I've gained a few friends from this site although to be honest most of the men on this site are only looking for sex and will gladly proposition you and shamelessly keep asking after you've told them I'm not interested. I had one guy try to give me cash to have sex with him only to turn around and apologize and then come back again asking me if I'd give him a blowjob. I've also been told to go f myself and called a pig simply for rejecting a $#*! pic from a guy I'd met on there. And one guy won't leave me alone telling me he wants to eat me out. Honestly, of have closed my account if it weren't for waiting for a reply from guy friend. On the plus side you do get to know who in your area is only looking to hook up so you can just block and steer clear.