I was on Secret Benefits for 18 months. You should be able to find my a review I wrote in late July 2020. A lady I met on SB suggested I should try Seeking.Com. I had actually signed up a while ago but when I realised that I needed to list my net worth and income I thought that it was only for rich guys. At 62 I realised that ladies hate phonies and can spot one before they draw breath so I listed my inadequate finances.
I signed up for a month ($US89 - you just have remember to turn-off the autorenewal). This allowed me to initiate many conversations (a lot). Not all replied, maybe less than a quarter but you will learn that is a good return. Ladies get inundated with messages.
Each member can setup a series of tags which allows you to refine your search. My search was ladies between the ages of 18 and 32, within a 50km radius, all but a large body shape, looking for 'friends with benefits', no smokers and not after something Platonic.
The site discourages Escorts and sexual explicit language and it is very easy to be removed for what appears to be minor breaches.
Not all ladies are looking for the same thing.
Some want a little romance with a little pocket money.
Offer sale of Erotic Photo's and Videos.
After very Rich boyfriends.
Hoping to meet a man for $ but no sex.
And yes there are scammers.
As long as you are upfront with what you are looking for and treat everybody with respect while not leaving yourself opened to be scammed you should do well.
It is important to be upfront with what you are looking for and what your are offering early in the conversation. Its highly likely that they are not sure what they want and your conversation may shape their expectations. Use soft language and maintain respect for the other person even if it is obvious that you can't agree to terms.
If you'd like the Sugar Daddy experience. I would totally recommend Seeking.com