• AdultFriendFinder

AdultFriendFinder

Overview

AdultFriendFinder has a rating of 1.74 stars from 664 reviews, indicating that most customers are generally dissatisfied with their purchases. Reviewers complaining about AdultFriendFinder most frequently mention fake profiles, customer service, and gold membership problems. AdultFriendFinder ranks 721st among Dating sites.

  • Service
    91
  • Value
    92
  • Shipping
    28
  • Returns
    41
  • Quality
    81

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  • Customer service is beyond pathetic can never get a supervisor on the line.
  • You can pay for a Silver or Gold membership and meet people for sex.
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Top Positive Review

“Not for youngsters”

Seenvik H.
3/7/24

Youngsters, pass it by, it's not for y'all :) Jokes aside this is a great service uniting lone hearts around the globe =) I used it regularly and have no complaints at all. It was interesting for me how things are done here, but now, after testing the waters, I am like a fish in it. A couple of simple steps and you aren't alone anymore, and next day, and the following too. Ha, thank you guys for creating this dating service, for me it's of utmost importance having a such one under the belt.

Top Critical Review

“Illegal site. It is not free. Fake ladies that try to blackmail you. Do Not Sign Up. You regret it.”

Jerry B.
2/11/24

The site states "FREE". Wrong, it's not and the ladies are fake. A fake front to blackmail you. They threaten to post all your information on the web, but don't fall for it. They place very attractive pictures and a chart will start. You think you are taking to a lady but you are not. It's a scam. Do not send any photos of yourself. Avoid this site at all cost. I canceled and deleted all my information within a half hour.

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customer service (29) gold membership (26)
Thumbnail of user abua44
3 reviews
16 helpful votes
March 13th, 2023

Yes, it's legit but how good is it?
Dont bother with the free version.
I signed up a month ago. My experience is limited. Most of the responses I received were either from scammers or prostitutes. If you were a woman, you would find me very boring and undatable. The few real women I met, stopped communicating with me (as they should) after few messages. Those who didn't, were scammers. They ask you to move to a different platform to get you to send them money. They claim to be registered nurses who volunteered with the unicef to save children's lives. I received so many of those messages/emails you would think there's a special sale going on in the unicef these days. The website doesn't seem to track scammers or do anything about it.
The site suite those who seek wild stuff better. Group sex, couples, sadism/masochism, bandage... ect.
Expect an ample of nudity.
The site doesn't accept prepaid gift cards but accept regular credit cards and stores gift cards. For store gift cards, they'll use the entire balance.

Thumbnail of user ryank85
1 review
15 helpful votes
May 1st, 2018

Joined this as ive had such an awesome time on hookuphangout recently that I had to see if I could double the fun! It's not quite working out that way, it's not bad but not quite the same level. I get the feeling not many sites will be though. Will give it a bit longer, just in case.

Thumbnail of user tims215
1 review
8 helpful votes
February 24th, 2018

Been using AFF for years but I sometimes pause my membership and switch over to hookuphangout for a bit. Now with it being the festive season women will be completely gagging on meat and two veg, which has me totally f-ing confused as to which site to go for. Will prob use both, def HH as i've been on fire with that site recently man!

Thumbnail of user russellp114
2 reviews
38 helpful votes
March 30th, 2020

I joined AFF last week. Maybe ive been spoiled by HookupHangout but for me this site isn't all that yet. Yes their are women and yes they seem real which is good. But im struggling to get all that many replies yet. I concede that its still early days and I have heard a lot of good things about AFF but its one week gone and still no sex. Will see what next week brings

Thumbnail of user annl51
1 review
28 helpful votes
April 4th, 2016

As a woman its important to be able to use an advanced search to narrow results down as there are so many guys on this site. AFF has a really good search thingy and it saves me so much time going thru loads of ugly blokes pages. I usually stick with the sites that are free for women like Tinder and HookupHangout but will probably keep using this now too.

Thumbnail of user billyg63
1 review
5 helpful votes
June 15th, 2018

Sign up to this a week ago & not that impressed tbh. Dont see that its any better than hookuphangout or any of the other reliable sex search sites. Will give it more time & see what happens.

Thumbnail of user rogerm108
1 review
4 helpful votes
February 6th, 2017

I cant really decide why but im just not sold on adult friend finder. I prefer hookuphangout or some of the other new sites that are using new technology and seem to be part of an evolved dating experience if that makes any sense. AFF was amazing back in the day but I dont get lucky with it as often as I used to. Still beats jacking off in front of the box of course.

