I went to LesbianSinglesPlace.com. I thought I had used them years ago and decided to check them out again. I hadn't had any problems the first time around - maybe that site was bought by Dating Factory... I signed up for the shortest period (2 weeks I think).
i pretty quickly realized there were hardly any profiles of women near me or of my age group, so I followed the directions to cancel and then they said I had to send them a fax!! I plan to do that tomorrow. After reading other people's experiences here, I will also call my bank and tell them block payment of the $89 (!!) charge DF plans to make in a couple of days.