AdultFriendFinder

I've already found my "adult friend" on
J4Luv.com
(a working site, by the way) but I'm still struggling to stop AFF from billing me. They say the auto pay box was checked which is not true. I'm always very aware about such things and security on the net. But AFF just do whatever they want with impunity. They get away with scamming people. Don't fall victim to their fraud. Be wary of AFF, they are money hungry rogues. They have lots of sneaky methods for getting your money without providing any service. One click pay and auto renewals are especially dangerous!

I like most things about aff but its not quite perfect (surprise surprise what sex site is? Best ive used was hookuphangout.com and even that is a 9.5 rather than a 10). I like the variety and its affordable as well if you wait for a special offer to your inbox. Also like the loose chicks you get speaking to that are amazingly not all web cam girls or time wasters. A few things get on my nerves though whats with all the push notifications on the app? Sure I want to know when some birds after my goods but I dont need to be alerted to every single thing that happens with my account. You can probably change this in the settings but it p*sses me off!

The vast majority of profiles are fake...scammers trying to get details for id theft, or get you off platform and send you phishing links or invitations to dubious websites.

In addition to no vetting process for profiles, I was ironically
suddenly locked out of site two thirds of way through my subscription period, and when I wrote to help desk to get help, after numerous emails back and forth was told I had violated their terms of use and my account was being deleted with no refund, no explanation or proof of what terms of use had been violated, and no terms of recourse offered.

Shameful extortionist racket.
Will see if Australian consumer protection offices such as the dept of fair trading have any advice on taking on a US based corporate scam. In the meantime suggest Red Hot Pie ( also has fake profiles, but fewer, and there is recourse because local, a much better option.

Been using AFF for around 30 days now, decided to give it another month as its been a pretty awesome experience overall. Id put it alongside HookupHangout.com as the easiest sites for hooking up with chicks online. So far I've had quite a few showing an interest in me and had one meeting with a petite red head with a great body (but dont get me wrong, I've been working my $#*! off sending out messages as if my balls depended on it, which they kinda do)! Im hoping to see her again and meet with another couple of chicks that I've been sexting back and forth. All in all a damn good first month so lets see what the next one brings for me!

My 3 months on AFF just finished and im happy with it overall, will probably pay again. Its far from perfect but the closest site ive found to perfection is probably HookuHangout.com and even that has some things that could be better so no point in counting the negatives when there are plenty of positives to focus on. Im in London and it might be because its a major city but there really are a good amount of women online and although they dont always get back to you its still pretty easy to find one to meet up with if you spend time on it. Not sure what its like in other places but works good here.

Same on adultfriendfinder just like on any other large hookup site like casualdating4u. You need to invest time, patience and creativity and you will get rewarded. I've been using adultfriendfinder in 2014 and hooked up with several women following simple rules and being a little patient. Since 2015 I am a casualdating4u member and it also works for me. My point is: Just don't expect to get laid right after joining and you should be fine with some sites. I aree that most of them are pure scam but adultfriendfinder is not!

This is the first dating site I tried. It seemed mostly populated by girls about 20 years old who apparently could not afford much clothing. They were sooooooooo interested in a 60-plus, overweight, bald, amputee! And so many looked exactly the same in their "photo albums". And so many have Master's Degrees in Transportation Engineering - this is the best they can do? I have a better imagination than that. A complete waste of time and fortune. Stay away if you are a real human being.

Do not upgrade you can do a lot being a standard member alone. I had upgraded to gold membership on 5th of April, 4 days later the account was deactivated. When customer care was contacted by email, they replied that I must call the billing department and get the credit card verified. Firstly, I would have loved to stay discreet about it, secondly the toll free number is that of US, how thoughtful of them. The money has not been refunded, the account has been deactivated and I am not even sure if they are going to keep debiting money from my card. This is day light robbery.

I had known about AFF for years and thought I would give it a real try but quickly learned that most of the "people" are fake. I was getting contacted out of the blue by people hundreds or thousands of miles away and there was no reason for them to do so. One even said she was coming to my town on business. Yeah, sure. They would ignore my requests to tell me about themselves and would ask for my email address.

I also didn't appreciate the fact that if you blocked a profile, you could still be in their "hotlist" and you would get notified if they viewed your profile.

Toward the end of my subscription, I was even having trouble deleting messages sent to me. The site seems kind of flaky.

Every guy using a hook up site should be aware of the fact that there will be more men than women. That's a fact! Wo what can you do if you want to get laid? Patience and chose your hookup site wisely. Aff can be quiet a good choice! After all it is a reputable place to pick up girls. Also CasualDating4u which is known to have loads of real female members.

I have been using both sites with good results but onyl for one reason: I was patient! I knew that you will find more male profiles on any site so I did not expect to get laid with 2-3 days. It does not work that way!

Also approach every woman with respect! Yes, they joined a hookup site but that does not mean they will hookup with the first guy who approaches them.

I used this website back in the late 90s, before bot technology has evolved to what it is today. In todays climate this website has no real users whatsoever. NEVER spend a penny on personals websites, they are all fake now.

I realised a long time ago that the key to getting laid on these types of dating sites is to use a few at any given time. I always use HookupHangout simply because it works for me and has done many times, but the sites I use with it change a lot. I've had some shockers that were just money down the drain and ive had some pretty positive experiences to, with sites that have potential. Adult friend finder belongs to the latter group not ideal and I havent actually pulled yet on it but im keen to keep trying just because you can tell straight away its more professional than most and has real members. I hope my faith pays off but recent developments give me confidence, if you know what I mean;-)