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Ken B.

Canada

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1 Review by Ken

  • BeHappy2day

3/31/24

This review is based on extensive experience with foreign dating sites, including extensive experience with this particular site. In fact, I've attempted numerous relationships on this site.
The first thing I can tell you is the services you think you're paying for here are not legitimate, and you should not believe anything this platform tells its customers – in terms of its policies. This platform's word means nothing. These same assertions apply to some other foreign dating platforms also.
The staff are totally deceitful and not interested in facilitating your satisfaction, beyond their sole interest in taking money from you.
Unsuspecting, trusting consumers will fall for catchy marketing lines such as "Your satisfaction is our passion", their "First class dating" icon, and their policy affirmation that their women are fully verified, single women seeking a companion abroad.
ITS LIES, FOLKS!
The name, Behappy2day is a sardonic joke on how this platform really operates. Bemiserable2day, or Berippedoff2day – plus every subsequent day you use this site – are more accurate and appropriate.
In the written information, in their FAQ section, this site claims that it's the women who do their own writing to you.
The women DO NOT exclusively carry out correspondence with you. This is unequivocal. I can prove it with many segments of writing I've paid to receive. Behappy2day is a fraudulent relationship service.
I've tried relationships with various ladies on this site; the letters and storylines from the supposed lady's end can be summarized as conspicuously hokey and containing stark incoherencies that no real person could possibly be making.
The layers of my own experience on this site clearly indicate it fully facilitates pay-per-letter scams. The corruption comes from the website itself, although they brush off scrutiny with ludicrous customer service excuses such as "We are just a communication platform."
When you're exchanging letters with someone abroad, how do you know you're actually talking to the person in the profile images, and how do you know she's actually single and actually serious about a future with you?
This is where Behappy2day fails with flying colours to provide a legitimate service.
I've repeatedly asked different women I've been in contact with on this site to identify themselves visually, in a way specific to my relationship with each lady. They unanimously fail to do this. The voice on the other end tries insipid persuasion and bogus rhetoric to make me feel guilty about not showing blind trust. Yet all these ladies started out in early letters professing boundless love.
This is an absurd contradiction: purported love, but they can't send a simple photo, specific to my request criteria, to help affirm their identity. How difficult is it to send a photo – for example: standing in front of a landmark, in the location where a lady supposedly resides, so I can see this is true with my own eyes? Think about what it means.
Taking this problem to website staff, the staff persistently evade questions. I mean 100% evasion. They will not touch this topic.
The personalized photo's I've managed to attain from ladies on this site came after substantial resistance and delays, and although these ladies are in different parts of the world, the notes they're holding are written in the same electronically generated font, obviously concocted by the website.
Conveniently, the website staff call it proof that my relationships with their ladies are real. Apparently "proof" and B.S. Are interchangeable notions on Behappy2day.

