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Virginia
1 review
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Grindr is the worst gay hookup sight on the internet, not that the others are much better. The problem with anything anywhere these days, not just on the internet, is it's all about somebody making money.
1. the fake spam conman profiles or con-whatever (because you never know who's on the other end of a con) are out of control and Grindr Admin does NOTHING about it.
2. ad's in general are TOTALLY OUT OF CONTROL! They freeze up your window and make you have to close the app and reopen it. I.e. I wouldn't buy an effin online Monopoly app if it where the last thing on earth and I was bored out of my mind! Freezes your window regardless if you are a paying subscriber or a free user so the other guy on the other end never knows if you are ghosting him or what? Great way to hook up! Way to go Grindr NOT!
3. most of the controls in the setting don't work consistently let alone work at all. I.e. I block the same guy 10 times a day and he reappears.
4. Profiles stay up long after you exit the app so other guys still think you are online.

Date of experience: December 29, 2023
Australia
1 review
0 helpful votes
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All of their annoying advertising has been related to gambling. Their advertising on gambling is imposed on the use with poo ups that cannot be deleted. Their web site won't function at all if BlockAd is installed. All in all a very manipulative and deceptive web site

Date of experience: August 14, 2019
Switzerland
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I made an unlimited subscription (60 dollars per month in my country). Grindr banned me without explanation when I had 1.5 months left. They didn't even bother to answer when I contacted them despite making me lost more than 60 dollars. They seem to have 0 respect for their customer, you should look on the Internet they have shady practices (HIV scandal)with using your data and don't seem to respect RGPD/GDPR. If you still use this app don't subscribe to anything + signal the app to google/Apple!

Plus honestly, WTF do I have to actually say yes to everyone to be sure not to be ban? Does Grindr promote rape or sexual aggression?

Date of experience: October 28, 2020
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Thieves
March 15, 2022

This is the second year that I have had money stolen from my account from grindr. I have never wanted to upgrade. And yet its taken £72 twice.
I contacted them and they have appologies. But still no money back. Be very careful its scamming money.

Date of experience: March 15, 2022
Indiana
1 review
0 helpful votes
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Ok... I DO like the Grindr format, BUT... their computer KEEPS BANNING MY ACCOUNT for no apparent reason! I am not rude to people as I chat with them. I do not stalk. I do not have an inappropriate pic in as my profile pic. I DO NOT send "repeat" messages to people that may be "flagged" as spam. But... my account(s) (I keep making new ones!) KEEP getting flagged and banned by their terrible computer. At first their customer service would unban me... but now I hear NOTHING back from them. Very unprofessional and frustrating!

Date of experience: June 13, 2018
Washington
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I get contacted at least once a month from guys wanting money for sex. The last time was July 30, and the msg was "Pay for Sex". I immediately reported it to Grinder and have done so every week since and the account is still active. Conclusion: Grinder approves, supports and promotes PROSTITUTION! If you use an Apple device then write to Apple and let them know. If enough people write to Apple then they will remove this crappy app from the Apple Store and no one with an Apple device will be able to download their app.

Date of experience: August 27, 2017
Rhode Island
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Horrible app several times it freezes locks me out and steals my money, do not use this app. Its disgusting

Date of experience: June 22, 2023
Indiana
1 review
1 helpful vote
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Complaint's: 1 month paid review 19.99$ - Owned by China, Support SUCKS email only, not enough description space, cost/app not worth it very risky, chatting, profile review free unlike any dating/sex site which makes it even more RISK -death count? After payment 90% chance of getting banned on terms conditions for something you didn't do or no proof again support SUCKS, too easy to open account countless scam's overseas and abroad. Committed fraud with the help of APPLE STORE.COM countless times, one reviewer say's "They are thieves", couldn't be truer! Apple should know better!
Yes, we need a great dating site that supports itself by AD's, lower membership fees for all and tightens the security, risk, death's that happen all too well on dating sites. We all need to and deserve love which these day's is hard to find specially in the gay arena, c'mon investor's you can make money but getting rich on someone else's attempt at love is just another sick scam in my opinion.

Date of experience: January 8, 2019
Florida
1 review
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I was advised I was reported for violation of Grindrs terms and conditions. When I contacted John G. In customer support he would not tell the the specific reason for which I was banned. I repeatedly requested an impartial 3rd party binding arbitration as provided in their terms and conditions and never received a response. Its a shame they expect members to adhere to their terms and conditions but they don't. I've sent a letter to the office of the chairman of the board of Beijing Kunlun Tech Co. Ltd., majority interest owner of Grindr, asking them to review my situation and now waiting for a response. Hopefully someone higher up will be concerned about how customer service is mistreating it's members.

