I was on here for 6.5 months. Met someone who we chatted everyday without fail. Built a good relationship. But he insisted for chatting onsite only and keep on deferring our meeting. After reading the reviews here, I decided change my profile to 'nothing' and still getting messages from so many men. And after that I have come to the conclusion that this doesnt look or sound right at all. This is total scam for money as you pay for all messages, mails etc and each person there is trying to get you to chat as much and keep on paying. It is immoral and unethical way of earning money, toying with human feelings.