Established Men

EstablishedMen is scam and spam. I like
AdultsFinder.club
Much better. I have already met 3 girls via this service so I will give credit to this site. As for EstablishedMen, they have more fakes that you can imagine. Whenever you see a pretty girl on EstablishedMen you can be 100% sure she is a scammer. Even women with average looks usually turn out to be scammers. You won't meet anyone no matter how hard you try and how much time and money you spend there. EstablishedMen is perfectly set up to rob people.

Not an exaggeration. Not a single match was real. Either bots, escorts or scammers. What a waste of time. I cancelled even before my subscription ended to avoid the annoying, useless notifications.

Every single profile on EstablishedMen.com is phoney. A very quick image search on Tineye or even Google Images will reveal where these scam merchants have stolen the pic from. Do yourself a favor, if you are looking for love stick with Match.com or POF and if it's just sex you want give AdultFriendFinder a go, there are a lot of protocols to learn but the quicker you learn them the quicker you'll get laid.

I joined EM as a SB- Black Female
Followed all their rules, terms and conditions
Upload my profile
Got a few likes and messages here and there
In less than 24 hours, my account was suspended and apparently they don't owe me an explanation.

Strange!

Even worse, prostitutes are mixed with bunch of scammers who want your money upfront. If you want a classy hot sugarbaby, look elsewhere where girls look and act like real sugar babies (not prostitutes). The best you can get out of your EstablishedMen membership are juicy chat messages and some nudes. Alas, these are usually fake photos and you could as well find them yourself on porn stars' Instagram accounts.

The site is run by absolutely disingenuous people who resort to using all kinds of tricks to entice you into paying, including fake photos and automatic sendouts of template letters done by bots. There are sites with real ladies where all women profiles are background checked, so chances to fall for a scammer are low. I feel the difference and I can say that these women are genuine by their wish to meet, their tact and politeness, they have great looks and vibrant personalities. It's nothing like Establishedmen.com, where they just make you exchange messages with bots until you remain unsuspecting. Just be smart and stay away from it!

Free options don't work. They stipulate that you buy premium membership to contact people who liked you. But then you can't find these people anymore. Established Men is just another dating scam with very few genuine profiles! The rest are just fakes who never reply when you contact them. Also there are many scammers. They always reply, but then they make up a sob story and ask you to help them out.

I have been with them for years and actually had some success with them. You just have to go thru a hundred scam profiles to get to the one real one. Be prepared to spend literally hundreds of hours to find the one legitimate girl. Lately, tho, things have gotten worse. It's like they no longer care that the vast majority of profiles are fake. Not only that - The last time I tried to sign up they actually took the money from my card and never activated my membership. Sent them three emails with no response...

This site is 100% scammers. They all send the same messages too so it's blantantly obvious. I am sure I will not get value for my investment here.

I have received quite a lot of messages on here but not as much as I did on other sites. Majority of the people who contacted me seemed to be rather sleazy and cheap.

I met a couple of genuine men but even though they were well off, they were stingy. Maximum allowance I was offered was £1500 per month, as opposed to the £3000-£8000 I get offered elsewhere. Not quite sure why that is.

It's worth a try you may have better luck than me.

Has many women that want their cash app filled girls in general aren't pretty or have multiple kids
Women don't pay but put the burden on the guy for info exchange
Basically craigslist personals at a cost

Every woman on this site wants you to send them money for gas to meet you or they want you to send them money because they say they are starving with promises of meeting you and they always have an excuse as to why they are unable to meet you. If you like throwing away your money then this site is for you as the women on here are a bunch of money grubbers.

Just about every woman I have texted from the site wants me to send money to her. If traveling to my city is involved, they want me to send money directly to them or to their personal travel agent instead of paying the airline. Tell me that's not a scam.

What a silly excuse for a dating site and why are they advertising so heavily on hot or not.com. It seems all of these scammy online dating sites are advertising on hotornot.com. Cougarlife and establishedmen? Please who would go to establishedmen to find someone. They use words like sugar daddy to describe the site. Do sugardaddy really go on these sites to find a young girl? I think they are just going to get conned.

