Echoing the others that say stay away from the Forums! Rude women who defend it by saying "I'm blunt, not rude" (ps. Being blunt IS rude). If the women in the forums think you have a bad idea, the will rip you apart. I was so sick of it, today I literally copied and pasted the rules about being positive and respectful and got attacked for doing so! One response was "do you really think you're the first to post something like this." Holy moly, if I'm not the first, why does it keep happening? I just posed asking for people to be nice to others and was attacked and told that asking people to be nice violates the rules! What kind of "respectful, positive" forum are you running if asking people to be nice violates the guidelines, but yelling at people that you don't have to be nice and to grow some balls (someone actually said that, too) doesn't. Flagging doesn't help either because they only look into it a comment once THREE people flag a comment and these woman are so into congratulating each other for their rude, aggressive, demeaning comments that THOSE get the thumbs up and "good post" image, instead of getting flagged and looked into. A bunch of bully women supporting bully behavior and branding it as "blunt opinions."
Hi Molly-
We are sorry to hear about your experience on the forums. We'd like to assure you that every single flag is reviewed, even if it has only been flagged once, and posts which have received "thumbs up" are still subject to all our rules. Our team of moderators reviews every single flag to ensure compliance with our Guidelines. If you'd like to discuss your experiences and feedback further the Community Team would be happy to hear from you at community@weddingwire.com.