I sat up a user name and profile just so I could browse through and see the goods. I never paid and I'm damn glad I didn't. If you do a browse search you can pick a state and see the numbers of "men seeking women" and "women seeking men" There are roughly 20 men for every 1 woman. Who in their right mind would pay for a site that is that lopsided? If you're a man that is. I guess women have the pick of the litter but if you're a man, forget it. I've been told I look like Triple H when he had long hair. Body and all. I got 5 views in 3 months and of the 5,3 sent messages and 2 hotlisted me. But that was it. So just bag any ideas of actually finding someone on this site---or any other site for that matter. They're all a scam.