I have never used any other dating site, but this one has worked out well. I have dated over 30 women aged 23 to 43 and had some great times. Like any dating experience one is going to have a wide range, from dates you can't wait to walk away from to girls asking $3,000 to end the night in bed. And everything in between, one learns to avoid the scammers. Probably 15% of the girls do things like ask for money before you meet or for photos. I just say no and move on. Also if the girls photos are super hot but no profile i skip those as well as they are probably fake. Speaking purely as a middle aged male i have wound up having intimate encounters on a first date with about 25%. Which i think is pretty high. But yes many required more $ than the WYP first date budget. But usually not that much more. Nice thing the girls do check a box for "discreet affairs" so you can select from amongst those more open to a casual encounter. There is also a high percentage of lovely girls truly looking for a BF not just a sugar daddy. But it will take time maybe a month or two of interaction to learn how to best filer what you want. Bottom line there is a tremendous range of woman to chose from. Just note that if you are looking for a $50 first date and then think she is going to sleep with you. Forget it LOL good luck