Been on & off this site for several years and it's just a con. There may be a handful of genuine MILFs, But the vast majority are totally faked.
You get these messages from various women - but they are obviously all written by the same person - just too similar.
And when you start chatting, they are deliberately vague and string you along so you keep messaging... and PAYING for it.
You're probably not even chatting to a woman - it's probably some bearded fat hobo smoking a fag & drinking beer, pretending to be a 23 year-old nympho!
Sites like this should be banned from the internet - it's criminal fraud.
Total scam full stop. The "girls" string you along just to get you to pay for more credit. I got unexpected messages from girls but they were always the same, they lived nearby, they like my profile (even if it was blank with no photo!).rip off
In my opinion it is nothing special but knowing there are so many scam sites out there I'd say this site is above average. I'd rate this as one of the better sites together with BritishMatures.co.uk, Cougars69.com and CougarLife.com. Guys, stop complaining about Fake profiles! You will find fake profiles even on Facebook and Craigslist. It is on you to use your common sense to not fall for them!
I recently used this site all the women I spoke to were nice then I deleted account and tried again and it was like they had never met you even when describing what you had talked about bogus site just to take money of lonely people
LonelyMilf is what you expect when you sign up quick, easy, appears busy and works in all the ways you need it to as a horny 24 year old looking for new ways to meet women who are ages with my mom! It's clearly one of the bigger cougar dating sites out there. If you like it id also recommend justcougars.com it flies a bit lower on the radar than LonelyMilf but is actually every bit as good and if anything has more genuine older women on the site. Which is nice.
Ive been using LonelyMilf for a long time now and ive always found it to be one of the better dating sites available for guy who like older women (and cougars who like cubs lol). Ive met women on it so can confirm that this is not some kind of scam and I usually have a chat or two going at any given time, probably because ive been a member so long and put in a lot of effort to get to this point. Im always looking for new sites to help me out with my cougar lust and recently found that JustCougars.com is a really good alternative (or additional site to use). It reminds me of what LonelyMilf was like a few years ago theres a real buzz of activity, pretty cool. Anyway youll never find a 10/10 site but if you can find one that you rate 8 or 9 then its happy days, so ill stay loyal to this unless something serious happens (like a relationship lol).
I like a lot about LonelyMilf but still prefer JustCougars.com or good old fashioned Tinder! Haha! I tried it and im glad I did, had some good chats and will probably use it some more, but in terms of actually getting together with a cougar/older woman its not really happened. A lot of reviews say give it time so I maybe will. But I do okay with the other options so well see. Not a wasted effort, good to try different sites.
There are some bad and empty cougar sites but this thankfully isnt one of them. Its pretty great and could only be better if it was free I reckon (when is someone going to invent a tinder for cougars? That would be ace!). Id rank this in my top three milf/ cougar sites maybe just behind justcougars.com but still way better than the other sites out there. Well worth a try and if you live in or near a city like me (im in Milton Keynes) then im pretty sure after a couple of months youll be leaving your own review to recommend the site to cubs looking for decent ways to meet older women!
I have had chat requests from many women but honestly, it did not lead anywhere. So far I have been using this site to chat only and never met anyone in person and did not even get a phone number. So it is a little early to place an impartial review. However, using Cougars69 and CL I got results immediately after joining. So I am a little confused! I guess I will be using this site a ittle longer and to get a better idea how it really works. For now it is "ok", not more and not less
Got suspicious very quickly. Kept getting msg from several local females & started talking. They didn't answer a single question I put to them about the area they claimed they lived in & deflected any suggestions or found an excuse for not meeting up, just kept stringing along with messages to waste my money.
As a 46 year old woman I am the object of a lot of affection on the site, which sounds great but can actually be a pain sometimes! I have had to use the block function with a couple of guys, so im glad thats there or Id just stick with using the other site I like, justcougars.com. I find that some of the men dont really take no for an answer but I suppose its the same on all dating sites. In terms of dates ive only had the one on LonelyMilf and it went pretty well, he was 28 and very mature for his age. Ill maybe meet him again but would be good to meet some ore good prospects and less of the perverts! I mean seriously, at 46 I know what a penis looks like, so showing me yours in twelve different angles is not going to be enough to get you laid. Try a bit harder!