Thumbnail of user williamr979
1 review
13 helpful votes
May 5th, 2020

JOINED AFF 2 MNTHS AGO. SEEMS FINE. HAD SUM CHATS BT NOT MET ANY1 YET. WITH HOOKUPHANGOUT I HAD ALREADY BEEN LAID TWICE BY NOW (SAME CHICK BUT STILL! LOL). NOT GIVING UP THO AS HEARD AFF WORTH THE W8. STILL BANGIN THE HH CHICK ANYWAY LOL

Thumbnail of user drewg19
1 review
4 helpful votes
September 18th, 2017

I always use three sites at once, been doing NSA sex dating for donkeys years & learned long ago if youre going to do it, you have to go 'all in'. Three is usually enough but takes some time to figure out the good ones so let me help you. This is one of them, hookuphangout is another & personally I go for tinder as a free option but this really depends on where you live and how many women are on sites in your local area. Drew G, Aberdeen

Thumbnail of user russelld105
2 reviews
25 helpful votes
May 30th, 2020

I understand why some people like this but for me it's been a bit slow. Ive only got laid on "Hookup Hangout" before so I admit I don't have much to compare it with yet but for me both are good and im sure both work. Im just not going to say "go for it 110%" with this site until it gets my rocks off. When that happens, ill come back and update my review.

Thumbnail of user chrism411
1 review
7 helpful votes
October 5th, 2017

Let me say this first I did get laid on AdultFriendFinder. So it's not terrible or anything like that. But when I compare it to other sites I use (I use lots but lets take hookuphangout.com as an example) I just think that the balance between chatting to girls and actually screwing them or even meeting them is a bit skewed. But it does work and if you prepare yourself for 10 times more chat than actual sex then you'll do just fine!

Thumbnail of user davida244
1 review
16 helpful votes
April 18th, 2016

AFF is better than most sites out there for finding a shag. Its no that quick but then are any of these sites?! In fact all the time ive used the internet for sex ive only ever met a girl fast once and that was on Hookuphangout.com and so I always use that now lol! But AFF is good too, better than a lot ive tryed. I see plenty of girls in my area when I search and been shocked that there arent many fakes. Definitely worth a shot.

Thumbnail of user jayj63
1 review
17 helpful votes
April 18th, 2016

Aside from one night where I met a girl and ended up at the mercure hotel for a bit of slap and tickle, ive not seen as much action on this site as I do on HookupHangout.com, the other site I use. One night getting to third base isnt really worth three months of membership payments, even though they are cheaper per month when you buy three months in advance. But ive found it hard to get replies for chicks and meeting up with them is very difficult, as I say, one meeting in almost three months is not good enough.

Thumbnail of user michaelt242
3 reviews
5 helpful votes
October 3rd, 2017

I like AFF and have had good amounts of success. Granted it doesnt hurt that Im into kink and the swing lifestyle as well as being a bit more open minded than most. If youre shy in person or concealing your sexual orientation you might want to work on that first. As for me Im sticking with this site.

Thumbnail of user xx45
1 review
14 helpful votes
June 9th, 2018

There are scammers and fakers on this website - Con men. Their number is high. First, let me start of with the number of African romance / money scammers on this website. You can recognize these fake profiles from the face pictures, and how they're always "looking for love" or basically any type of scam where a "woman", after several messages, demands money to for instance fly to you. Corrupt Africa. There are also Russians or other Eastern Europeans performing this type of scam and money fraud.
Second, there are the fake profiles, possibly even created by the owner of the company itself (Too bad regulators don't look into that - If left unchecked, cybercrime will unfortunately, rise). Some examples of fake profiles are: "laurencan4u", "ilikeballs", "11blacknthick" and "priest926". The first three were all clearly written by the same person. They carry identical crappy spelling. Perhaps this was done to score fan points, or otherwise generate money for the website itself. The last profile example is boasting with porn pictures - Shot not by him (or her), but in the porn business. As the current President would call it: FAKE MEDIA.
Third, there are mentally unstable women on here. For whatever reason that maybe, you never know what happened in their past - I try to be kind to them.
With that being said, it is possible to get sex, as a single guy on this website (Yes - For the woman to definitely enjoy it, too). Personally I've talked with about 20 women on this website, 7 or 8 of whom I had sex with. My experiences lie in North America and in Europe. Not all were possible due to long distance issues in the real world. I also made some friendships with cute women.
In my experience, we checked and all were STD free (This however was mostly in Europe, not in the current "opioid infected" United States).
American girlfriends I did meet talked about married men (Up front, I am not married) courting them - That is just wrong. If you are in the position of having to lie to your spouse about sex - I ask myself, why are you married, in the first place.
Keep in mind women get overwhelmed by men, flooding them with messages. The female to male ratio on here is distorted, for sure.
There are also plenty of couples on AFF, with mostly the wife looking for an extra man or hunk.
Lastly, I've put the overall rating of the website in the middle, because of the high number of fakes and frauds active on here, as well.
Let me conclude with this - Unlike some other endorsed, or fake reviews placed on here - these are all legit, outside, observations.

