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GB
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Scam! Steer clear.
August 12, 2023

My profile showing no photo and no details suddenly exploded with lots of hot women wanting to 'chat and meet'. Even when I pointed out that they were fakes, I got more messages from the same 'women' saying how happy they were to chat to me. Most of the sites run by this company actually say in their terms and conditions that profiles are site generated for entertainment purposes only and no 'meets' are possible, but this one doesn't, however they obviously are fake profiles.

Date of experience: August 12, 2023
GB
1 review
7 helpful votes
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Scam site
January 5, 2021

The women are never off-line and you get a response within seconds. They never are away from their screens. Funny thing one woman was located in Braunston, UK. A beautiful village that I know. I asked her to tell me about the village in which she "lived". Nothing came back. I than sent a message asking to talk dirty. I had a response to that in seconds. I then asked again about Braunston. A few minutes later I got the reply directly copied out of Google. Total scam. Don't waste your money like I have.

Date of experience: January 5, 2021
Canada
1 review
8 helpful votes
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This site is a fake profile hell. There all going to a call Center. They will chat with you but most messages are generic. There are some that monitor from accounts. If you get the robot you get the generic message until the call Center comes online. Then you get a con man. Or con woman at some call Center. Ask them a question about your local city that you can not find on google right away. There stumped every time. Or give you a answer that has nothing to do with your question. Don't fall for it. I had the bank block the payment. It took less then half a hour to figure out this scam. I spent only 25$ to buy enough coins to figure out the scam

Date of experience: March 6, 2021
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Game changer!
May 21, 2023

Met loads of amazing attractive women. No munters or time wasters at all. Just copious numbers of frustrated foxes looking for attention and affection. I can't ever see myself getting into a long term relationship with anyone because you can meet several sirens a month on this site. I'm very sore but happy. Give it a go!

Not really it's a con

Date of experience: May 19, 2023
Washington
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Exciting dating site 😉
February 23, 2024

This is the first dating site where Meet great people that are respectful and polite to talk with anything that is on my mind.

Date of experience: February 21, 2024
GB
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I believe that this is just a moneymaking machine. I believe that the women get free messages whilst the guys have to pay. The women will never talk to you. If you give them your mobile number they never turn up. If they said they're going to me I don't believe that this is a true and honest Site, it's just a complete scam. I'd love a reply but I dealt with your get one

Date of experience: October 14, 2023
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Fake dating site
October 10, 2023

Total rip off,I paid £4.99 for 150 coins,each message reply cost £0.50p, I think there's some clever people behind this, making a lot of money,are those people real on this site,don't waist your money,I'd rather donate my money to charity

Date of experience: October 10, 2023
GB
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Spam city
July 28, 2021

Idates. Looks good. Lets see. Spam after spam. 20 year olds want every man on the site. No matter how old you are and some older women.its expensive to send replies. Ive heard about tinder. I reckon this is a similar site. Thumbs down, if you know what i mean.

Date of experience: July 28, 2021
Norway
1 review
7 helpful votes
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On legit sites like J4Dream.com and others after you have chatted for a while a genuine woman should agree to use free service. But on Idates things never go as they are supposed to go! Women refuse to message via a free service no matter what. They just want to chat with you all the time because it's very expensive and you can loose money there quicker than at a casino. You get computer generated messages and replies from fake profiles. Women know nothing about their location. What a sneaky and underhanded way to do business by exploiting the vulnerable and stealing money from single people! Idates is 100 % fake!

Date of experience: October 10, 2023
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Scam and rip off
October 25, 2023

Big time rip off. Girls (?) are paid by site owner to generate messsges to keep guys buying more 'coins' for more messages but never meet up. Con and scam

Date of experience: October 25, 2023
Canada
1 review
4 helpful votes
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IDates is now under a Federal Investigation for illegally using Bots, as well as, for paying women to chat with you to waist your time and money! Do not join, as they will be shut down soon!

Date of experience: March 8, 2024
GB
1 review
7 helpful votes
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It is a scam site
August 20, 2023

Idates is a scam I got 50 messages but I know it was a scam the whole point is to get money I only lost£5 they are that bent they will ask for you number and when you do they just say seriously keep well away.they are pirates

Date of experience: August 20, 2023
TT
1 review
2 helpful votes
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Basically just a bunch of old men on this site. I'm literally 19 and men 80 and up are contacting me. Some of them are asking be to pretend I'm younger because it turns them on. I would not trust any of these men around children.

Date of experience: June 16, 2023
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Idates
February 18, 2022

I have to say that this website is fake as when u are talking to so called women u get a generic response that is completely robotic with no direct response to the questions u ask only to make u deposit more money for no out come fake site I speak from experience.

Date of experience: February 18, 2022
Luxembourg
1 review
20 helpful votes
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It is a money pit
July 20, 2021

Minus 5 stars! I joined http://J4Dating.com - surprisingly, things turned around for me there even though I didn't set out with high expectations but I'm starting to go on real offline dates. It's early days yet, but I already like these results. Idates is nothing like this. Idates is a total bull crap, forgive my language. They are so nefarious in their methods for getting our cash that they stopped accepting real people's profiles – only "professionals" paid for chatting. Idates is not a legit dating site. It is a money pit. I had been endlessly wasting my money there until I opened my eyes, figured out their underhanded sneaky "business model" and stopped using it.

Date of experience: July 20, 2021
Portugal
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Total waste of time and money
June 27, 2023

I recently and stupidly signed up to this site and was innundated with messages you have to pay to reply to, I strongly suspect that the site is full of fakes. No women want to meet, just keep you chatting and paying

Date of experience: June 27, 2023
GB
2 reviews
7 helpful votes
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Don't bother here.
November 12, 2020

Most of the weman on here look great but over half of them don't read your profile, plus not 1 of them have a problem of toping up coins, But to the average man it gets expensive. When you have been chatting for about a month and start to ask about meeting up you get every excuse possible. Stay well clear.

Date of experience: November 12, 2020
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Fake
November 16, 2022

Not real just a scam lots of fake profiles of attractive you females begging you to see them. They are not real just the site staff trying to get you to spend money so you can reply to all the interest which is fake

Date of experience: November 16, 2022
New Zealand
1 review
1 helpful vote
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A waste of money
December 8, 2021

Whether you wait 1 month or 6 months, I have met no one. They reply quickly whenever you send them a message, but you ask them if they would like to meet, they just say that they are too busy, want to take it slow, or not ready. And costing $2.50NZD per message, it adds up quickly and is a total ripoff!

Date of experience: December 8, 2021
GB
1 review
2 helpful votes
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A Big scam
February 4, 2023

Hi There please please don't water your money I txted sevetal dates in the early hours of the morning all txted back in.seconds Something fishy here all want you to stay on line costing your money.
The company took 2 unauthorsisef payment Be Ware Be careful Stay well away

Date of experience: February 4, 2023

Overview

iDates has a rating of 1.3 stars from 77 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with iDates most frequently mention fake profiles, real people and total scam. iDates ranks 629th among Dating sites.

service
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value
42
shipping
21
returns
21
quality
31