My advice to anyone using any relationship platform: if the person on the other end can't readily identify herself regularly with visuals specific to your own relationship with her, then stop the relationship, plain and simple.
So, on Behappy2day, getting past this first step is not even possible (with many ladies), and its not possible because the site is facilitating fraudulent relationships for profit.
The next steps of knowing if the ladies are actually single and actually interested in you are also very shady on this site.
I know for a fact, because of extensive experience on foreign sites and cross-references with other sites, that some ladies on Behappy2day are not legitimate singles. The only reason they have a profile on a dating site such as Behappy2day is to earn / solicit money from paying users.
You'll never gain an opportunity to meet such a lady. Your efforts will be a one-way street of being deprived of your money, no matter how much you try to build a real relationship.
Either their visual data is being manipulated by this platform to rip you off, or the ladies themselves are simply acting – and it can be of combination of both.
The articulated policies of verified profiles and assurance that all ladies are real and looking for their companion abroad is a MAJOR LIE. Do not fall for it.
The staff tells you the same B.S. Over and over about how their ladies have gone through security checks, but these are empty words.
This site has blundered its own credibility so badly with me, all I can say to anyone else is: avoid it entirely.
Be rigid in your approach to any online relationship and do not fall for blind trust. If your blind trust is being solicited, however subtly, while you keep having to pay for communication, stop falling for it.
Put everything to the test with your own logic and cautiousness. Bear in mind other people's testimonies, plus the necessity for you to see visual material that takes guesswork out of your experience.
Pay-per-letter scams should be treated as very serious infringements on consumers.
They're ripping off the consumer on three different fronts:
First, you're spending your money on a service, which you're not aware is fake. Behappy2day is not good value to begin with (there are less expensive foreign sites), so this makes it all the worse when you're spending a lot on an illegitimate correspondence.
Second, you're being ripped off for your own time. You're investing your own time in writing personal messages to help build a relationship, but its not a legitimate relationship to begin with.
Third, there's the emotional fall-out and adverse effects this has on your own well-being when the bubble bursts, and you discover the romantic interest from the lady's end was fake.
I want to dig into the topic of letter legitimacy even more with observations I've made, through prolonged, consistently negative experiences on this platform.
The letters you receive earlier in any given relationship here contain strong affirmations of interest in you, including affirmations of love and commitment.
I received basically the same letter, written on the same template, from different ladies, at different points in time, who live in different parts of the world, in which they're emphatically thanking me. Various sentences start of with "Thank you" and continue with utmost sentimental words.
Have any other users of this site received the same thing? Its obviously formulaic and fake.
After approximately 3 letters, you get a notification that the lady you're corresponding with has added you to her favourite's. It makes you feel special. But after trying different relationships on this site, you realize this is just an automated ploy. It means nothing.
Throughout the letter correspondence there's hokey patronizing and paraphrasing of your own statements, in the ladies' letters, mirroring agreement with everything you say. Real people do not speak like this. This hokey writing is spat out by A.I. Or staff.
If the ladies carry out their own correspondence, why do letters written to you by ladies in locations all over the world start with "Hello, dear [your name]". Think about it. This is bogus. The letters are coming from the website.
But more than these things, what stands out as totally bogus is sharp contradictions in statements and train-of-thought which are conspicuously visible in some back-to-back letters I've received, supposedly written by the same lady.
When bringing this to the attention of website staff and cross-checking for credibility, it becomes very clear they're the crooks. They're liars and B.S. Artists who try to conjure up any justification or excuse, or who otherwise evade your questions. The customer service here is a façade.
On top of all this, the ladies are apt to suddenly end the relationship or invent an excuse why they can't leave their location, when you get to the point of trying to organize your future together.
ITS BOGUS!
In one of my experiences on this site, I started communicating with two ladies at the same time, because the first lady, with whom I was solely corresponding, started weaving reasons into her dialogue about why she couldn't leave her country (although nothing I was being told was verified by her visually).
I started noticing a bizarre interplay in my dialogue with these two ladies. I would write something to one of them, such as a remark about the weather, and I'd get a new letter from the other lady, who would start talking about the weather.
The explanation is the website was scamming me for letter exchange.
The anti-scam policy on this website ensures you won't be asked to send a lady money. But this policy is drastically overshadowed by the website's own sleazy illegitimacy.
At the front door, they're politely assuring you won't get scammed on their site, but at the backdoor they're concurrently ripping of your credit card with a fraudulent product: a fake relationship encapsulated by fake letters.
I've noticed the fellow who calls himself dating scout and writes reviews about dating sites has some decent things to say about Behappy2day.
Here's my advice buddy: finance one of your single friend's relationship attempts on this platform. Watch him get ripped off and lied to over and over on your tab, then try writing an accurate review of this website.
On this site, they have testimonials of some couples who met via their site. Yes, it might be possible to meet someone here and have it transpire into something, but its very likely to not be without significant hassle, if it even ever happens. I've personally wasted years trying.
Why doesn't this website provide space for testimonials from all the men they've ripped off again and again and again? – All the men left with stress and sorrows because they tried to trust this site. Huh?
If you're having a bad time with a site like this, don't let it push you around. Report your experience to your card holder. Tell regulatory business bureaus. Post comments about your experience to inform other people.
In passing, I'll relate two other big red flags I've experienced on this site, among so many others. Having registered years ago, I remember some of the same profiles that were on this site when I first registered. In more recent times, I asked website staff how long one such lady has had her profile on their site. The staff lied through their teeth with the answer. They told me less than 6 months. In reality, this lady's profile has been on this site for more than 3 years. Let me tell you unequivocally: the website is using this and other such profiles to rip you off.
Another lady with whom I corresponded is described as being fluent in English. In one of her letters to me she acknowledged that I'm looking for my lifetime husband. The letter was obviously written by A.I. Which hasn't figured out I'm a man looking for a wife. Jesus! What a ridiculous platform.

Using Behappy2day has been nothing but a waste of time and disappointment, and its no coincidence or chance thing.
People and businesses who rip other people off and play games in any way for profit, under pretense of romantic interest and facilitating relationships, are losers.
Behappy2day does not give a damn about your customer experience or success. Their prerogative is not to help connect people; its to rip you off.

So, please, think carefully about how you proceed with your relationship interests.

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