Yaney L.

Let me educate the men on here who are upset that they can't find a decent woman. From a woman point of view the women you are messaging probably have trust issues for one. As a woman who only been on POF for less than a year, I was sexually assaulted and I have had what appeared to be a pimp trying to get me to meet up with him, even sent me a very degrading message. All men who messaged me wanted my phone number right away and when I first signed up and didn't know any better I would give my number which leaded to the men wanting to come to my place and wanted to sleep with me, so I stopped giving out my number and expressed just wanting to chat and getting to know people first, which leaded to men not talking to me anymore. There are many stories of women being sexually assaulted by men on POF, so there's the answer to why many of you men can't find a woman who's so willing. Then there's also your married men or men who have girlfriends who want to just text you. I had a guy get so mad at me for calling him that he made me feel like sh*t. Many are Construction workers who only have time to text, but not talk, so be aware ladies. I also had a few run ins with what I believe were pimps. Although I am still on POF I don't see myself being on there much longer. I rather be safe than sorry. Guys, don't blame most of us women, blame the men who are the real ones making it hard for you by being dishonest and even going as far as assaulting women. I even heard stories of women being full blown raped.

What I learned from POF, if a guy is truly interested in getting to know you, he will respect you not wanting to give out your personal information right away. He wouldn't mind video chatting or meeting up in a public place. Don't be so quick to go to his place or invite him to yours, or even give him your number. This site is a huge risk. I'm sure there are some nice guys, but that's if you can make it through the crazy ones first.