I think it's an open question as to whether this site is legitimate. It seems that the girls are on the payroll; they just want to chat and exchange letter and neither activity generally leads to anything. I've read reviews that echo this same experience and go even further suggesting that they have "professional" letter writers. They are many beautiful women on the site, however, the photos are definitely airbrushed. Some of these women I'm convinced are running up the credits for pay with no intention of developing a relationship. Caveat Emptor! Caveat Emptor Big Time!