I had the spare cash and the spare time so I have spent a year trying to get just one date with any one of the 47 girls that I have chatted to on Lonelymilf.
One conversation I managed to maintain for the whole duration of my stay on here exchanging more than 800 messages each. Several others benefited from over 100 messages each depending on how I felt that they were replying to my messages. Another 20 'ish' profiles received between 20 and 50 messages.
I contacted some of the girls but most of them contacted me and some could, by anyone's standard, be only described as plain, and I would reply with a "thanks but no thanks message" and add a polite compliment.
I am a well educated person and I refrained from smut and was never rude in my messages. The message size on this site is restricted to approx 600 characters or about 100 - 120 words and I used as much of each messages allowance as I could.
So all in all I sent out approximately 3,500 messages over the course of a year at around £1 per message and I did not manage to get a single date with any of them. Not even for a coffee.
There is a tab on the home page (desktop version) entitled "search adult contacts". Clicking on this brings up 522 pages (always 522 which is strange) of profiles covering the whole of the UK. Each page has 21 profiles on it with page one being the closest to your postcode and page 522 being the furthest away.
After a few weeks I noticed that none of the profiles were changing on the page as you would expect with some girls finding love and leaving and new profiles coming on board. So I took a digital photograph of each of the pages 1 through to 10 from my computer screen covering 210 profiles closest to me. Ten months later I compared the profiles that were currently being offered to those profiles that were being offered when I had taken the photographs. Not a single one of the 210 profiles had left the site and every profile was in the exact same spot on every page.
Most of the ladies I had been chatting to were included in that 210. The conclusion that I have come to is that every single profile on the site is a fake and the site employs students to reply on behalf of dozens of the profiles explaining why the replies that you get from your messages are rarely more than 30 words long.
I went further with my investigations in some instances by asking if my "lady" could upload a fresh photo for me and in every case they were unable to do so. Why? Because the person that I was conversing with did not match the profile pictures that they were supposed to be and therefore could not supply a fresh photo.
I tried to contact the admin of the site on several occasions but never received an acknowledgement or a reply
I brought to the notice of most of the "ladies" that I spoke to that the reviews for Lonelymilf were terrible and all of them denied having seen a review despite the fact that whenever one Googles "Lonelymilf" this Sitejabber site is displayed immediately below it.
I challenge any of the ladies that I supposedly spoke to and to whom I have given my personal details, to repudiate my claims and I will offer my sincere apologies. Somehow I don't think I'll be getting any phone calls.
Just to add I have also deleted none of my conversations and kept printed copies of them all and there are many individual instances within those conversations that should ring alarm bells for the average person as to the validity of the site.
I could elaborate further but I think there is enough here to steer you away from this site, and I hope I have been helpful.