I have never had much luck with "dating sites" I guess I am just old fashioned and THINK people are honest. The only thing people on dating sites (any of them I am guessing) are looking for are QUICK HOOKUPS, which I am NOT looking for. I have sent msgs to men on PTL and never get a response, or they send me a msg and I return the msg and again, no response. If I click on their profile to look at them, then I get a "wink" back from them, but no correspondence. Many of them list themselves as being college graduates, however, their english/grammer are more like a 3rd grader or a foreigner. So, is this site legit; I have my concerns. At any rate, it gives me something to do when I am bored. I am at "GOLD" status, which I am not paying for. I am not so sure that I would actually pay for this site.