Agreed with the claims of lots of fraud and fake profiles. But as a guy you need to spend a couple of weeks looking around and percolating the real profiles out of the hundreds of fakes.
I'm young and what I'd like to think successful and went out on multiple dates with very beautiful women. Don't think I'd have trouble meeting them and dating them without the site. My issue is time and only have 2 days out of the week to socialize, considering I have a son the time to go out and date is little to none.
I'm attractive and can carry myself well in a social setting, but time is an invaluable commodity which I can't simply buy. What I can buy is the opportunity to expedite the process of meeting an interesting and attractive woman to have a pleasant evening with.
To make the story short after dating multiple women, some of these dates turned physical after the third date ( only paid for the first) And I met my current fiance on this site ( which she never requested to be paid or accepted money) She simply wanted to find a man who was stable and in a position to provide her with quality time without having to worry about who's paying for what.
Moral of the story, men take all these reviews with a grain of salt and try your luck. You never know, just don't be a sucker and remain a gentleman. Ladies, there is nice men out there that aren't just looking for sex. Granted that sex will probably be expected down the line, maybe from both members but we are human after all. Beware of guys who aren't respectful to you or who won't accommodate your concerns for safety.
Wish everyone the best, wanted to take the time to write this from an unbiased and sincere point of view. I may have been lucky but honestly I've met a good number of ladies of valued intentions.
This is a good tool for single, professional fathers who are looking for company. Remember guys just be a gentleman, if you don't know how to just read a little and observe a lot. Treat women as the valuable element to everything that is life, since it would not exist without them.
Good luck and be well!