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Is it true that most Ukraine women you meet on tour except you to support them financially after you begin dating them?
asked by Donald W. on 7/21/18
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I like the answer that John K just gave. As he says, as the relationship progresses into something serious (for some that level is reached quite fast and for others takes time) , you are indeed expected to pay some kind of financial support. Dream connections doesn't tell you this though, I mean they don't directly say that many of the ladies will hint or even directly ask for financial support though most will strongly hint for it. My girl I met at dream connections asked me for monthly support on the 3rd date! Half the guys on my dream connections bus ride back to the airport said they were already or plannning to do so. No warning of this expectation is presented in dream connections videos so I was totally caught off guard and was advised by Mark to just send it as it shows you are serious about her. Think about it, if mark were to mention this as a common happening with the girls on his tours, don't you think probably half of the prospective clients would decide not to go? That's why he doesn't directly address this common problem. He'sall Business man.
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I'm assuming you mean expect and not except - dang autocorrect. It's a frequent topic and it has multiple dimensions to the issue. Basic answer is each lady and circumstance is different. Don't be surprised or alarmed if your lady friend asks for help. You should know that the average Ukrainian lives on $200-$300 per month. They often choose not to eat in order to buy a new pair of shoes. Some ladies have good jobs and do not want or need support. If this is an issue for you, keep looking till you find a woman who makes pretty good money in Ukraine and date her. But for a majority of the ladies, the answer is as your relationship grows, and the feelings deepen between the two of you, you should step up and support her (and any children). She wants her husband to be a "strong wal,l" that is a family-oriented man who takes care of his family. Ukrainian men rarely have to pay alimony or child support. It all falls upon the single mother to provide for herself and her kids when she gets divorced. In the beginning of the relationship, you want to sense that she is protective of your money and does not want you to overpay for something. I walked many, many places with my wife when I would have preferred the $2 taxi ride or the 10 cent bus ride. At the same time, be sensitive to the fact that if you want to communicate frequently with her you should want to make sure that she has internet access in her home and a tablet or smartphone on which to communicate. I left my used iPad behind and she was thrilled. A cellphone plan in Ukraine costs about $8 US per month for something that we would pay $50-100 in America. I always say that Ukraine is an easy country in which to be generous. By the time you are engaged and putting the information for a K-1 visa together, you should be making sure that you are impacting her life in a positive way before she comes to America. It's hard to fall in love over the internet and Skype, but you can make each new visit with her during the wait for a K-1 visa better than the last by constantly demonstrating that you are the kind of man that she has always wanted to find. Continue that type of behavior in your marriage and you will be a happy man. Hope that helps. It's not easy, navigating these type of issues, but make sure the relationship is on solid ground and progresses naturally and you won't have any problems.
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