I just read a review about a guy went to meet his girl but she fell and broke her leg on her way to the airport then after contacting the agency they thus tried hooking him up with a toothless fat ugly chic. Well, in all probability she was actually whom you'd been in contact with the entire time. The photos you were looking at (being sent) were most likely someone that used the site years ago, found her man, thanked the agency and had her profile deleted. Or at least she thought. I know that they give a lady a commission if she can indeed catch a man off guard and get him to spend lots of credits which in turn makes them both even more $ because we "The Men" are spending USD (Americans) and they are being paid in a currency whose net worth is only a fraction of a dollar. Therefore the scammer is happy but the agency is the one getting filthy rich. In some profiles the lady says her present age. Anytime you see this, scroll back to the top and see how old her birthday says she is. (90%) of them are lying. Also when looking at a profile, if there is a heading that says Lady's Videos or just plain videos... but there is no video... this lady is long gone and deleted her videos personally (herself). Bottom line guys... No video, No lady. Video chat is not allowed with Chinese women only. Reckon why? You can still request a video from the lady. Doing this only costs one credit or. 5 credit in chat. If she don't deliver... forget the $#*!. You can't have her anyway. Must be 100's of pissed $#*! off gentlemen wanting to sue Chnlove. Now AisiaMe.
Chnlove used to be reputable, using the internet to get local marriage agencies together and give a channel out to the west. But now it's a cash cow sucking the credits and cash out of you. I'm sure there are many true ladies there BUT it's mostly agents answering the Live Chats. How to spot them? 1- If you find a lady you like, wait to start your chat and look at her profile at random times over a few days. If she's always online, agents on various shifts are waiting to chat in her behalf. 2- If you think you are chatting to an agent, ask something about a previous chat, like "remember what I asked you last weekend?" an agent isn't going to remember or wasn't on that shift, an excited lady having a real conversation would know. 3- Real ladies could lose membership giving out email/WeChat/QQ addresses, so may decline, but if they say they don't use them, that's BS all Chinese ladies love social media. 4- Chinese ladies would never make adult themed comments within the first couple of minutes of a new chat, agents will talk sexy to get you excited and burning up your credits.
If you are reading this, please pass on these tips to other review sites, we got to stop these rip offs and get back to how it was
I've been looking at this site for the past couple of months. Saving some profiles in favorites, etc. But did you ever notice that many of the girls have the same dresses on? Total giveaway that they are probably just being paid to model and then their photos are being used to build fake profiles. How can a 50 year old woman look 20? Not even in China! It is all a scam to get you to buy credits to mail back and forth. I saw one profile of a nice middle aged christian woman. When I read the letter that came from her, it was nothing like the profile. She was talking about how good it would feel when I was deep inside her. And this was her 1st letter! Also, notice that most of the letters you get from them all have the same basic format. They start by telling you about the meaning of their name etc, and it goes on from there. Unfortunately, there may be a few honest girls on the site, but with all the scamming going on, it's not worth it. There are other sites that look legit and don't charge astronomical fees. Also the women look more their age. Wise up and don't give your hard-earned money away for false hopes.
Update Aug 2015.
I have been to Beijing twice since writing this review. Gone out a few times there to clubs and bars. There are NO ladies in Beijing that look like the ladies on CHNLOVE. Maybe all the beauties are hiding and never clubbing or going out? In a week I see maybe less than 5 girls that are cute or stunning. Definitely no women with curves. Now off course, looks is not everything. But that's what CHNLOVE is selling and using to bait us stupid men (sorry guys). Tried Chnlove for a few months now, kind of knowing it was a scam site to begin with. Yes I know, stupid. I was curious. But I only spent maybe $100 or so. I contacted a few ladies, all amazingly beautiful. I have been to China a few times and NEVER seen many good looking women. And above all, most women have no curvy figures... But the women on Chnlove often have large breast and great bodies. Well they are photoshopped. I used to do that for a living as a photographer. Must say they are very good at it...
The ladies keep writing same old stuff, and telling me how much the love me or miss me. After a few emails. Now that's just silly. They send same old (but sexy) pictures. I believe most of them do not exist and see this whole operation and website as a foreign aid operation. We pay money, it goes to the wrong people, and we get nothing in return. Stay away!
Dear Chris, firstly, thanks for your attention and support to our site.
We have noticed that you are a photographer. So you understood more about the professional photos. Right? As you may also agree, ladies care more about their image. And they like to show their best to gentlemen, especially when looking for a partner. That’s why they spend time and possibly a sum of money to take the photos.