Absolute scam--about 15 females who contacted me couldnt phone-email-text or meet or write even after they suggested it but wanted chat on site ( £1-30 per message) i hope the owners get the black pox as i, m sure they exist
My experience of this site reflects other comments made here. Lots of seemingly genuine interest but seldom providing direct answers to direct questions. No effort to actually arrange any meetings despite pretence of wanting to do so. When it was suggested that they might like to revert to a personal e-mail and save on credits, all I received was a lot of stone-walling and obtuse comments. Interestingly, the three contacts I was talking to all responded within 10 minutes of each other on the last 2 occasions. Coincidence? I think not. Save you money.
Well nothing ventured nothing gained, so I weighed in £10 to send seven additional messages. Despite trying to get contact outwith the site (via email) I got invariably the same responses "not comfortable", blah blah blah. I logged on to the site by phone whilst I was out and unlike logging on via my PC, my phone shows where the ladies are supposed to be from and where are actually based. Some were 300 miles from where the site said they were. So you think you're making contact with someone down the road and they are a short flight away!
To be completely fair, for big cities the actual and suggested locations coincided, but some local places that only locals would of heard of can show 15-20 "lady members". These are the made up ones.
So stay away if you're looking for adult fun, in that regard it's a total rip-off. Tinder isn't perfect but it is free!
+1 on the scam - save your money, and don't fall for the bull$#*!. One of the girls simply refused to message me off site saying that she wanted me to pay (like everybody else) well there you go. I also did a google search on the images and indeed they show up in a lot of similar sites. AVOID
I was foolish enough to send some money to be able to get contacts. They took my money (and of course my card details) and gave nothing in return. I suggest that every one on this review list writes to the Office of Fair Trading and also the BBC's "Watchdog" programme detailing their complaints. Publicity on television is the only thing that will drive these people out of business.
I actually chatted with a few older women on LonelyMilf so it seems to be real and I don't think it's a scam! IMO they don't have as many women in their member base such as Cougars69.com or some other large "Age Gap" sites. But if you are from the UK it should work for you.
Don't use this site it is a complete scam.
Stay well clear and I hope you read this before spending good money on it...
U will never meet any one and they will say anything to get you to keep messaging as each message costs a small fortune.
Allie. So married women, there are plenty of them on the 522 pages of profiles, aren't vile by cheating on their husbands eh? Obviously, the sexual acts that they are 'advertising' are OK in your view? Your comments reek of an Olympic sized swimming pool full of pots calling the lone kettle black. For your information Allie, I'm single and everything that was posted on my profile was strictly honest and above board. I don't like being lied to and I certainly don't like being ripped off. Some free advice for you Allie, be much, much more economical with your sanctimonious self righteousness.
Have a great day.
After reading the above, I thought I'd pay a tenner to see what's it all about. One girl couldn't even get the spelling of her supposed home town right! I've change my location in my profile and managed to fine the very same people living near me again. It's either a miracle of a scam. I'll let you decide. I would even go as far as to say you are chatting to some bloke at his computer earning a pound a message!
Answer: I agree that it's a scam. I estimate that about 7 in every 10 are set ups. They just seem to want you to keep messaging them on the website rather than email. They ask questions which can clearly be answered if they look at your profile. They then start asking questions like "What is your favourite colour?!" Every message you send on this website costs you money. If they were genuine wouldn't they rather set up a quick yahoo account and save a fortune. I don't believe that all of these unmarried mothers can keep spending a fortune just bouncing messages to you when they can set up an email and do it for free. It's an expensive website to send messages on. A big con. Try other dating sites but my advice is to stay away from lonelymilf.co.uk.
Answer: I am really sorry to hear about your situation. You sound at the end of your tether. I hope that you get the problem sorted or that you move onto greener pastures. Good luck.
Answer: I signed up to chat but I have now had requests from other ladies. How did they get my info, am I a public profile in a milf hunter underworld?
