time and money, so I left IC.

Date of experience: January 12, 2021
Cupid M. InternationalCupid Rep
over a year old

Dear Nelson,
We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles.If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk

Australia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I created account 3 times with different email address and all three times I have been blocked and denied access to their services because first time my sister helped me to set it up and they said I am fraudulent and won't ever have access to their website. They are the ones that are dodgy and won't let people who don't pay stay there. Do not recommend at all

Date of experience: February 16, 2021
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over a year old

Dear Tania,
Your safety is our top priority, and it’s possible we have deleted their profile because they broke our rules. If this has happened, we’ll display a message to let you know.
When an account is suspended or deleted, the member’s username disappears from all your lists, and all their messages, views, likes will no longer appear.

North Carolina
2 reviews
23 helpful votes
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Nope
May 26, 2016

I have been a member of many dating sites. This one is typical. Join and search for free. Great. But you can't communicate unless you pay. I might have considered paying, but I joined. The site this morning, and a few hours later I have almost 100 messages from the site. I'm not THAT good looking and I'm not rich. So, I am not fooled. There is no way I am going to pay. It seems like a big scam.

Date of experience: May 26, 2016
Iowa
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I joined to meet women from other countries, and instead got to meet a lot of bots. Almost every single profile on this website is fake. The admins should be ashamed of themselves and saying they do any kind of fraud prevention is a blatant lie. I did a reverse image search on many of the so-called "real women" there who messaged me. The profile pics are all pulled from other sites and some are even straight up stock photos. Within 24 hours of signing up, I had 200 messages in my inbox from a bunch of african/asian profiles. Great idea for a site and the interface is excellent, but there is no quality control at all and the spam is out of control. If this site was legit, I would definitely pay to upgrade but not in its current state.

Date of experience: January 9, 2022
Nevada
2 reviews
6 helpful votes
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It's truly shocking how many times I have been asked for money. Pretty much every day. No single date in 4 months. I'm a patient person, but that was too long. I left it with no hesitation. I'm sure there are other site which are legit. Just don't bother with trying out InternationalCupid. It's very poor site with bunch of scammers. Pile of feces!

Date of experience: November 1, 2020
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over a year old

Dear Douglas,
We are sorry that you have encountered non-genuine members on our app, we have zero tolerance toward these members. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a member, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk

California
1 review
3 helpful votes
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I have been on this site for a while now. I have yet to get any legit responses. All of them are scammers wanting to move our conversations off the site, try to get me to sign up for outside services (OnlyForChat has come up several times) and bilk me for money. Its all a racket. There seems to be a real source of this in Ghana (Ghana keeps coming up even when I remove Africa from my criteria) for some reason, and a lot of Asian posts as well. Now I know, they will follow this complaint up by saying they have a zero tolerance policy for scammers, but there is no way International Cupid can be serious about that. Nearly all of the 'women' on this thing are scammers! If they were serious about enforcing a no-scammers policy, why is it so thoroughly inundated with fake profiles? They're obviously not doing a very good job!

Date of experience: March 5, 2021
Cupid M. InternationalCupid Rep
over a year old

Dear Neil,
We do not facilitate the activities that you are suggesting in any shape or form. We have been in business for almost 20 years and have millions of customers around the world. We have a dedicated profile moderation team that works 24/7 to remove disingenuous profiles. We also use advanced safety technology to detect any behaviour that doesn't meet our community standards. In addition, we rely on our members to help us improve the dating experience for everyone, so if you encounter members that violate our standards, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at http://www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk.

South Africa
1 review
9 helpful votes
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Refund
March 26, 2022

I paid for the gold service. I immediately requested a refund as they deducted more money than stated. Poor customer service. Lack of skills. Was told a refund will be processed in a few days. They don't say how many days just a few. Then I was denied access. I want my money back. I have reported this to my bank as fraudulent. I will now be taking it further and posting reviews on every site I can find. I will also have a lawyer involved.

