The site's purpose is to generate revenue for the owners and so you will be constantly advised to upgrade your membership. The photographs displayed and ages quoted seem to bear little resemblance to reality. A lot of ladies in their 50's sadly seem to have aspirations to be cougars and think they can find their soulmates in much younger men - dream on girls!

Vlad L.

1 review

0 helpful votes

“Scam”

7/28/18

Bloody scam. They monitor every picture and message and if you are not hot lady they will block your account.

Mark T.

1 review

0 helpful votes

“FindSomeone”

2/12/18

Ok, listen up. This is one of the very few dating websites which is legit and won't scam you. Being New Zealand-based, it subject to NZ law, including the Fair Trading Act.

Yes, it is well policed/moderated, but this is to protect subscribers from being scammed or subjected to various forms of online abuse.

I've had a lot of dates from this site, all interesting genuine people, and would recommend it highly.

Hit m.

3 reviews

13 helpful votes

“Heavily policed site, they control and monitor photos,...”

8/22/14

Heavily policed site, they control and monitor photos, and all messages.

The general expectation of the women is that they play the game and get a relationship with all its trappings automatically.

There are no chilled out ladies on this site, there are the following though

(i) Gold diggers. Their husband who works at Microsoft has just kicked them out for a much younger version....their house income now has a significant shortfall.....and yes you guessed it, you're the solution to their problem.....

(ii) Fruit loops. These come on all shapes and sizes and they are likely to be attractive. Your mates eyes will water when they see them with you....it's just you have to hide the kitchen knives everytime they come around....

(iii) Pseudo men. These are again mostly tall and attractive ladies....who have forgone their natural desires to chase a professional career......now in their late 30s they suddenly find themselves alone and seeking a a man. Having worked in career path of men, they exhibit all the same characteristics of men. The only men that can fit into their lives are such "pull throughs" they are not attracted to them. Are you ready to be a YES man?

(iv) Desperate breeders. At a unknown age mostly around 35, something clicks in some women and they decide to have children. Its just they are single and have no one to fund this costly exercise. These ladies have one thing on their mind, reproduce NOW!. Are you ready to FUND their breeding program and of course start changing nappies and never sleep properly again forever?

(vi) "Trade downers" These ladies are extremely intelligent, well qualified and professional and often tall and attractive. They do not like to be challenged. And they like someone to run around after them. They prefer men that have no qualifications, poor grasp of the English language and have a menial job. Are you ready to be their SLAVE?

cheers

Hitman