ChnLove

My father who I will say I'd dumb as hell had flown the China 3 times over the last couple of years. There were many times that different women were coming here but something always happened. He had to file bankruptcy and after that was done he got himself a loan and bought himself a one way ticket there. Again he is stupid for falling for it but these people are ruining people's lives. Don't waste your money

Keep your hard earned money. Stay away from this disgusting scam. To prove it, do the following. Establish a supposed relationship with a woman for one month. Stay away from the site. Come back in four months and you will have the answer. It is nothing but a scam. They are not even smart about it. They think they are dealing with idiots. Chinese agencies are nothing but low life crooks. It's your money guys!

I am shamefully admitting I have been at this site for years. I have known it is mostly a scam, but because of weak options, I kept thinking I could sift through all the scamming and find a few honest ladies 40+ at least (I am 56). I have spent hundreds of $$ over the years. This is a very expensive site! $7/letter, $7 per 10 minutes of chat, $7/minute phone call, and last, you must exchange 20 letters between You and a Lady to qualify to request her address. Then the charge is $200 for her address! The Agencies that work for ChnLove.com are from all cities of China and ALL privately owned. There is no honor with these Agencies, and no standards set up by the actual ChnLove.com Website to hold them accountable. The Private Owners of the Agencies get paid from your letters, and especially your chat and phone calls! So to make money they recruit many attractive women for photo sessions and set-up profiles. Some of the women might actually be real, but I do not think these women know their profiles are being used by the Agency to phish for men! As a member, you think you are getting "Admiration Letters" from quality, attractive women, but in truth it is an Employee of the local Agency 98% of the time! How do I know this? I would see the Lady who wrote me a letter online and chat with her. I can see from her words in chat that she does not even know who I am and supposedly she just sent me an "Admiration Letter" that same day! I had many of this kind of example! Also, you get "Admiration Letters" from the most gorgeous women from that city's Agency and many of whom are very young under 25! I mean they are gorgeous! However, its the Agency hoping you will reply to the "Admiration letter" ($7) (and another $7 to open her reply letter to your letter) or you will try to chat live with the Lady ($7 for 10 minutes). While you are online just going through profiles, you will get bombarded with Live Chat Invites from incredibly beautiful women. Years ago, it was just kind seemingly real invites, but this past 2 years now the invites are most of the time invites with one line highly sexual comments. You know Chinese women don't talk like this! These Agencies are desperate for more money! As soon as you click on that invite you are charged $7.! How do I know the Live Chat is bogus? Well, many times I would check to see if a Lady was real... I would click on her chat invite as I had received an "Admiration Letter" from her earlier! She would not even know who I was! If the ladies of that particular city are real at all they have no idea how there Profile is being used by that Agency! It is a 100% scam! These last years I know their game very well, but kept trying to find that one mature Lady that really might be real. It is a shame I have always been so attracted to Asian women! It has been a waste of time! I am on to a new site called ChinaLoveMatch recommended by people here at Site Jabber. I will try it out and see how it goes. You would be better off than using ChnLove.com by trying a site that has a $25-40 monthly Membership and allows you full access to letter writing, chat, and getting the Ladies contact info. You probably have a 30/70 chance of finding a true Lady. Just be careful and be methodical to check all her actions/answers for truth. A true Chinese woman is honorable I still believe, but the Chinese Businesses are like any other Country... all about the money and getting it anyway they can! They have ZERO Honor! ChnLove is a true 100% scam take it from a man who lost hundreds and hundreds there over several years!

The easiest way to find out that it is fake is to ask them to write a specific word or phrase when they write back to you. Write this in your profile. Just write, ''if you write to me include the phrase, 'batman is not a bat', in your response''. After i put this in my profile i got 2 letters with my phrase in it within a few days. Now after about 18 months and a thousand admirer mails i have not seen it again. If these girls are so in love with you do you not think that they would include your phrase. The truth is they are just sending form letters to 10,000s of suckers, raking in multi millions of dollars. They make so much money that they can afford to saturate the internet with their own false reviews. If you are as wonderful and in demand as this fake site makes you feel, then why if you go to a real site no girl will respond. Lol the heart is deceitful above all things.

