So I used BPM off and on in the past when I was on the dating scene. I met a few young ladies and made lasting friendships and eventually found the lady I'd end up marrying who's been an absolute gift in my life.
There are definitely a LOT of scammers and pretenders on there. Be careful!
And just like you want to meet the actual person you're communicating with, so do they, use a real and recent photo