Date of experience: March 13, 2019
Spain
1 review
4 helpful votes
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Ban you after taking money
September 28, 2019

I recently joined, paid for three months and after one week I was banned with no explanation or refund. I have been using sites for ten years and have never had this, I certainly did not break any of their guidelines. A SCAM. BE CAREFUL. DO NOT PAY this company. It is also full of rent boys, overall a miserable experience. DO NOT PAY THESE PEOPLE

Date of experience: September 28, 2019
Switzerland
1 review
2 helpful votes
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The app was nice in the beginning, then they started to make money - it's fair as no service is for free.
Then they wanted more money - ok advertisements and paid accounts with more functionalities... now they became unlimited greedy. Paying for Xtra account (subscription for a whole year) and they changing rules during the game, removing existing and basic functionalities which I pay for. And forcing to buy the highly overpriced unlimited version. Not gonna extend my subscription as I pay money and receive not much more than in a free account.
Not mentioning they they have no control over age verification and daily spams, and aggressive escort profiles.
They should be suied for using the LGBT+ community as they became main app for us and they're using the situation in very inappropriate and greedy way.
Very bad strategy. I hope their position will be taken over by new app which os not only looking to get money from us.

Date of experience: November 26, 2022
GB
1 review
1 helpful vote
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No reason I got banned and haven't used for 3 months it's a scam let's hope they shutdown soon
They are rude judge and jury won't tell you why keep taking subscriptions too

Date of experience: June 15, 2021
California
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I CONSTANTLY receive the following "Grindr has stopped working" - providing feedback is pointless - and it's never ending ability to randomly disconnect/reconnect (with no option other than to wait) is ridiculous

Date of experience: January 11, 2019
Georgia
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I have used grindr for several years and it has been a good safe source for hooking up with random men - HOWEVER the useless and annoying ads and games.are it difficult to enjoy the site. Can someone PLEASE help with the endless ads my gosh I'm on here for fun not to see your endless freaking ads that all or most of your viewers have no interest in - please for God sakes end the ads!

Date of experience: April 19, 2023
Ohio
1 review
5 helpful votes
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Grindr is awful
October 24, 2020

If the countless fake profiles and scammers don't frustrate you, Grindr will just ban you for no reason and keep your prepaid annual subscription. It's a criminal enterprise.

Date of experience: October 24, 2020
Nevada
1 review
3 helpful votes
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Tranny App - GrindHER
November 19, 2019

To each their own. I'm gay and like Men as Men. Beards, body hair -including happy trails, chest hair, arm pits, and pubes. Can't believe how many times I have to delete the trannies from messaging me, some coming back to tell me that I'm to discriminating against them, just cause I told them I'm not interested in getting to know guys that wears women's panties, stockings, bras, etc. One chick-$#*! reports me as being rude and discriminating. Grinder bans me for Zero Tolerance... and keeps my money for yearly subscription. Are they judging me for what I like and dont like? I'm so glad there are so many other gay Apps that I've discovered are for men meeting men. Guys4guys. Adam4adam... steve4steve... scuff. GrindHER wasn't for me.

Date of experience: November 19, 2019
Florida
1 review
1 helpful vote
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I have been banned so many times on grinder that I now realize it's not worth the effort to convince the gods of gay hookup sex site that they allow to many customers to be blackmailed or blackballed
For the most trivial reasons and if ur pictures are more attractive than some old crows that get jealous you will be banned.
$#*! GRINDER

Date of experience: February 14, 2022
Spain
1 review
6 helpful votes
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Falsely banned
September 1, 2019

My account got banned from Grindr after an accusation of being harassing or bullying people without any proof, since there is none because I didn't harass or bully anybody. I have being a paying member for years and after contacting the support team they deny to provide me evidence and refer to their terms and conditions:

Please review our Terms of Service, under section "Our Refusal Or Suspension Of Your Service":
11.3 Grindr reserves the right to refuse or suspend access to any user, for any reason or no reason, and without any notice.

11.4 Grindr may terminate any User Account You have with the Grindr Services or Your use of the Grindr Services or any portion thereof, if Grindr believes that you have breached this Agreement, or for any other reason, in its sole discretion.

Date of experience: September 1, 2019
GB
1 review
3 helpful votes
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During my time on this site, I have had the worst experience that I couldve imagined. I was mugged by a guy and his gang, and when I tried to warn others in the area, by writing on my profile, I was permanently banned, with no explanation. His profile was allowed to remain and he met others (probably to groom them. They came and told me). When I tried to complain and get a refund for my annual subscription, all my emails and messages were flat ignored. They had obviously banned my home IP and my phone IPs. There are drug dealers, muggers, con artists, prostitutes, violent people, hidden profiles, no security measures, terrible customer service, it is the most expensive, you get stood up a lot, people are rude, nearly everyone is practicing unsafe sex. I was a victim of crime twice through this site, and they offered absolutely no support or advice, they just banned me for posting a warning statement to my community. It's a terrible site and the owners do not care enough to even explain why you get banned, even when you point out that you are entitled to information under Data Protection laws. They do not deserve their licenses. They should not be trusted with public safety.

Date of experience: April 18, 2021
Australia
1 review
5 helpful votes
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I have been banned few times because I state very clear my view about PrEP. I have read the latest research conducted in Australia (VicPrEP) and published in a reputable journal. I put on my profile the findings that PrEP is increasing unsafe sex and STIs and then, I get banned with no explanation. Are these gay activist are getting paid for every pill stupid queens take instead of adhering to condom usage?

Date of experience: September 14, 2017

Overview

Grindr has a rating of 1.5 stars from 184 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers dissatisfied with Grindr most frequently mention customer service, drug dealers and fake profiles. Grindr ranks 21st among Gay Dating sites.

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value
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shipping
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returns
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quality
40