We have the wordpress dating plugin from datingsolutions.biz and it works nicely. We love the features and the support. It appears that the postings here are just made by one person who either doesn't like them or they are the competition. There seems to be a lot of competitors blacklisting them. We love the plugin and couldn't be happier with the support. Our site is doing very well and we have over 50,000 members now. We turned on the PayPal gateway last year and are doing a pretty decent about. It works great for us.