I am a female and I joined AM, but I only stayed on it for less than 6 days. It wasn't what I thought it would be at all. Most of the guys on there come across as obsessed with sex and are very heavily into kinky, swinging etc. They have particular appetites which to be honest if your not into that it's not your site. I saw it as really being an M & S site but masquerading as an Affair site. Also some guys sent me pictures of them either naked or performing sex acts on a partner - they haven't even started a conversation and that is what you receive needless to say I never responded to those guys. This will put/scare most women off. One guy that I did email confirmed that there are a lot of weirdos on the site. This is the reason why I removed myself from it. I know realise why women are now free don't stay on long enough.