Our site did notice that there could be some difference between professional and life photos. Therefore, we advise the ladies to submit their videos. So our gentlemen can have better understanding about them and decide which lady would be their ideal choice. You may take a look at our video profiles at the following page.
http://www.chnlove.com/videoshow/video_show_list.php?ssort=BCFD
Chris, we notice that you just started to use the service and contact the ladies. If you had any confusion during your communication with the ladies, you are welcome to contact our Customer Support Team, we will be glad to help you. Also, you can leave your comment through the EMF Mail Satisfaction Rate. The agencies are requested to get back to you with solution. We will follow up the status as well and make sure our gentlemen’s concerns are answered.
Hope the above info could be helpful. Again, thanks for your time and understanding. Have a nice day!
ChnLove Customer Service Team
If it weren't for the site our paths would never have crossed. So thank you Chnlove for facilitating the best days of my life. I am forever grateful! You guys were affordable and cooperative.
Simple interface and easy to use. Chnlove is all you need if you are looking for REAL Chinese beauties. This site has so much to offerI am glad I got registered here. Thanks Chnlove...
This site is definitely a scam website. I met a girl and then took a vacation to meet her and suddenly she didn't seem to understand what I was saying. The scammer was just trying to keep the communications going as long as possible until I realized that the girl doesn't exist. Near the end I sent her a picture of myself holding a certain item and asked her to produce one of herself doing the same thing. Of course she couldn't do it and had no reason why not.
Later on, just for fun, I created a joke profile featuring an absolutely hideous picture of a white male and saying things like in my free time I like to beat women and pee on myself and that I'm unemployed looking for a rich whore etc. I still got just as many responses as my real profile did.
Don't waste your money guys, and realize that China is quickly becoming less of a third world country. If a woman is reasonably young and attractive then she has plenty of options, she's not going to go online and find someone who she can barely speak to.
I went on spoke to a lady who said she wants marriage site sucked $200.00 in less than one hour then when I tried to call her it said not possible I hate this rip off site
It is set up to steal your money, chat does not even have to happen and you are being charged. They will not give a refund of the credits even after you prove there was a mistake.
I'm an Aussie and I totally agree with the other guy who said he left 1 star just for the photos of the hot chicks. I travel quite a bit to China and thought I would see what the site is about. Lucky for me I only spent 6 credits before alarm bells went off like ambulance sirens! I sent a message to a girl with very particular information and stories. In fact I maxed out the 4500 words you are allocated and her response back was about 50 words of which non pertained to anything in my message. This got the sirens going.
Then while searching the site I came across 2 hot chicks who happened to be posing on a lounge, exactly the same lounge that is and I'm pretty sure they not flat mates! I'll be buggered I thought so I then starting playing the game "snap" and found the same park bench, the same coffee shop and even the same tree that 3 different girls were posing against ( I do wish I was the tree though) and they all lived in different cities. In fact playing snap was the only enjoyment I got from this site and I can promote it now as a memory enhancement website.
It's free to search the site and looking for the same places and objects in different girls photos will enhance memory and is very much a brain game while checking out lots of hot chicks!
Dear Jason,
How are you? Here we would like to express our thankfulness for choosing our site and offer you our utmost assistance.
Jason, we could see just begin using our service, regretfully you have such kind of feeling at the beginning of a relationship. We could see the unsatisfied reply from the lady has caused you stop, right? It is quite understandable that a sincere gentleman may have some expectations on the lady’s reaction, while we wish you could also understand at the beginning of a communication, based on a few communication, ladies may act out by their wishes without other consideration. In situation like this, an open communication will be quite essential. For your case, have you ever share your expectations on the reply with your lady? Has your lady fully understand your actual meaning? Is not easy to find the one in destiny, but if you need any assistance, please feel free to contact our customer care team. Below link is available for contacting.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
On the other hand, Sir, from your message, we could see you also concern about the similar background of the photos. Per our observation, ladies from the same local agency, or the same place may go to the same studio and take professional photos. Not sure if this is the case that caused your concern? If not, please feel free to share more wish us, we are always here.
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life.
Regards,
ChnLove CS Team
I believe the whole organisation is one big scam on men like myself who are gullible enough to think that one of the women would be interested to meet them. They prevent the victim from ever obtaining any real contact details. They edit out anything in your email that could provide the woman a clue to your email address or phone number. They lead you to believe that you are communicating with the woman in the photos when it is most likely a translator employed to pretend to be the woman in the photo. I believe this organisation scams the women who join up as well. The take their ID and photo collection and use it as bait to trap men by the tens of thousands. Their fees are outrageous too. The victim pays to read a message as well as paying to write a message. Eventually the victim can get the email address of "the lady" (for $70) but emails sent to this address are never answered. What is also a worry is that before giving you the fake contact details they demand full ID including passport, credit card details everything.