Thumbnail of user scotti23
2 reviews
17 helpful votes
July 24th, 2018

Not sure what the fuss is all about here. Sure, its pretty damn busy but I dont think its any better than say Hookup Hangout. The most positive thing though I suppose is that we all have some good options rather than time wasting hookup sites and that can only be a good thing, trust me on that!

Thumbnail of user tonyh116
1 review
7 helpful votes
January 22nd, 2018

Last month was the first in a while I haven't got laid using AFF... I was like WTF but im keeping my cool reading these comments because a helluva lot of y'all aint been laid often ($#*!, some not at all) using the sites that work well for me (i'd also include hookuphangout.com on my top list). Ain't no doubt i've been doing pretty well but need to step up my game again and find me some of that sweet $#*! before I get all rusty an $#*!! Ladies, come to pappa! Goddam right!

Thumbnail of user cj189
1 review
15 helpful votes
April 17th, 2016

Good site, easy to use and easy to search/ contact people. Had quite a few replies and met a girl a couple of weeks ago, which was encouraging. She wasnt Miss America, but any port in a storm is my motto! I still think it falls behind HookupHangout.com but that could just be because I got laid threw that site last night LOL! Good times!

Thumbnail of user jb2081
1 review
0 helpful votes
March 6th, 2022

I actually had great years with AFF, but it has gone downhill.

BEWARE gift card scam:

Always say no, but if you do buy it, send pic of gift card/receipt. Next they'll ask you to scratch and get card # and PIN. Say bye bye. Then, they'll say, "come by anyway" -you'll get everything but the apartment #. Once there, it's their chance to get you. They'll tell you they don't want the card#/PIN -they want you to sign in and check card balance with that info on your own - but the link they give you is a fake control link. Once you enter info - they've got your card and deplete it immediately.

They'll leave. 90 cents on it... do not refill they get it again. GIFT CARD = SCAM

Happy hunting boys

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Thumbnail of user hans371
1 review
1 helpful vote
March 7th, 2017

Would anyone really take AFF in such a situ? I mean its nice to look at and has the history, no doubt, but there are better sites... e. g hookuphangout, pof, etc all worth a go. But if you aint on a desert island & aint limited to one site you'd have to be one stupid $#*! mofo not to at least run some searches on this site. Maybe it will work better for you than me but only one way to find out!

Thumbnail of user georgem186
1 review
1 helpful vote
December 26th, 2016

I'll be honest i was expecting another rubbish site full of scammers and time waters and frauds. Actually AFF isnt to bad in the end. Its a bit like that HookupHangout.com even if its not quite as good once you get into it you do actually get real results. Im not the reviewer type of guy but after getting laid a few times on these sites I decided to give sum feedback. Pay it forward I suppose, least I could do. Cheers.

Thumbnail of user anthonym151
1 review
3 helpful votes
May 3rd, 2016

I found this site very similar to a few others ive used like flirt.com and cheeckylovers.com. Then I found out they are all part of the same group! The same profiles were showing up on different sites! Still alright and the girls did respond sometimes and could be quite frisky, but because of this im sticking with hookuphangout.com its not let me down yet so well worth the twenty notes it costs me each month!

Thumbnail of user alanp82
1 review
3 helpful votes
July 24th, 2017

Amazed this site is still going. I've been using hookuphangout (brill site, check it out) the last few years but noticed an ad for AFF last week so decided to go for it. Been a long time since I was on AFF, not much has changed but it's still a good hookup site no doubt, lots of women (not hard to avoid the time wasters/ cam girls, always easy to notice) and price is what you'd expect from any sex search site really (they do offers too, worth keeping an eye out). Not the best but AFFs been going so long it has to be given some respect for that (clearly it's getting some folks laid)!

Thumbnail of user davidp942
2 reviews
5 helpful votes
October 4th, 2018

Dis site can be a bit ov a slow starta man but stick wiv it blood ul be getting ur reward soon ya know? If not hit hookuphangout.com, site is off the hook man, ladies be fit dere no doubts man

Thumbnail of user davidr923
1 review
0 helpful votes
July 13th, 2018

Dis site can be a bit ov a slow starta man but stick wiv it blood ul be getting ur reward soon ya know? If not hit hookuphangout.com, site is off the hook man, ladies be fit dere no doubts man

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