This site is pretty much all fake profiles, loaded with catfish wanting money... Stay away and don't waste your time or money. Everyone of them so far want gas money, or car is broke down, none of them will facetime a call or send a selfie in real time as taken... its a scam

I just counted them and totaled 75 emails in 9 days. That is more SPAM than I get all together from grocery stores, hardware stores, and McAfee and Norton scams in a span of 14 days time. LOL :p How is that possible and not be a fake site? I am just not that popular of a guy with photos that look like Brad Pitt or George Clooney!

Not a good sight. Women are pretty much trying to get something ($) by scamming you. Buyer beware!

Was on this site a couple of years ago and found many sugar babies. But now just fake dishonest scammers with no working phone number that you can talk. They just want money via gift cards. No real ladies just bull$#*!. Site has been ruined and totally a scam.

I joined this site looking for a sugar baby. Every single girl I contacted asked for money almost immediately. None had a working phone so you could talk to them. They wanted money sent via Google Play gift cards. Total scam.

This site is nothing but a scam. NO ONE THERE IS WEALTHY. BUNCH OF LAME UGLY OLD LIARS. What a joke.

I have been a member of this site for about two years. And very active as well. And I am saying from that experience. THIS SITE IS A JUNK AND FULL OF... FAKES AND BOTS. MEN, STAY AWAY AND DON''T WASTE YOUR TIME IN THIS SITE.

Let me explain.

First, this site does NOTHING to weed out fakes. NADA, ZILCH. Any tom, $#*! and Harry can register in this site, claiming to be a man one woman. NO VERIFICATION, ZERO. Most of the profiles with the pix of women should be from some Eastern European countries who try to rip off guys in here. I have given my email id - and so do many other women profiles too - in a cryptic way and I was contacted by at least 300 (pretending to be women) guys so far. All of them follow the same pattern. First, they initiate email and hangout chat communication. Immediately in a day or two, will send some erotic pix of women downloaded from some porno website or something, claiming to be themselves. They will claim to be from some random state in the US, like New York or something. They all will say that, they were very much interested in meeting me. But, at first, they will ask me to help them by sending some gift card for $150 or something.And this COVID became wonderful excuse. They will be like, "Oh sweety, I love you so much and can't wait to meet you, but you see, this COVID is a big trouble. I lost my job and staying at my grandm's place and I need your help. Plz buy me a gift card for 200$ to buy groceries. I promise, I will meet you after that"

And if you look at the profiles, most of them will have the city and state which don't even match. Both will be state names like "New York / California", "Massachusetts / New York", "Florida / Atlanta" etc. I contacted the customer support and requested to make some simple measures to control these bots. But it fell in deaf ears. But every time, they claim to take sincere and serious measures to stop spammers, BS. They only advise me to mark the as spam, But that only stop those profiles from appearing in my search, not remove them from the site. Then I realized, that, this website guys INTENTIONALLY LET THE BOTS AND DON'T WANT TO DO ANYTHING ABOUT THEM. B/C, THEY WANT TO SHOW THAT THEY HAVE MILLIONS OF MEMBERS, I EVEN DOUBT IF THEY THMSELVES CREATED THOSE FAKES TO ARTIFICIALLY INFLATE THE MEMBER COUNT.

On the other hand, I tested 2 other sites, uploading some random pix downloaded from the net. They both caught me and found out the site where I downloaded them from and gave a warning, not to do that again, which will block me. THIS, gentlemen, is what is called a measure to block spammers.SO, ESTABLISGEDME N.COM IS A FAKE SITE. THOSE WHO WANT TO WASTE THEIR HARD EARNED MONEY, CAN GO THERE.

I had several messages from beautiful girls, some of them were the same girl with different screen names and different locations, but same pictures. They want to charge you the entire subscription at once... no way, I'm not giving this guys my credit card... LOL

I don't think men and women understand the definition of "established". This site is garbage. No one knows how to fill out a profile. Everyone's a scammer. No one uses their account. No pics, or 1 pics, and no bio equals fake or a scammer and a hustler. Everyone wants an email, still fake. Everyone wants bank in, hell no!. Everyone want's a number, app number only. You think you met someone real, a day later their account is no allowed to reply because of something they did or said to someone else. Noting but crazy people.