I think this organisation should be investigated by Interpol. They have several branches dealing with Russian ladies, Colombian, Chinese, Japanese and Thai and most likely many other nationalities. The amount of money in total they are scamming would be in the billions of dollars per year. It's a major world-wide scam that needs to be stopped. It leaves the victim with not only financial losses but depression and a loss in faith in all other humans.
How about $8 for every email you sent or receive... yup that is right $16 (min) for one two way exchange. Or maybe you like a phone call if you find one that can muddle with some English, that is even more. Want to just call a lady... good luck with that... this time the minimum layout is $160, yup no kidding... you can rack up tens of thousands here and not get a doggone thing. When you have the lady's phone, etc... they just seem to disappear, loose their private email address and their phone just happened to break... SO... IF YOU WANT TO THROW YOUR MONEY AWAY ON NOTHING, I MEAN ABSOLUTELY NOTHING... THIS IS THE PLACE FOR YOU! Otherwise heed this warning from someone that went through all above, it just became a bad habit, hard to break.
Honestly speaking, I am surprised the customer service representative is so willing to continue to read my messages. I have sincere concern for Chnlove, as without Chnlove I would not met so many nice and pretty Chinese ladies over the last 3 and half years. While I have not been highly successful so far (3 and half years), I finally have persuaded 2 ladies to visit me in the next 2 months. Maybe at last I will find happiness and success.
I am a hard working man but not a wealthy man and struggle financially. I am highly intelligent with several university degrees and college qualifications but have made some stupid mistakes in my life, but never hurt anyone on purpose or was unfair to my former wife.
I have a lot of sincere affection and romance to give to the final special lady. I strongly believe Chnlove is the path I can finally achieve success with the right lady, although the service is not cheap.
Sometimes I have to do without important things such as fuel for my car, prescriptions for my health, or not paying other expenses. But finding love and a lifetime commitment with the right lady will literally save my life as my life has been declining for several years and I have had very little success in my environmental career in recent years. It is my hope my special lady will empower me and help me to be a better success, and she will be both my lifetime partner and business partner.
I jerked my peepee to it and stuff came out everywhere in a sex way. Speaking of sex way has anyone had run-ins with the police for cutting off your dogs tail and shoving up your $#*!?
You will be fleeced for hundreds of $ before you receive a contact detail, and then fleeced some more before you are "permitted" to meet. More proof: I have seen 2 women showing the same photos!
They will bill you without your knowledge, then send false information to your bank and you will lose your money. They are criminal. Don't spend any money here. Worst nightmare of my life!
Dear Sir,
Firstly, thanks for your trust and time to share your concern with us.
We are thankful that you could render your precious comment to our services. While we are surprised to hear your concern. Please note that Chnlove never charge gentlemen without their authorization. Only when the member input their secure information which is known to the member only, such as the login password, can the payment get through on our site.
As to your concern, we are not sure what caused your concern, and what kind of information to the bank you may refer to. As a Credible authority organization with upright discretion, the bank will surely have the capability to tell right from the wrong, right?
While serving as a communication platform, we are always working hard to provide better and better service to our sincere gentlemen, and thus ensure them a pleasant using experience. We truly wish we could follow up your concern and provide the utmost assistance to your concern. In case you still have concerns, please contact our Customer Care Team in time with detailed information, we will follow up and give you a satisfied solution.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life.
Warm regards,
ChnLove CS Team
I have been registered on this site for almost a year. Have communicated with some ladies but will not commit because of the high prices and well lets face it, this is the Internet so is this a scam?
Used this site in 2006 to meet my (now former) wife.
Obviously we got married, but I was put off by her very odd behaviour, namely requests to send money (one time - I refused).
Once on American soil, her behaviour changed.
1) She almost immediately demanded I sponsor her parents green-card/visas - I refused.
2) She kept insisting on having her name added to all my financial assets (I refused).
3) Very distant/odd sleeping habits.
4) Refusal to listen to my advice on how to function in American society (I NEVER forced this issue btw) Very odd.
And then there were the lies (it took a LOT of investigating to find the truth):
1) That she was fluent in English -totally false once I met her in person
2) That she was University Educated -totally false once I met her in person
3) Three of her four profile photos were totally false (confirmed once I demanded a current picture).
4) The fact that her both her parents were thrice divorced (a BIG red flag).
5) Unwillingness to cooperate or provide basic background information.