Date of experience: March 26, 2022
Texas
1 review
1 helpful vote
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IC is one of the scammiest dating sites ever. I learned my lesson hard and I was heart-broken by 2 women. I wasted 2 years and 10 months of my life on this d#*n site.
Eleanor Roosevelt said, "He who loses faith loses all". I didn't lose hope and I kept on searching. My perseverance was rewarded.
But the point of this review is to warn you guys off InternationalCupid because I don't want anyone else to be conned by those good-looking scammers.
They have sinister motives and use all kinds of manipulating techniques to get your $$. No woman is looking for relationship there. They all "make money" on the site.

Date of experience: August 18, 2021
Australia
6 reviews
25 helpful votes
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Hi,
I have spoken with a couple of women from the Philippines, most recently, Riza. These women are beautiful. When I asked one women who I'd been chatting to for ages on whatsapp and shared personal information (feelings stuff not financial) with I asked for a more personal photo, such as blowing me a kiss or a wave. Since then I have had no messages from her. Ok, it could be other things but this just doesn't fit right. After all the trouble she went to, the back and forth, I can think of no other explanation than the photo I asked for would be impossible because she isn't who she says she it. That's the only answer that makes sense. SO... not sure that any of this dating overseas women pretence is worth it.

Date of experience: May 24, 2017
Luxembourg
6 reviews
20 helpful votes
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90-95% fake profiles, Russian email harvesters and outright scammers. This is legitimized international love-scamming-fraud on a very big scale.
The Cupid network must have made a calculus where a platform for love-scammers and unbelievable beautiful pictures can lure in paying customers. Instead of building something real, for the single people out there.

And please customer service, don't send be the standard answer: "it is difficult, we do all we can do bla bla bla"
Tell me instead, what the cupid network intends to do – the credibility of the entire range of cupid sites are very low in my book.
(Just a simple screening of the empty profiles w/ a single beautiful pic would be a good start.)

Date of experience: September 5, 2021
Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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After created my profile for about 3 days and I received that "you profile has been terminated and cannot be reactivated"
Well, I only browser through&have proper information on profile and didnt sent out&response any message yet since I am not interested in at all but got terminated. I don't think is a good site and will delete it anytime soon so I don't mind it. However, I just afraid of they are using my information/photos to create fake profile since there are so many bad review.

At least should allow some time for me to log in and delete all my information as well as delete my account myself before take action!

Date of experience: January 23, 2022
France
1 review
4 helpful votes
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In connection with the last events, I began to receive offensive messages from users. Support service can only offer one thing: block the user. Also, they promise that the page of the user will be disabled, but I see that they do not. Don't recommend this service.

Date of experience: March 27, 2022
Germany
1 review
20 helpful votes
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Mostly scam profiles
December 6, 2020

Inbox is instantly flooded with messages from asian / african accounts ignoring everything you write in your profile, sending standarttexts and are only up to collect data and have you add them in whatsapp where they will start asking for money. 9 out of 10 are a attempt to scam you. They even send exactly the same messages with the same whatsappnumber from different accounts at the same time. I dont blame the platform itself but ist just horrible

Date of experience: December 6, 2020
Cupid M. InternationalCupid Rep
over a year old

Dear Tobias,
We are sorry that you have encountered non-genuine members on our app. Please be assured that we do not send fake messages to our members. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a member, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk

Netherlands
1 review
0 helpful votes
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I didn't know women could be so money-hungry! I guess the site attracts golddiggers and scammers from all over the world and perhaps the site's moderators, administrators and owners are up to their neck in it. I have been asked for money or gifts 27 times. The majority of the women have fake photos! I'm not even sure they are women. Could be men as well pretending to be a woman. It's garbage, not a dating site. Not even close! I took my profile down - I don't need it. IC is useless, it's a time and money-waster. I definitely don't recommend it!

Date of experience: August 11, 2021
Netherlands
3 reviews
53 helpful votes
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The women are extremely money-hungry! They let too many scammers in; there is no screening, no profile verification. I got sick of scammers asking me for money and deleted my account. I 'm glad I left InternationalCupid – I'm not wasting my money there anymore. IC membership only gives you access to a slew of scammers and catfishers. It was a very disappointing and meaningless experience.

Date of experience: October 2, 2021
Netherlands
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I met up with plenty of international scammers on IC. I was stupid enough to send money to a Philippino woman. Of course she ghosted me. I'll never make this mistake again.
Guys, save your time and money from phony sites and scam artists! No matter what site you are using, don't send your money to any woman before you meet her!

