Update - they are asking me to update my review to 4 or 5 stars in order to refund the 60%.
I am updating my review to say that they are offering a 60% refund on the dress and the sandals. That's the best they can do so I'm accepting getting something back rather than the expensive shipping back to return. They asked me to take my review down before they would issue the refund. I'm providing the update.