Both my parents and close friends said she was... bad news. But I did not listen.
I wish I had.
All in all... it's okay to trust, but you absolutely MUST verify EVERYTHING she claims.
I thought online chatting or dating is boring but obviously I was wrong. I tried Chnlove. Therere lots of hot Asian girls on the site, they are chatty and I had a good experience on it.
This Chnlove site is a scam. They only want Your Money.
Some girls I ask if they can find my WeChat, they already know my username (they can read it in my profile), then they say they will do it later, or they are at work, or the internett is slow, or they are home at Chinese New Year, blablabla
Some say they dont have WeChat? Dont have WeChat? You are not a Chinese?
Today this girl said that she can not contact me on WeChat. Why? Because she did agree with some contract with the agency that she can not contact People unless use Chnlove. She said she want to find a boyfriend, but have to use Chnlove. They have to use Chnlove. How to meet in real life? But if you can contact Your future boufriend without Chnlove, isnt that Perfect? They can not, she said. $#*! it.
Its a lie, Boys, please stop the Madness. Delete Your profile. Make them stop it.
Answer: The biggest scam ever. Stay away.
Answer: A lady I wanted to date claimed she was single but I found out she lied after a little research on her. I wrote a letter of my findings to the site admin and they erased her profile subsequently. Speaking from experience, I think it's better to find women who are of similar age and interest because there will be a greater chance of having a successful relationship. Sexy, beautiful and young girls have higher expectation and make breakneck demands on their partners, which makes it hard to be hooked up with them for long.
Answer: Hi guys. I have post a comment "scam, scam, scam. " I have not further proof this is a scam. I meet two ladies from this site recently in China. I show them the letters I sent them which is written in Chinese, 70% of the letter I sent they have not been given to by the agency. And same with the letters that supposed to be sent by them, they have no knowledge of these sent mails. They did not write them. While you guys thinking you are talking to some nice ladies in china, you are actually talking to a male? An old grandma? Hey, you know how phone sex work. These people is scaming both us guys and the girls over there. Beware.
Answer: I found a lady 12 years ago and when she came to US after a couple years my family was telling me she married me for my money and was going to divorce me after her Green Card. Today we have been married 10 years and she was a wealthy Chinese College Professor who spoke good English. Today she makes more money than I do as a Regional Manager of several Panda Expresses and we have a great relationship. She is happy because her Chinese husband cheated on her and she only wanted a man to love and cherish her for who she was... Yes, 10 years marriage now.
Answer: Scam, as is this review itself. This is a review setup intentionally for receiving good reviews. You should read this review, 100% independent. www.datingbusters.com/is-chnlove-com-a-scam-or-a-legit-way-to-meet-asian-women/
Answer: This is a scam site, and an expensive one at that! You will never get A girlfriend or wife here, just heartbreak and spend spend spend With no chance ever of really getting the girls contact info. Run for your life!
Answer: One thing you can do that doesn't cost too much is also to tell the lady you want to call her, tell her you want to only get her phone number... nothing else... tell her it costs too much to talk on the Chn phone line... Get her number, then call her back. It only takes a couple minutes to do that. If the lady doesn't want to give you her phone number... something may be wrong.
Answer: I do not think it has gone bust yet. But as the site is a total FRAUD it should do.
ChnLove has a rating of 3.2 stars from 618 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally satisfied with their purchases. Reviewers satisfied with ChnLove most frequently mention beautiful ladies, customer service and live chat. ChnLove ranks 4th among International Dating sites.
How are you? Thanks for sharing your experience with us about our service. It’s regretful that we could not meet your satisfaction on using our services. Hope all the brilliant things be around you all the time.
From your comment, we notice that you are concerned about the lady’s authenticity, right? In fact, Chnlove do understand our customer's concern, that's why we had implemented many measures to enable the authenticity of ladies.
As you may agree, for online dating, the ladies' only and best weapon is their photos. So some ladies will try to show their best on photos via admirer or EMF letters to attract gentlemen's attention. From our observation, some ladies may go to the studio to take more professional photos with makeup. So they may wear similar dresses and look more beautiful. We are not sure whether these extra efforts made you have confusion.
Besides, please note that sending any obscene text or image is absolutely prohibited when using our services. You are also advised to contact our Customer Care team for concrete assistance. If we found out any violation against our rules, corrective and punitive measures will be taken accordingly.
http://www.chnlove.com/help/contact_us.php
Thanks again for sharing your comments with us. We wish you good luck and happy in the future life. In case you would need any help from us, our Support Team is always here.
Best regards,
ChnLove Customer Service Team