Seiners Date Club

Many of the profiles are fake and the rest are just from flaky, plastic, pretentious flakes. Trying to contact or write to any member will get you nothing. They don't even have the courtesy to respond even if just to say, hello, thank you, that they might not be compatible or not playing at the moment. You write to 100 members and 99 will just delete your message. If lucky, one will ask you for a bunch of pictures and then delete your message. Given, I have quite a few pictures in my profile but some just seem to get off on asking for pictures. All you read is members complaining how rude other members are and the lack of common courtesy among the members. They are a pitiful bunch! So again, don't waste your time or your money as you will not get anything but frustration on this site. I have been a life member since 2004. Back then there were still some nice folks around but now all you will find are flaky, stuck up $#*!ty people who think they are too good to even spit at you.

We would rate SDC.com as one of the best swingers sites around. We travel a lot and it really is a great way to meet people in new cities. Reading some of the negative reviews prompted us to respond and say that SDC has always been good to us. Seems like people who post bad reviews are the ones who never got any action and they're upset about it. Honestly... would there be so many people on their website if it was bad? We don't think so.

Like the other person reviewed, yes they are arrogant. The profiles on there I think are fake because most of them won't write back once you share your pics. The rest of the users were pretty low class. You can find better people on every other swinger site. They are money hungry. I am a unicorn and NO OTHER SITE makes me pay, but they will disable you regardless as they want their money! Bad move considering ALL THE CLUBS and sites let unicorns in free, but whatever because it's not like I was getting results anyways! Definitely won't recommend this site to anyone.

I disagree with most reviewers. I have been using this site for a few weeks, haven't met anyone but the site seems totally legit to me. After all, I have been using a lot of swinger sites and SDC and Swingers69.com were the only sites where I felt comfortable somehow.

I read many people complaining about fake profiles and stuff like that but hey guys, wake up: It is the internet! Again, I only used this site for a few weeks and went back to my other swinger site but that was not because I believe that this site is a scam. I am sure it is not.

The best way to understand what SDC is about is by and taking a look through it yourself.

After reading these reviews we were a little iffy so we decided to check it out for ourselves and form our own opinions. We were never the type to follow the crowd anyway.

So we looked for a promo code (we used *******) and signed-up free with a full trial membership.

We weren't committed to upgrading, we did so because we enjoyed our stay and people were friendly.

Very satisfied with SDC! Found it to have a lot of what we were looking for, the lifestyle can be quite intimidating but found the staff to be very helpful if we ever had any questions. The site was user friendly, and the messenger was top notch. Chatrooms were always filled with eager couples and the party list had a lot to choose from. We were very pleased with the look and feel of the site and felt comfortable navigating it with no issues. The site is world wide which helps if we ever want to play while traveling! Speaking of traveling they have events all over the world, my wife and I will be looking into those in the future. All in all a great site for newbies and seasoned swingers alike. Two thumbs up for us!

These assclowns changed a near PERFECT website for swingers into total $#*!! And when we tried to offer very polite constructive critisism of their new website... one which we had to belonged to for years... they were rude and boldly told us to $#*! off... so do NOT join these $#*! tards... they are european and mostly cater to european clients... they sucker American swingers into trying to recruit new PAID members by paying them 50 bucks per sign up... so Super Douche swingers who have no respect for people in the lifestyle hawk craigslist, backpage, and each and every venue... even stooping so low as to post "legitimate" ads for swingers only to be met with their pathetic pitch! They are SO PATHETIC we can't permanently remove our profile and they keep e-mailing us to re-join their loser site! These low-lifes do not belong in the wonderful and happy Lifestyle world... we lifestylers aka "swingers" can do without these pathetic, vile, worthless creatures! We are all about meeting happy, up-beat, and wonderful human beings... and then $#*!ing them! There are SO many other sites where the owners don't treat you like $#*! when you offer up suggestions for improvement!

Omg this site is quite possibly the worse experience i have ever had in the lifestyle. It's a very clique site, mostly couples and if you are not one of the FAV people on the site they quickly out you and stalk, harass and bash you. It's mainly texas and florida based and the amount of UNSAFE SEX PRACTICES on this site are higher than any other site on the web. The false profiles, fake personas, ignorance and lack of respect for others is so abundant on this site it's a total waste of your money and time. If you are a single person looking for playmates in the lifestyle that have something more than a $#*!/$#*! to offer trust this site is NOT THE ONE. The people on this site are only interested in booty calls and $#*!ing but nothing to do with what the LS was created for. Clique, judgmental, snobbish, fake, flakes, $#*!s, $#*!es and overall JOKERS.

Trust SAVE YOUR MONEY it would be better spend on a dildo or fleshlight and you would most likely get more out of either of those then you would the people on this site

They claim to be the biggest international site for swingers and that may be so, but the site itself is not at all that good. It is very colorful, but the user interface sucks big time. Some examples:
They have an IM functionality where you can directly communicate with others that are online. However, if you are in the middle of writing a message to someone, that window is destroyed and you can start all over again. Very unfriendly.
The internal email functionality they have sucks too. There is no clear way to see the message threads like in any normal email system. Trying to figure out what you wrote to someone a while back is next to impossible.
Trying to find people in a certain area of the world is cumbersome to say the least. First you have to change your own location and then find people near to you. Seriously.
This is just part of all the problems. All in all, not very easy to use.

Then getting in contact with people. You can send other people emails or contact them through the IM functionality. Both of which are kinda crap. Another potential great way is to react to so-called Speed Dates; little adverts people place to let others know they are 'in the market' for some fun time. Unfortunately the speed dates are greatly misused to sell tickets to events people have left over and want to sell, or other kind of nonsens that has nothing to do with swinging. Many of the profiles are fake, i. E. single guys pretending to be couples or even women. Sometimes a profile is stated to be a couple and only pictures of a guy can be found. Etcetera.

A lot more is to be said, but I will close off by mentioning the travel department. NEVER EVER book anything through them. They overcharge for certain hotels, i. E. you end up paying more than you would if you had booked it through regular channels. They also have some weird rules for certain events. If you dare to ask questions about it you get snappy replies and you are actually told that you are stupid. Talking about arrogant behaviour.

So, in conclusion, not to be recommended. SDC is run by an arrogant group of people that do not believe in customer satisfaction.

My wife and I joined the site as a full member in Jan. 2013. We thought the site was fairly decent for meeting new people but we are always on the go so we primarily used it from our phones and never fully explored the site. I am leaving a negative review because of the lack of concern they show for their customers.

We wanted to go to the SDC takeover at the Desire in Riviera Maya, Mexico and we were told that it was sold out. They said that if we stayed at Desire Pearl, because they are both owned by the same company, we would still be able to attend the takeover. We waited a few days and decided to spend the extra money and go to the Pearl. We saved for months and spent almost $5,000 to go on this trip, our first international trip and trip of this type, only to be told when we got to the Pearl that we could not attend the party at the other resort. Some friends we met at the Pearl called to speak to the SDC rep. At the other resort and was told that since we didnt book specifically through SDC we would not be able to attend. We were all on the guest list on the site and full members of SDC but still we not able to go.

When I messaged the help desk on the site to tell them that we would not be renewing my membership due to this problem they (long story short) said you didn't book with us, oh well. I think that it is horrible that they would let us and MANY others in the same situation go even though neither the resort nor SDC informed us we had to book through SDC.

On a positive note, the Desire Pearl was absolutely awesome. We had a blast there along with many others. The place is amazing and the staff goes above and beyond. Thats for another review though. Lol