Answer: For the long answer see my review 1/26/16. But every profile you see is a fake. There are precisely 10,462 women's profiles on here which is exactly the same number as when I got suspicious about this site over a year ago. See above report to realize that I decided to investigate. And below is the only slightly shorter answer of some of my findings. 1) I took a picture of my computer screen of each of the first 10 pages of profiles nearest my location (desktop version of the site) April 2015. One year later every single one of those 210 profiles were still there and in the same order. I. e. Not one of them had found love and removed themselves from the site and not one new female member has joined the site in a whole year. 2) At one time approximately 5% of the photos had the date taken displayed the earliest of these that I found was 2003. I copied and kept these photos in a folder as I came across them. After a while I told 4 "profiles" that I was chatting to at the time of this phenomenon and within a few hours the site went down for a couple of days before reappearing with the offending photos having been cropped or airbrushed. 3) A profile would never instigate a conversation. If you went away for a few days, there would never be a "where are you" message. 4) There are two ways that you can log on to site when you use a smartphone: Via the mobile app. Which the site prefers you to do by default, or you can click onto "prefer the desktop version" which I prefered to do. One glaring problem was revealed here. Every single profile had a different home town on the mobile app. Than she had on the desktop version. For example you would be speaking to someone you found on the site's desktop version as coming from Sittingbourne in Kent, then she would appear amongst the few profiles offered to you when you logged on (the site prefering to open up for you in the mobile app version) as coming from Aberystwyth. When questioned, it was always the desktop version that was correct. There are a few other anomalies and glitches but the above information should be enough to tell you that every single one of the female profiles on this site is a fake and you will never meet a single one of them. The way the site gets it's money from you by making you pay for every single message you send until you realise that it is conning you, means that it has already got your money and it doesn't care about you because it is already making money out of its next victim. The sites own "Terms and conditions" when read with what I have written above and in my report of 1/26/16 even tells you that it uses fake profiles. They do this so they can't be sued in court. But very few of us are bothered to read them - Are we?
Answer: YES, ABSOLUTELY! For the long answer see my review 1/26/16. But every profile you see is a fake. There are precisely 10,462 women's profiles on here which is exactly the same number as when I got suspicious about this site over a year ago. See above report to realize that I decided to investigate. And below is the only slightly shorter answer of some of my findings. 1) I took a picture of my computer screen of each of the first 10 pages of profiles nearest my location (desktop version of the site) April 2015. One year later every single one of those 210 profiles were still there and in the same order. I. e. Not one of them had found love and removed themselves from the site and not one new female member has joined the site in a whole year. 2) At one time approximately 5% of the photos had the date taken displayed the earliest of these that I found was 2003. I copied and kept these photos in a folder as I came across them. After a while I told 4 "profiles" that I was chatting to at the time of this phenomenon and within a few hours the site went down for a couple of days before reappearing with the offending photos having been cropped or airbrushed. 3) A profile would never instigate a conversation. If you went away for a few days, there would never be a "where are you" message. 4) There are two ways that you can log on to site when you use a smartphone: Via the mobile app. Which the site prefers you to do by default, or you can click onto "prefer the desktop version" which I prefered to do. One glaring problem was revealed here. Every single profile had a different home town on the mobile app. Than she had on the desktop version. For example you would be speaking to someone you found on the site's desktop version as coming from Sittingbourne in Kent, then she would appear amongst the few profiles offered to you when you logged on (the site prefering to open up for you in the mobile app version) as coming from Aberystwyth. When questioned, it was always the desktop version that was correct. There are a few other anomalies and glitches but the above information should be enough to tell you that every single one of the female profiles on this site is a fake and you will never meet a single one of them. The way the site gets it's money from you by making you pay for every single message you send until you realise that it is conning you, means that it has already got your money and it doesn't care about you because it is already making money out of its next victim. The sites own "Terms and conditions" when read with what I have written above and in my report of 1/26/16 even tells you that it uses fake profiles. They do this so they can't be sued in court. But very few of us are bothered to read them - Are we?
