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The final amendment to my review; ealier versions are below. I joined benaughty as a heterosexual man looking for women. I am a modern male, I have long hair and often wear makeup - you could say that I am in touch with my feminine side. Benaughty took exception to the fact that I look quite feminine, and after an exchange of emails with their support and admin, they insisted that I could only be gay, and hence they changed my site settings to be gay, and hence they would only allow me to look for gay men. But I am a heterosexual man, wanting to meet women. This is basic homophobia - to label feminine men as gay, this website is homophobic

Previous reviews published yesterday:
On this site, I keep receiving messages - that are somewhat cliched, when I respond, I get a further cliched message, and it does not seem to match the line of conversation; this site has a very poor system of computer generated messages, and when you respond, the computer system picks out keywords, then responds with a new computer generated message. It lacks real people.

To add to my original review above, cancelling my repeat subscription was neither straight forwards, to get repeat payments cancelled (which I never asked for in the first place.) Although there was a website form to cancel the subscription, once I got to the end of the form, it informed me that I had to telephone to cancel. I telephoned, and the benaughty staff who dealt with the telephone call repeatedly tried to extend my subscription (not cancel payments) by offering a free week. I was offered a free week several times, at the end of it, I said, 'so at the end of the free week, I won't be charged' and she replied, 'at the end of the free week, if you want to cancel your subscription, follow directions on the website,' (which ironically I had been doing by telephoning her.) I had to ask to speak to her manager before she finally agreed to cancel my repeat subscription. This is not only awful but is surely unlawful.