Gents, its really not that difficult to make your money go the distance. You have the option to make an offer you can afford. If she rejects it, then simply counter offer. If you still don't agree then move on until you find someone who will. Most of the offers that are accepted by these women usually come with a message from them. Yes, it costs points to open, but there is a message waiting for you. You can continue to message thru the site or once SHE is comfortable you can exchange numbers and continue the convo there. Don't be dull when you initially respond or contact her. Be witty, try finding something in her profile that will catch her attention. I'm personally new to the site, but know how to work the system. Also, don't low ball...$75-$100 range is good. If it exceeds $150 then be cautious of her intention. Biggest red flag is when she only talks about meeting and doesn't introduce herself or even asks your name. She should try to get to know you so she is aware that you're serious about meeting her and vice versa. Be sure to put her at ease that you're gentleman and not some creepy stalker. I hope this helps...