I bought a item and it took 14 days to get any response from her and suddenly when I retracted my bid and asked my credit card company to refund my money she responded
That's fine, and none of that is true. I explained to you the break down of shipping costs, you violated our terms and conditions and you can no longer bid on auctions on CTBids. Please learn to read instructions before bidding. Buyers like you are a nuisance. You don't understand how auctions (or shipping) works. You were given the cheapest shipping rate and refused to pay. I did absolutely nothing wrong.