Established Men

The site is run by absolutely disingenuous people who resort to using all kinds of tricks to entice you into paying, including fake photos and automatic sendouts of template letters done by bots. There are sites with real ladies where all women profiles are background checked, so chances to fall for a scammer are low. I feel the difference and I can say that these women are genuine by their wish to meet, their tact and politeness, they have great looks and vibrant personalities. It's nothing like Establishedmen.com, where they just make you exchange messages with bots until you remain unsuspecting. Just be smart and stay away from it!

Every single profile on EstablishedMen.com is phoney. A very quick image search on Tineye or even Google Images will reveal where these scam merchants have stolen the pic from. Do yourself a favor, if you are looking for love stick with Match.com or POF and if it's just sex you want give AdultFriendFinder a go, there are a lot of protocols to learn but the quicker you learn them the quicker you'll get laid.

EstablishedMen is scam and spam. I like
AdultsFinder.club
Much better. I have already met 3 girls via this service so I will give credit to this site. As for EstablishedMen, they have more fakes that you can imagine. Whenever you see a pretty girl on EstablishedMen you can be 100% sure she is a scammer. Even women with average looks usually turn out to be scammers. You won't meet anyone no matter how hard you try and how much time and money you spend there. EstablishedMen is perfectly set up to rob people.

I have been with them for years and actually had some success with them. You just have to go thru a hundred scam profiles to get to the one real one. Be prepared to spend literally hundreds of hours to find the one legitimate girl. Lately, tho, things have gotten worse. It's like they no longer care that the vast majority of profiles are fake. Not only that - The last time I tried to sign up they actually took the money from my card and never activated my membership. Sent them three emails with no response...

Free options don't work. They stipulate that you buy premium membership to contact people who liked you. But then you can't find these people anymore. Established Men is just another dating scam with very few genuine profiles! The rest are just fakes who never reply when you contact them. Also there are many scammers. They always reply, but then they make up a sob story and ask you to help them out.

Every woman on this site wants you to send them money for gas to meet you or they want you to send them money because they say they are starving with promises of meeting you and they always have an excuse as to why they are unable to meet you. If you like throwing away your money then this site is for you as the women on here are a bunch of money grubbers.

Not an exaggeration. Not a single match was real. Either bots, escorts or scammers. What a waste of time. I cancelled even before my subscription ended to avoid the annoying, useless notifications.

I joined EM as a SB- Black Female
Followed all their rules, terms and conditions
Upload my profile
Got a few likes and messages here and there
In less than 24 hours, my account was suspended and apparently they don't owe me an explanation.

Strange!

I have received quite a lot of messages on here but not as much as I did on other sites. Majority of the people who contacted me seemed to be rather sleazy and cheap.

I met a couple of genuine men but even though they were well off, they were stingy. Maximum allowance I was offered was £1500 per month, as opposed to the £3000-£8000 I get offered elsewhere. Not quite sure why that is.

It's worth a try you may have better luck than me.

I don't think men and women understand the definition of "established". This site is garbage. No one knows how to fill out a profile. Everyone's a scammer. No one uses their account. No pics, or 1 pics, and no bio equals fake or a scammer and a hustler. Everyone wants an email, still fake. Everyone wants bank in, hell no!. Everyone want's a number, app number only. You think you met someone real, a day later their account is no allowed to reply because of something they did or said to someone else. Noting but crazy people.

I signed up as a guest just to see the pool. I would safely say that 90% of the profiles here are fake. Misspellings, horrible grammar (tips you off to foreigners scamming), email addresses (scammers), ant text numbers that are either hub/app controlled and certainly not in your area.

The membership is extremely costly, especially for what youre getting into. If these were legit profiles then hell yes, totally worth the money. However, as it is its absolutely garbage. Youd have much better results with Ashley Madison, I have. Keep your money fellas and wait for the host to clean up this trash then dole it out. Until then, I guarantee youre wasting your money. Disclaimer... I never have nor ever will pay for sex. For one its illegal (Sugar Daddy), and two Im not that hard up. Ive seen some comments saying that aspect is good but I wouldnt know nor ever will.