POF is by far the worst dating service that You will ever use. I used to be a member and all I got was fake profiles, scammers and unhappy ladies that are trying to make men pay for what their exes did to them. I was as polite as you can possibly be and got My profile deleted just because I politely turned down some of these ladies. The POF management won't even look into it, they will just take their word. If you're looking for an honest dating service, try OKcupid. POF is just garbage.