Flirt is a very good site, easy to use and send messages on cell or laptop. You have to send a lot before you get a response but that's pretty standard. Ive had some dirty chats but ive not gotten laid yet (only time that's ever happened for me was my second month on hookuphangout.com). Ill give it some more time though as the chats are keeping me going and its not the only site I use anyway.