Challenging to find men that meet my preferences which are hetro and older. Match allows the user to set for proximity--I set for under 90 mile radius and Match consistently has presented/pulled from 180 miles away. It means rejecting a lot of people, which never feels good on either side. The click-boxes help people fill out profiles, but there are still a lot of men that don't bother or are 'just seeing what's out there' or with dummy profiles. I've run into scammer ones as well. That said, I did go on a few dates, and dated one person for quite a few months. I think a lot of people my age often use it for dating, so sometimes I've seen the same men over the course of time. One guy I met was 100% convinced some of the profiles that he connected most with always showed up right before he was ending his subscription.
They do seem to have good support in-app but it's all add on pricing--they'll help improve your profile, give you advice, etc, even set up local meets. However, their overall price is ridiculous and they do play games--they will lower the price if you are a demographic they want. They will NOT send you notice that your subscription will be renewed. And, in 2023, it isn't possible to get a hold of a person easily. Messenger dialogue is algorithm based, email definitely is, and the phone number on the credit card statement is pre-recorded messages. In short, they are looking to sign you up, hope that you forget to cancel, and then renew you at high prices. I'd avoid it, because it's starting to feel more like an app run by AI designed to extract money and not actually help people connect.