Answer: For the long answer see my review 1/26/16. But every profile you see is a fake. There are precisely 10,462 women's profiles on here which is exactly the same number as when I got suspicious about this site over a year ago. See above report to realize that I decided to investigate. And below is the only slightly shorter answer of some of my findings. 1) I took a picture of my computer screen of each of the first 10 pages of profiles nearest my location (desktop version of the site) April 2015. One year later every single one of those 210 profiles were still there and in the same order. I. e. Not one of them had found love and removed themselves from the site and not one new female member has joined the site in a whole year. 2) At one time approximately 5% of the photos had the date taken displayed the earliest of these that I found was 2003. I copied and kept these photos in a folder as I came across them. After a while I told 4 "profiles" that I was chatting to at the time of this phenomenon and within a few hours the site went down for a couple of days before reappearing with the offending photos having been cropped or airbrushed. 3) A profile would never instigate a conversation. If you went away for a few days, there would never be a "where are you" message. 4) There are two ways that you can log on to site when you use a smartphone: Via the mobile app. Which the site prefers you to do by default, or you can click onto "prefer the desktop version" which I prefered to do. One glaring problem was revealed here. Every single profile had a different home town on the mobile app. Than she had on the desktop version. For example you would be speaking to someone you found on the site's desktop version as coming from Sittingbourne in Kent, then she would appear amongst the few profiles offered to you when you logged on (the site prefering to open up for you in the mobile app version) as coming from Aberystwyth. When questioned, it was always the desktop version that was correct. There are a few other anomalies and glitches but the above information should be enough to tell you that every single one of the female profiles on this site is a fake and you will never meet a single one of them. The way the site gets it's money from you by making you pay for every single message you send until you realise that it is conning you, means that it has already got your money and it doesn't care about you because it is already making money out of its next victim. The sites own "Terms and conditions" when read with what I have written above and in my report of 1/26/16 even tells you that it uses fake profiles. They do this so they can't be sued in court. But very few of us are bothered to read them - Are we?
Answer: For the long answer see my review 1/26/16. But every profile you see is a fake. There are precisely 10,462 women's profiles on here which is exactly the same number as when I got suspicious about this site over a year ago. See above report to realize that I decided to investigate. And below is the only slightly shorter answer of some of my findings. 1) I took a picture of my computer screen of each of the first 10 pages of profiles nearest my location (desktop version of the site) April 2015. One year later every single one of those 210 profiles were still there and in the same order. I. e. Not one of them had found love and removed themselves from the site and not one new female member has joined the site in a whole year. 2) At one time approximately 5% of the photos had the date taken displayed the earliest of these that I found was 2003. I copied and kept these photos in a folder as I came across them. After a while I told 4 "profiles" that I was chatting to at the time of this phenomenon and within a few hours the site went down for a couple of days before reappearing with the offending photos having been cropped or airbrushed. 3) A profile would never instigate a conversation. If you went away for a few days, there would never be a "where are you" message. 4) There are two ways that you can log on to site when you use a smartphone: Via the mobile app. Which the site prefers you to do by default, or you can click onto "prefer the desktop version" which I prefered to do. One glaring problem was revealed here. Every single profile had a different home town on the mobile app. Than she had on the desktop version. For example you would be speaking to someone you found on the site's desktop version as coming from Sittingbourne in Kent, then she would appear amongst the few profiles offered to you when you logged on (the site prefering to open up for you in the mobile app version) as coming from Aberystwyth. When questioned, it was always the desktop version that was correct. There are a few other anomalies and glitches but the above information should be enough to tell you that every single one of the female profiles on this site is a fake and you will never meet a single one of them. The way the site gets it's money from you by making you pay for every single message you send until you realise that it is conning you, means that it has already got your money and it doesn't care about you because it is already making money out of its next victim. The sites own "Terms and conditions" when read with what I have written above and in my report of 1/26/16 even tells you that it uses fake profiles. They do this so they can't be sued in court. But very few of us are bothered to read them - Are we?
Answer: The short answer to that is definitely no reimbursement will be given.It does say that in the terms of joining.
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