I have been on this site for several years now and in the past year I have found that there are many many more scammers then a few years ago. I really don't believe it is the women that are all bad it's just the translators are told by their agencies to omit some or most of your info and questions to the ladies. I have met several ladies over the years from China through Chnlove and have found them very kind and really wanting to marry. This site will not get one more cent from me.

This site just takes your money and you don't talk to lady in the photo if at all it is a lady... Just ask for there ID like driver liecence, they will make every excuse not to produce... I had no photo on there and it seemed like every girl wanted to talk and marry me( I don't think so)I also wrote my phone number on paper and sent as photo that you get charged $7 every time you send or open one of there photos. I said if you serious about relationship you will ring that number, but the reply is I cannot read number can you send again ( yer right)

Come on people doesn't anybody know there is woman shortage in china of 50 million!
Look at the photo's, all professional.

I had done a facebook group " Qpid scam", please joint us, more we will be more we have chance to put them in prison, to close this dating scam website and his family website, and to make our money back, my uncle is a major officer at Interpol, i will give him our list of complaint

Stronger together, joint us on face book " Qpid scam"

Don't do it. It's a scam. Cost were unbelievably exorbitant. I got caught out with the pricing structure, it's extremely misleading. More importantly, the 'ladies' pumped you to communicate with them... all for additional costs. For all I know, I was talking to a 65 year old bald man.

What you will get is a lot of women writing anything to keep you writing. They will cover you up with mail, because you must pay for so-called translation. What is really happening is that these women are being paid to write, and if you are so foolhardy as to buy contact information, the lady will immediately cease and desist. Why, because she has all the money she is gonna get from you. I could go on and on, but the bottom line is that the Chinese do not have any integrity.

Benom

Flew to China, waited in airport. Finally an Ugly Fat Women came over and told me the beautiful girl I came so far and spent thousands of dollars for had broken her leg last night! Sounds familiar?

You will be fleeced for hundreds of $ before you receive a contact detail, and then fleeced some more before you are "permitted" to meet. More proof: I have seen 2 women showing the same photos!

Mail from different ladies are repetitive. Basically photocopies. After waiting 3 months to request lady contact details you have spent thousands. Lady's will say she loves you, will marry you, sex etc but refuses your request for contact details.

Ragazzi, è tutto falso...!
Ho speso quasi 1000 per corrispondere con dei fantasmi... Ho comunicato per oltre 6 mesi e non ho potuto neanche avere un numero di telefono..

I have been on the site many times. I was suspicious from the first, primarily because of the consistency of the stories and the fact that I found several of the ladies on other sites, sometimes adult sites. My thoughts were confirmed when I carried on a correspondence via private email (addresses were exchanged by means I will not reveal but have worked several times) with a lady that is one of the people hired to answer letters from men. This lady was the correspondent for 10 of the models represented on the site. She was hired because of her facility with English and her ability to keep her stories straight. She also wrote many of the personal descriptions used. The lady told me, and provided evidence to back up her claim, that virtually all the girls shown in the highest level of representation were second or third tier professional models. They have no direct contact with men looking for ladies and did not want any contact. The first and most direct indication of false represntation is on the seeking men bar. Guys- 20 year old women HAVE NO INTEREST IN 50-70 YEAR OLD MEN!. It is true in Asia and as it is true everywhere else. If you are rich, your best bet is to go to your country of choice and BUY a 20 year old for a year or so. Believe me, there are plenty of ladies that will engage your fantasies for enough money in all of the countries. But they are not on the site- period. I have since been in contact with several other hired ladies that write for CHN- most in China but also in VN and the PI. Do not waste your money on this site. Use it for amusement as I do but do not buy credits and especially do not assume you are going to find the love of your life. Just as a side note, I had an affair with a lady from Shanghai. She was (and is still) beautiful and sexy- as well as being the most self absorbed, venal, shallow and materialistic person I have ever known. One sample does not make a judgement, but I have many friends who go to China on business regularly and their experiences with Chinese women are much the same as mine. You have been warned

