I have been a member of nll for 14 years. Made some real life friends from the site. But dont go on chat. Screwed up people are on chat. People that easily insulted or feel slighted. I am a bible reading christian and my faith has enormously helped my mental health. I also am very functional in the world. The chat room has women in their 30s that for some reason cant get dates or boyfriends so they are jealous of male attention you get from guys on chat. And if your older thsn them, prettier than them, they cant handle it and their claws come out. I live a wholesome with good values and have no problem getting suitors. Basically its a bunch of loser women on chat that have never been married. Its AWFUL. Stick to adults on the site that you can message. Sometimes you bump into good eggs that are consistent. Chat is loserville to the max.