Date of experience: September 29, 2020
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over a year old

Dear Gordon,

We apologize for your unwelcoming experience. We have zero tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Unfortunately, it is extremely hard for us to verify the real intentions of the members as most dating sites do not require any form of formal identification to register and most members use their private email address to communicate with members.
It is very sad that a small minority of dishonest people will make such a negative impression of our site, as the vast majority of the members registered with us are honest.
We do our best to remove these people from our site, deleting any profiles showing dubious photos or information, as soon as we see them, however, we also rely on our valued members who kindly report to us any suspect or fake profiles they find on our site.
In addition, Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk

Texas
2 reviews
8 helpful votes
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It's legit but...
December 9, 2019

This is a legit site however, there are a few well actually several scammers. The Russian women want emails. They will dazzle you with sexy pic and nice emails. Eventually they ask for money. The women from Ghana (and there are a lot of them) also want money for food etc. They will send sexy pics in return. The phillipinno women and Thai women seem most legit but they tend to ask for gifts etc. So, you may have to drop a few bucks. Totally your decision. Personally I make it clear I won't send money. That's in my headline actually. Seems to work. There are real women on here but unless you are actually going to go over seas it's probably not worth the effort. Unless you don't mind, don't send money. Just opens you up to all kinds of problems. I'm sure if you take you time you can meet someone nice. But then again they may just use and divorce you after two years for citizenship. Good luck and don't be stupid

Date of experience: December 9, 2019
Cupid M. InternationalCupid Rep
over a year old

Dear Joe,
We have zero-tolerance towards members of the nature you described. Our fraud prevention team works 24/7 to remove non-genuine profiles. If you would like to report a suspicious profile, please submit a ‘report abuse’ form or contact us at www.internationalcupid.com/en/help/helpdesk

Canada
2 reviews
1 helpful vote
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Great site
March 28, 2021

I've joined the site on and off for a couple of years and I find it to be very legit with lots of messages and interests from women all around the world with no issues what so ever. I just don't bother with the much younger women messaging me. But all in all I think the site is great and easy to use. That's my intake on it anyway

Date of experience: March 26, 2021
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over a year old

Dear Robert,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave us this amazing review. We do try to give you the best value for what you pay by giving you the best experience that's effective and safe. Good luck in your search for love.

GB
1 review
9 helpful votes
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I'm glad I only signed up for 1 weeks service on this site, does this site have any real poeple looking to date I replied to dozens of message and after 10 minutes of conversaton every single one of them turned out to be some kind of scammer one went to the trouble of trying to blackmail me when I reported this to admin nothing was done and the profile is still there. This site should be closed as a matter of public safety

Date of experience: June 30, 2022
Virginia
2 reviews
17 helpful votes
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It is Horrible!
September 7, 2015

9.% scammers on the whole, with a few real people. I was stupid enough to join and then rejoin and it has been an even worse experience the second time, but has confirmed that it is a scam site. When you are having a fake email you at least once a week if not more, something is very wrong. I'm sorry but it means your website is garbage. If you are trying to keep your website scam free than you need to up your security protocols homey. This site is totally ridonkulous. Never join it and never waste your money on it. In fact, I am going to request a refund, which I doubt I will get.

Date of experience: September 7, 2015
Cupid M. InternationalCupid Rep
over a year old

We are very sorry that our site has not met your expectations and that you have encountered non-genuine members on our site.

Our dedicated Fraud Prevention Team works 24/7 to keep our site safe, by:

Deleting any profiles believed to be non-genuine.
Providing a “Report Abuse” form for members to report suspicious behavior.
Providing extensive information about how to avoid being scammed in multiple locations on the website, including the member mail system and profile pages.
Using third party, world-class fraud prevention technology

Unfortunately, sometimes non-genuine profiles slip through. We also rely on our valued members to report any suspicious or fake profiles they find on our site.

Please contact enquiries@internationalcupid.com if you have any further concerns.

Overview

InternationalCupid has a rating of 1.2 stars from 120 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with InternationalCupid most frequently mention fake profiles, credit card and real people. InternationalCupid ranks 132nd among International Dating sites.

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