I have been searching around with reviews on here. The lower ratings are most likely absolutely right. I have been on the site for about a year and I was talking to many different ladies while wining down my options. Throughout one year, I have decided to choose one lady to seriously move forward with and buy her private email. Once I have obtained it, I barely get any responses on her and when she did reply back her email messages to me were very short. So you can write long or decent length letters to me on the site while sending me 4-7 letters but you barely write back to me on your private email? How odd and ironic. I can't authenticate whether or not if it was actually the lady that I was speaking with but I am sure it was the same person I was speaking with when I chatted with her a couple of times. Maybe another lady behind her profile or an agent. If it was her then she was not serious and she was only there to make money for the site. I suspect mostly are agents or the real ladies but they are paid to be on there to make money for the site. They don't care if you get hurt. It sucks for the men who are actually serious in finding a serious relationship or wife. I do believe there are probably some real women on here due to some lucky members in the past that have found their partner before it was scam site but you would probably have to get scam a lot with many women before you find someone who is real and serious. That would cost so much money through the process. I find it funny hearing stories from past members stories that once you meet them it would not be what you expected. "Broken leg" or some other excuses why they won't meet by the time you already there in China lol... Sad but true.

I only been talking with the lady I was in my email but it ended up due to her lack of interest of wanting to communicate more outside of the site. Always seem hesitant when I ask for her private information especially since when I have been communicating with her for so long. She would tell "I think we should get to know each better first." Really? Mostly she was there just to make more money on there when I was communicating on the site with her. Eventually, she followed through and she accept my request to buy her private email. Outcome, it was fail. This was only one lady. How much more if you have to go through before you

Any way, one of the huge factors for me was price rate on the packages on there. Every time I have money, I would always made excuses for me to use and spend my money else where. Honestly, thinking about it now my money was spend better else where when I decided not to buy credits on this site even when I did had some to spare. Shame because the owners do not care at all if their customers get hurt. Too bad, I hope one day they will get their karma one day. I had fun in one year there but mostly I won't be purchasing anymore credits. I have yet to tell the rest of the ladies that I won't communicate with them for long or anymore due to this reasons. Shame because I have already wined down and I actually like of them. Lastly, Customer support always seems to refer to you through their FAQ section.

It's very bad practice over there. It is not worth the time and money. Look else where if you serious for finding a partner or wife. Btw if you think the positive reviews are right, then you are blind. Most of them are fake and unhelpful. They aren't very helpful at all and just say. "Chnlove has a huge user base and that makes meeting people a very likely occurrence." or "You justhave to try it by yourself, the opinion about it can be very different from person. I like the Chinese girls, i think Chinese girls are easy going.It got you great matches. I give it 5 stars." Really? That is all you have to say for a positive review?! How is that even helpful! This is the kind of sh*t they would say in these positive reviews which usually are short and not helpful at all. Lastly, women who talk about sex or say they love you immediately in earlier communication especially in chat invites or messages are not someone who you should take seriously. They say they love you deeply early first sight? Probably too good to be true. Most likely they aren't sincere and not serious with you.

Besides the money, the most frustrating is spending a whole year doing this is time. This for me is equivalent to money as well. Both very important to me. Wow that is ridiculous. If you do decide to use then only talk to one at a time. Hopefully your not like me and talk to many at a time because I am naturally attractive many asian women than other ethnic backgrounds. You will only spend your money on talking endless conversations with women as penpals instead of moving forward.

Conclusion, stay away and spend your money else where or else you will get hurt. Maybe some or a few of you might get lucky ones but you have to be serious and honest to attract the real ones. But it very unlikely over here. Proceed with caution and you have been warned. Spend it on something else or else where you will be glad that you did instead of there :)

It's a scam. Their latest thing is to show a valid passport and sometimes promise a visit. When a site charges by email, it is a scam. The cost to translate per email is very little compared to what they charge. Don't waste your money even for a few credits. Any site associated with qpidnetwork.com like charmingdate.com, IdateAsia.com, Latamdate.com, are scams! I cannot find a place to delete my profile.

