Some men seem to have trouble stepping out of their comfort zone. This should not be one of those. You need to make it happen. You will meet many ladies on the tour if you go. Sign up, get on the plane and go down. Everything is set up for you. From the airport pick up, the hotel, the socials, the clubs you're gonna go to, and the interpreters. They assign interpreters to you if you don't speak Spanish. This agency spends a lot of time and money organizing these things. There are probably 4,5 women to a man out here. You're going to find somebody. Just get on to their website, look at the tours and sign up for one of them.