Okay, I haven't started the NARP program (yet) because I wanted to go through the free 16 day emails, along with doing some research on it myself, and I got to say, I love it! I've gone through several narcissistic relationships until deciding to work through my own issues, so I wouldn't continue choosing abusive relationships. I am more comfortable being controlled, that when I get into situations where I'm in control, I don't know what to do. And Melanie's website really helped with that. I'm joining NARP program, and I hope you do to. Check it out first, do your research, and heal. This is one way to do so.