I have business in China and travel there several times each year. I was looking for a Chinese wife because most of the friends I have made in the past 10 years are wonderful people.
I used this web site and spent several thousand dollars on letters and chatting. Eventually I found the agencies are nothing more than big scam artists. They convince girls to join and often pay for professional photos to be taken and posted. Then the translators are paid to write letters and chat with men pretending to be the girl. The biggest give away is if you mention coming to China, at the last minute something always comes up and they are busy or if they show up the girl knows nothing about you and they have another older lady that is the bait and switch girl. The last time I went from Guangzhou to Shenzhen to meet a girl two of my friends went along and we trapped them in just such a game. The girl was nice and we actually spent 5 days seeing Shenzhen and getting to know each other. She was shocked when I showed her the letters the agency had sent and one day actually got online and chatted with someone that was pretending to be her while she sat next to me. It was very funny because after challenging the chatter she finally admitted she was not the girl. The girl tried to get her profile removed but two weeks later they still had it up and called her to tell her another guy had sent her flowers, funny they charge almost two hundred dollars for flowers that cost about thirty in China.
I filed a complaint with the main office and finally the agency removed the profile but they called the girl and complained about fines and penalties. The main office is still "checking on the Complaint" and have asked for letters and screen shots of the chats as proof. Needless to say I will get nothing from them even though I provided the girl's phone number and told them to call her and look up the archive of the chats for the day the translator admitted they were a fraud.
Obviously someone needs to get an attorney and file a class action suit against the main agency and seek some serious damages or shut them down.
Many of my friends in China advise against the site and know people who have worked as translators for the agencies for experience in English, they all say the same thing, "It's a big scam both for the women and the men. They often charge large fees if a contact ends in a marriage to a man they met on the site.
The really sad thing is there are a lot of honest peope that could find great partners if the agencies were honest about their communication, but they mostly use it as an excuse to defraud men and women looking for a true love.
An easy way is if they will not give you a photo of them holding a note pad with your name on it --- Run.
It should be obvious also that sucessful girls and women in China can easily find a suitable husband. Never fall for the line they had a bad experience with a Chiese man and want nothing to do with them anymore, it's a lie. Most would prefer a Chinese husband, but like all countries some do find different ethnic groups more attractive. I happen to love Asian women, always have and always will, I will find a suitable Chinese wife but not on this site. You will find the minute you challenge them they get angry or find some reason to stop communicating. MY advice is to join QQ international and use their services to find someone in China, HaHaHA! They will immediately want to video chat so you can see each other and the cost is zero. Stay away from this site like it has social disease because it does, but it effects your bank account.

Nice looking women but you won't get them!

If you carefully read most of the reviews, they are overwhelmingly telling you this site is going to try to part you from your money. I would say it is 80% scam all the way. I have tried a number of things to pull the real people out from behind the hidden veil, but it's all about money.

This is more of question than a review. If i understand right dating sites is meant to create connections via girls and hope that trough that u would find a true love and start family and create a future with certain someone. I have no doubt that when u create a profile you mail is flooding with emails from beatifull ladies no matter if your poor / rich / ugly / good looking / every man email is just full of girls wanting to be with u and create a family straight away. That alone should raise your red flag, men pls follow your brains not your boner and stop living a fairy tail. If all the women are so up to be with you why dont u just go in your local streets and ask someone out in person? Much more cheaper and hella lot of better way in everyway. Well when u get connection through Chnlove why are u still keeping connection through the website and use thousands of dollard for letters when u could use a free way to keep connection with these ladies, example facebook and thats only a 1 of thousands sites where u can keep connection world wide without eany fees. Well i bet if your ask your girl can we speak somewhere else, that girl is already dissapeared like a fart in the wind. If u still think this and these sites are valid u must be a real dummy and u deserve to lose your money.

I'm an Aussie and I totally agree with the other guy who said he left 1 star just for the photos of the hot chicks. I travel quite a bit to China and thought I would see what the site is about. Lucky for me I only spent 6 credits before alarm bells went off like ambulance sirens! I sent a message to a girl with very particular information and stories. In fact I maxed out the 4500 words you are allocated and her response back was about 50 words of which non pertained to anything in my message. This got the sirens going.

Then while searching the site I came across 2 hot chicks who happened to be posing on a lounge, exactly the same lounge that is and I'm pretty sure they not flat mates! I'll be buggered I thought so I then starting playing the game "snap" and found the same park bench, the same coffee shop and even the same tree that 3 different girls were posing against ( I do wish I was the tree though) and they all lived in different cities. In fact playing snap was the only enjoyment I got from this site and I can promote it now as a memory enhancement website.

It's free to search the site and looking for the same places and objects in different girls photos will enhance memory and is very much a brain game while checking out lots of hot chicks!

Do not go there. If you do just don't give these crooks your phone NO: That's the first caution. Need I go on? I am not just saying this but, yes they are a total scam as they stole off me too and your NOT talking to that profile of the model... its just their admin!