My profile says I am 53 y. O. woman who lives in USA but whose future is in France (which is true I will be retiring to France). I wanted to meet a French man. Guess what? I was contacted by a lot of English-speaking men most of them saying to be widowers, serving in the military or working on an oil rig or a surgeon on UN mission, none wanted a video chat, mostly email or Hangout or Whatsap. Out of three French men two professed love very soon and asked for money within 1-2 months, the third is yet to be discovered (been on Hangouts for 2 weeks, promised a video chat as soon as he fixes his phone, red flag already). Mingles became worse than it was back in 2015, its a pit of scammers.