I wish I'd read the negative reviews about this site before shelling out hundreds. I'm a dope; should have realized that I was getting canned, fake 'replies'. Once I wised up, since there's no way around the 3000 credit requirement to even ask for (and yet not guarantee) a woman's contact info, I decided to do the following: I'd chat a bit and say "To prove to me you are a real human, and who you portray yourself as, send a selfie holding a paper saying "Hi XXX(my name)" and today's date. Did this a dozen times, never got a legit photo back. SAVE THY HARD EARNED $$$.