I asked a simple question. Any success with dating apps/sites & which ones. I was a bit fed up with my attempts - where I live welfare & addiction is rampant so online seemed a better bet - and my question was a blunt. As I had found, after all, on the dating sites is the men who approached were predominantly unsavory. As I put on this forum, most of the men came across as too cheap to go to a bar & try lame pickup lines or for that matter just hire a prostitute (the amount of men on one app [supposedly a good one, eharomny] initially asking to meet up & "chat" instead of asking questions to build rapport first was downright offensive and/or online creeper sort if you want honesty).
Get this. That post was deleted. I've been on this forum on & off for a while and seen all sorts of stupid and/or offensive posts. At best they are closed. I've yet to see one deleted, even a post that was quite obviously by some mental case was simply closed. So I take it the site owner or one of the moderators - or the entire lot on this forum - are of the same deadbeat loser creepier quality as the initial contacts on the dating apps I found so offputting. Given the dismal relationship advise most likely.